~DOTW~ 3rd March 2012- Nishmi, Gayatri and diary

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DOTW 03/03/2012


Hello all. How are you. This is my first ever DOTW so don't throw shoes if it's not nice.😆
Sorry guys I was supposed to do it yesterday lekin for some reason i couldn't. 😭
I think everyone knows what the discussion will be.NISHMI.😡
But there r many things to discuss related to this. And ther are more discussions as well.

As we know, Nikhil is being a bad husband. Neither does he give importance to her, nor her family. They are still young and might have took the wrong decision regarding divorce. Maybe and maybe not. As we know, Naksh had a way bigger problem about Nandini. But somehow they were successful to patch up. But they understood each other and never brought the DIVORCE topic. This clearly explains that Nishmi don't love each other that much. I don't want a divorce in the serial and who wants a second rashmi wedding? It will kill us to see another wedding. In my opinion, I would say, they rather get together and talk like Akshi said. But it's not possible as they are furiously angry at each other. My second opinion would be family support. These people are worsening the matter instead of helping them. They can turn things around but it's gonna be difficult as Nikhil is stubborn. As Akshi said, the reason is small, but it's not that small that it can be neglected.

Now I want your opinions. Do you want them to get divorced or not. If you don't, give your opinions on how to save the wedding.

Second problem. AKSHARA'S DIARY. I hated how they handled the track. Even Naitik did'n't speak up for her. These people never heard of nice things like diary writing or other nice stuff. Why on earth didn't they see from Akshi's point of view. And why didn't Akshi speak up? Why did they make a big fuss out of a small thing? So many questions. So many. It's ghuma phirake Akshara's fault. She never speaks up. Why did she say sorry? She could've explained the reason behind what she did. And how many people read the diary. If more, than 4 or 5. And don't they have the akkal to understand that people write personal things in a diary. They have a problem in Akshi writing about the jhula. Pagals. And Akshi. Why is she a small cat in front of them? Would the maheshwaris ever do that to Varsha? Even if they did, Varsha would definitely speak up. She can stand up for herself unlike Akshara. If she had spoken up, they wouldn't dare to insult her like this for a second time in future. Even Naitik didn't speak up.😡

In your opinion, how would you end the track? Would you make Akshara stand for herself?

Last but not the least Gayatri. Compare how she behaved with Akshi on the phone when she and Duggu went to mayka and how she talked with Rashmi after the phonecall. My father said that all saases are like this. They love their daughter but not bahu. You don't have to love her just talk nicely with a smiling face. But no, it's our g3. She is not the mother of Duggu. How dare she snatch him from Akshi? She keeps dominating the family when the men are not there to make things right. She even dominates Bhabima. It's high time she changes. For this, Akshi should take a step and change her "meri galti thi" attitude which she brings up after shouting at g3 which is again very very rare. She only calls Akshara her "beti" when she does something good like getting pregnant or like doing all preps in Nishmi wedding. In my words she kinda uses her. Beti bulaake lalaach dikhati hai. Pagal aurat.😡

I want you to share what necessary actions you want Akshi to take to repair Gayatri.

Make this topic healthy and pink. Please share your views otherwise my hard work will go in drains.😭 Bye bye.😃

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devakshi19 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Plz share ur views and press the like button. It would make me happy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post sumi...

NISHMI: 4 heaven's sake divorce shud nt happen...ab rashmi ki 2nd marriage n preps dekhne n uske pehle ka maatam dekhne ki himmat nhi h bilkul bhi...n apart frm it movie nhi le ke jaata cannot b a reason 4 divorce...if people start taking divorce 4 such petty issues to no1 vl remain married in dis world...wat kind of person nikhil is rashmi alwaz knew n she alwaz wanted dis type of husband only dats y she rejected suraj...dis time both r burning in anger dey need sum time 2 give deir decision a 2nd thot...

DIARY: diary writing is a very gud habbit n it is ones personal belonging n it is a platform where u open ur heart out...1st of all dat publisher shud nt ve read d diary n 2nd thing dere was nth 2 which ss reacted so badly...jhoola thing written in it pinched dem 2 which g3 commented but dat was true na as a doter akshara felt bad dat she had 2 return d jhoola but she did it 4 her sasuraal's pride so wat was rong in it...
naitik dint say anything in akshara's favour coz he was nt getting wat was happening around..if he had known he wud definitely ve supported akshara...
n i wud ve luvd 2 c naksh reading dat diary 2geder but dis nishmi na how 2 expect anything now...

AKSHARA: yes ofcourse i do feel dat its high time akshara speaks in front of g3...although v r nt tot 2 ans back our elders but wen elders cross all d limits u need 2 open ur mouth atleast take a strong stand 4 urself so dat nxt time nobody dares 2 insult u atleast wen u r nt rong...
g3 behaviour wid akshara seems 2 me a kind of relation b/w a owner n a servant...kuch achha kiya to wah wah otherwise tumhe koi nhi bacha sakta...n d way g3 treats akshara wen it cums 2 duggu is like ki akshara is a baby sitter who gets paid 4 luking after duggu...


n my heart saz ki akshara vl sooner or later speak out coz she is very possessive wen it cums 2 duggu n i vl eagerly wait 4 d day 2 cum...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

nice post sumi...


NISHMI: 4 heaven's sake divorce shud nt happen...ab rashmi ki 2nd marriage n preps dekhne n uske pehle ka maatam dekhne ki himmat nhi h bilkul bhi...n apart frm it movie nhi le ke jaata cannot b a reason 4 divorce...if people start taking divorce 4 such petty issues to no1 vl remain married in dis world...wat kind of person nikhil is rashmi alwaz knew n she alwaz wanted dis type of husband only dats y she rejected suraj...dis time both r burning in anger dey need sum time 2 give deir decision a 2nd thot...

DIARY: diary writing is a very gud habbit n it is ones personal belonging n it is a platform where u open ur heart out...1st of all dat publisher shud nt ve read d diary n 2nd thing dere was nth 2 which ss reacted so badly...jhoola thing written in it pinched dem 2 which g3 commented but dat was true na as a doter akshara felt bad dat she had 2 return d jhoola but she did it 4 her sasuraal's pride so wat was rong in it...
naitik dint say anything in akshara's favour coz he was nt getting wat was happening around..if he had known he wud definitely ve supported akshara...
n i wud ve luvd 2 c naksh reading dat diary 2geder but dis nishmi na how 2 expect anything now...

AKSHARA: yes ofcourse i do feel dat its high time akshara speaks in front of g3...although v r nt tot 2 ans back our elders but wen elders cross all d limits u need 2 open ur mouth atleast take a strong stand 4 urself so dat nxt time nobody dares 2 insult u atleast wen u r nt rong...
g3 behaviour wid akshara seems 2 me a kind of relation b/w a owner n a servant...kuch achha kiya to wah wah otherwise tumhe koi nhi bacha sakta...n d way g3 treats akshara wen it cums 2 duggu is like ki akshara is a baby sitter who gets paid 4 luking after duggu...


n my heart saz ki akshara vl sooner or later speak out coz she is very possessive wen it cums 2 duggu n i vl eagerly wait 4 d day 2 cum...

I agree with ur views. It is high time akshara said something and yes no 1 would remain married if they divorced for sucha small reason. and the diary toh. the track was so stupid.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very very nice post Sumi
and just the right thing to start the discussion
I dont have much time- but here are my few points
if I get time will add up to it
as of now--------
yes we surely dont want to see another rashmi wedding & more than that we dont want akshi to slog for the preparations----------this time with the baby taking care of him & pleasing G3
Surely M's wouldnt have done the way S's & specailly G3 is doing for akshi-----------I know varsha can stand up to herself but another big point with Ms is dadi who is more ensible & can sense things----which is not there for S's------------for sometime we could see Baisa though-----------so G3 tends to dominate (not in presence of men----as U rightly said it)
Akshi surely cant speak up----------so the thing dies it slow death----------but surely we want to have its right end-----------not just leave it
and the last point before I end for the day-----------
I think the CVs want to show problems going to extremes in all the marriages as they r again doing it with nishmi-------1st with naksh-------then Mohit-nandu and now nishmi
Every marriage cant have such problems-----------they should have spared nishmi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post friend.for my opinion rashmi ll rejoin his life she adjust little bit means k for aksara point of view their started the life less time to understand each others so they need some time. And the diary matter ss are brainless and selfish people they dont think others opinion they think there points good and right i hate dadaji points. He is not a elder person activities for diary matter .g3 she is worst person she have no brain and always shout aksara bcz she is a motherinlaw very worst character.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very intresting topic i will res for now tym for me to think of my answers lol
sanw thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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its not an update😲
its a serious discussion😆

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