always loved your updates and this post is also wonderful. Regarding the Q&A, I would just like to say that I believe true love has the power to forgive and forget. So i want to see bani standing by jai's side...
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MT!
My answers to your Q&A are a bit dated, but I couldn't resist. Love your Q&A's.. thanks for keeping us all engaged...
Here goes....
Originally posted by: mistletoe
If a love is as encompassing as Bani's love for Jai, does it also have the power to forgive every past mistake committed by Jai, however painful it might have been? Alternatively, Does True Love possesses the power to ultimately forgive and forget everything?
Tough question MT!! Although one hopes that the word love, is synonymous with forgiveness and understanding.. The best part of love is its strength to persuade beings to understand another's pain and mistakes. While, accepting their folly's and forgiving their errors. But, each situation has to warrant its own viewing. In this instance with Jai and Bani, I sure as hell hope that forgiveness figures in the picture.We assume, that Jai has committed a huge mistake in his past, and we hope that Bani's love for him will survive the revelation. Hard to tell...
Sometimes, no matter how much love exists between people... actions are too strong to overcome the emotions. I hope that thats not the case with Jai and Bani.
From what we can see so far, he is repentant... and is genuinely a good person. Whatever he did may not reflect who he is with her, or now....
So, we'll see how the shades of grey play out in this story.....
Do you think that Ranveer is playing a double-game with Saahil wherein he dupes Rano into marrying him while Saahil is forced to marry Raashi? Or will Saahil and Rano end up eloping and getting married, bringing shame and misery to Bani all over again?
I know that Ranveer hates the Dixit sisters...and I certainly can't see him holding a candle for, or wanting to marry Rano himself. What he might get kicks from, is duping poor Rano into showing up somewhere, so that he can get Sahil married off to Raashi. I do think that Rano and Sahil may elope though. It looks like its slated for such a move...and the story would be open for Jigs to come back, to the rescue of her beloved kids, while ready to kill Bani... hence bringing Jai dear to the rescue...and poor Ranveer to the alter afterall. Ah, how the mighty might fall 😉. Remains to be seen, no?
Bani has always understood Jai's silence more than his words. Do you think that Bani knows Jai has fallen in love with her? Or is she clueless about what Jai is going through?
To a great extent Bani has understood Jai's silence. She has also borne his silences, chalking his behavior upto his anger for Pia. But, when it comes to her, she is least cognizant of his true feelings. Why would she be.. till a short while back, he hated her. Why would she ever think otherwise. When it comes to Bani.. Jai is just gonna have to show her.. and share his emotions with her. Things, and trinkets won't do it for Bani. Sharing and including her will show her his feelings.
Bani telling Jai that if the cost of knowing Jai's past is not seeing him ever again, then she would rather not know anything about him. Jai was thunderstruck on hearing this from Bani. Do you think it was this statement that suddenly put all his feelings into perspective or was it the dark fear of losing Bani that made him come to terms with his emotions.
In a way, I think what you say above happened simultaneously MT; or so I think. Jai, probably had started to feel for Bani, more and more. From a physical attraction, to a growing respect, to a sense of attachment and finally love.... when she said that she didn't want to know about Park Road, it showed him that she wanted to be in his life. He was starkly presented with the idea that indeed, she might leave him... or could very well be lost from his life. I think confronting the possibility of the situation has led him to question the depth of his feelings and his real motivations about his marriage. Which we saw in the June 30 episode, are not without strength....
A very debatable question; We have seen both Jai and Bani falling in love with one another and experiencing the agony and ecstasy associated with such an intense love. Who's Love do you think is greater? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons!
Ohhhh... tough one MT! Where one might automatically say Bani,,... just because we have been privy to her thoughts all along.. I think that we'd be jumping the gun. I'd say both of them have equally strong love for one another.
For Bani, its all bundled together. From the institution of marriage, to being the bahu of a family, to being Jai Walia's wife, to being Jai's wife... all of it is important to her. She now loves a man.. She can't bear to part from him., and would do anything for him...
If we say that Jai has never really known love before.. Roshni and Pia were infatuations etc... then he is just slow to learn. But now that he has accepted Bani.. he is ready to do whatever it takes to be with her and to protect her. I think they both share a deep and abiding love for one another...the heart of the show😉
Do you think that Jai finally admitting that Pia hurt his Ego more than break his heart showed the mark of a true man, who finally admits the truth to the woman who has seen the most terrible and dark side of him? Does Jai's faults and failings make him the most humane and relatable amongst all the characters in KS?
Most definitely, an affirmative to all of your questions. Seeing Jai, with shades of grey, one can relate so much more to his actions. We probably see our worst in him, when he is at his worst. Almost a mirror image... in that respect the show has portrayed a real man.
And yes, I do think that it was the mark of a true man to be able to accept his failings and admit to them in front of the one who has been most affected by it. It was a really raw and real moment in their story.
Do you think the new entry (Rockstar Sandy) is a Cameo Appearance (Only for this episode) or will he become the reason for Jai's intense jealousy and possessiveness when he sees Sandy taking an unusual interest in his wife? Coupled with the Park Road secret coming out and the entry of a rival, will Jai head towards an emotional breakdown and confess in the same way that Bani had broken down just before their consummation? Will Life come to a full circle for Jai, as he goes through the same agony & misery that Bani went through when she saw Jai and Roshni together?
hmmm...not so sure about the jealousy angle... but I do think that RockStar Sandy is a plot mover character, rather than a cameo. We shall see how he's invo.lved. I think more than jealousy... fear of losing Bani to the secrets of the past, will prompt Jai to confess. We shall have to see if love is enough to hold them together,.... happily!
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PS: Thanks for getting us thinking MT! We love your Q&A's. Lets hope that Love Actually does save the day for Jai and Bani😕
Hi MT. Enjoyed reading your Q&A and responses . Here's what I think.
A lot of us have always maintained that Bani fell in love with Jai the moment she became his wife, but realized much later on…..But the most interesting aspect of Jai and Bani's relationship has been the discovery of Love by Jai for his much unwanted wife! Please comment on Jai's journey from 'detestation in marriage' to 'desperation in love' that he has experienced for Bani from the day he got married to her till the fear of losing his wife forever entered his heart.
I don't think Bani fell in love with him from the 1st day she married him. She respected him. she has seen him at his worst and his best. Their love grew day by day silently by living under the same roof. For her it was easier because she did not start with hate whereas he started with hate, tolerance & acceptance of Bani came slower to him because of this hate. Only when he began to see her as an individual (not Pia's sister) that he began to like her. The Anu's pregnancy fiasco was necc to show J her nature to open his eyes. Since then he has looked at her differently and subtlely started to occupy a space in his heart. The consumation scene was impt it showed with all defences down he loved her but the next morning all defences up and emotional block. The fear of losing her only came about with the accidents. It is this fear which will make him accept her place in his heart. he puts her happiness before his.
If a love is as encompassing as Bani's love for Jai, does it also have the power to forgive every past mistake committed by Jai, however painful it might have been? Alternatively, Does True Love possesses the power to ultimately forgive and forget everything?
She may forgive him in time to come but not immediately she will be torn between her love for him and his mistake. She will be withdrawn bec she needs to sort out her feelings. If the mistake involves the death of her mother she will be in greater turmoil. All this while she is unaware that he loves her. At the accident at the godown, J was ready to tell her the secret and at the same time he told her how he repented that mistake. SHe did not want to hear it. SHe will keep that in mind too before she can ultimately forgive him. Yes I believe true love can forgive and forget but not immediately but definately over time.
Do you think that Ranveer is playing a double-game with Saahil wherein he dupes Rano into marrying him while Saahil is forced to marry Raashi? Or will Saahil and Rano end up eloping and getting married, bringing shame and misery to Bani all over again?
I don't think he will do that. He is just encouraging Saahil to run away bec he knows the implications and trouble it will cause Bani. He expects Bani to be kicked out so that his mother can return. He will know exactly where S&R will be hiding. Once Jigs is back he plans to get Saahil married to Raashi. I think that is his gameplan.
Bani has always understood Jai's silence more than his words. Do you think that Bani knows Jai has fallen in love with her? Or is she clueless about what Jai is going through?
I don't think she knows of J's love for her. She just believes he thinks it is a mistake and he is just being nice to her.
Bani telling Jai that if the cost of knowing Jai's past is not seeing him ever again, then she would rather not know anything about him. Jai was thunderstruck on hearing this from Bani. Do you think it was this statement that suddenly put all his feelings into perspective or was it the dark fear of losing Bani that made him come to terms with his emotions.
I think it is a combination of both.
A very debatable question; We have seen both Jai and Bani falling in love with one another and experiencing the agony and ecstasy associated with such an intense love. Who's Love do you think is greater? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons!
I hope that their love is equally intense but I feel Jai's love is greater simply bec he has had a bit more experience.😉. He has experience love for Roshni, Pia and etc... though the intensity of love is diff from what he feels for Bani. He will be able to compare. Our Bani is too simple. Just one infatuation for Pushkar.
Do you think that Jai finally admitting that Pia hurt his Ego more than break his heart showed the mark of a true man, who finally admits the truth to the woman who has seen the most terrible and dark side of him? Does Jai's faults and failings make him the most humane and relatable amongst all the characters in KS?
It shows he has come to terms with the Pia fiasco and admitting it to Bani was to show he was willing to share a part of himself with her. Yes his faults and failings makes him a more human character. Sometimes I would like to see Bani's failings so that she would appear more natural. Nobody's perfect. Maybe with the revealing of the raaz we may see that.
Do you think the new entry (Rockstar Sandy) is a Cameo Appearance (Only for this episode) or will he become the reason for Jai's intense jealousy and possessiveness when he sees Sandy taking an unusual interest in his wife? Coupled with the Park Road secret coming out and the entry of a rival, will Jai head towards an emotional breakdown and confess in the same way that Bani had broken down just before their consummation? Will Life come to a full circle for Jai, as he goes through the same agony & misery that Bani went through when she saw Jai and Roshni together?
Originally posted by: lighthouse
Hey MT...I don't think I have heard this song before..is it from a movie and who is the singer?