Originally posted by: anushka_5
MT & LH!
When i said i place Ranveer's gesture at par with Bani's selfless act for her sisters i wasnt mentioning Bani agreeing to Jai's marriage... i was talking about a larger spectrum. About how both of them can be selfless when it comes to their family and loved ones. I really havent seen Ranveer being selfish perse... his actions are always based on his need to protect his family from the Dixit Sisters(He thinks they are EVIL!)
Coming to Bani's decision to marry Jai... she was almost forced into the wedding by Jigyasa's emotional pressure. So that was more of an involuntary... 'I Dont have another option' kind of a decision. While Ranveer took the decision in complete sense and without anyone forcing the decision on him which only meant he was ready to go any extend for the sake of his family. which is what makes him selfless... and this was what i was trying to say. I do agree he doesnt have to put with a wrath and jury of a person similar to Jai...but still it really doesnt make the situation any different. Ranveer's decision came almost in an impulse... he didnt have the time to think and ponder on his decision... it would have been as difficult for him as it was for Bani.
Anu.
Anu,
I hear what you are saying that Bani's and Ranveer's selfless acts are similar except I feel that Bani's act was of higher sacrifice ....Ranveer could never do what Bani did knowingly.
Greatness of an act is measured by taking the action when knowing how dire the consequences can be and Bani was brave to put herself in a hell of a situaton while marrying Jai...
Ranveer on the other hand is not doing anything that is not done many a times in a traditional Indian family.....
Hey but like everyone, I enjoy the spotlight on Ranveer and it gives our eyes a little variety from Jai and Bani...and Jai a much needed rest...
Luv,LH