if khushi wanted to live with shyam - Page 2

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

No anmol sa, I disagree

Even if khushi would have wanted to live with Shyam, she would not have deserved this. She may be labeled a home breaker, immoral, loose woman but her abuse on the hands of the show's lead would still not be acceptable.

Even mamiji who is a negative character in the show does not deserve any ill-treatment or slap or abuse from Mamaji or anyone.

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I am not saying Arnav cannot feel anger or hatred towards khushi, but he can do it in a way that does not teeter towards domestic abuse. Would he have dared to do anything like this if Khushi had a rich and powerful brother or uncle or dad? No.

She is helpless, recently orphaned because her so-called family deserted her. Kicking her mental gut at a time like that is not MANLY. Why can't Arnav do it to Shyam? Shyam is an equal participant in this equation?

Is abuse now the only way ASR can FEEL real love later? There are many more creative and better ways to show hatred and anger, abuse is not one of them. He can stop talking to her, be indifferent to her, let her be on her own, keep his distance, not answer her questions, leave the room when she wants to talk, tell her to leave him alone etc. But pushing, shoving, pulling, throwing her out of the room, leaving her out cold when we dont even do that to our dogs in Delhi winter is not how it is done.

I sooo agree with you. Here is another thing. Arnav could have done anything to Khushi had he simply felt her character is low by fooling with a married man. The problem I have is that Arnav is doing this all to Khushi not ONLY because of what she's done to Anjali, but what she's done to HIM. And therein lies the biggest issue. Why not just ask the girl? Why not give her money and threaten her? The fact of the matter is that he is afraid to hear Khushi say with her own mouth that she indeed loves Shyam and NOT HIM!!!! That is why he's so heartless and cruel. Is she disgusting because she loved a man who may not have been available to her? No, its because she doesn't want THE Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada. That fact makes his treatment the most cruel and sad all at the same. It is fueled by such intense emotion, and that is why he's so cruel. He will repent, for sure, but Khushi will have scars for a long time.

yar, even if kushi is bad, she should have given a chance to speak her side right?

Originally posted by: reniji66

I sooo agree with you. Here is another thing. Arnav could have done anything to Khushi had he simply felt her character is low by fooling with a married man. The problem I have is that Arnav is doing this all to Khushi not ONLY because of what she's done to Anjali, but what she's done to HIM. And therein lies the biggest issue. Why not just ask the girl? Why not give her money and threaten her? The fact of the matter is that he is afraid to hear Khushi say with her own mouth that she indeed loves Shyam and NOT HIM!!!! That is why he's so heartless and cruel. Is she disgusting because she loved a man who may not have been available to her? No, its because she doesn't want THE Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada. That fact makes his treatment the most cruel and sad all at the same. It is fueled by such intense emotion, and that is why he's so cruel. He will repent, for sure, but Khushi will have scars for a long time.

On a side note: Even on the worst serials there is atleast ONE person on the protagonist's side; if ONLY ONE! Is there no one who will be on this poor girl's side???? I hate to stop watching, but I have to. I feel like if I stop watching, atleast, maybe I'm on her side. Crazy I know, but that's how I feel right now.

Like this POV !