Im confused??? wat did kunal think during SR...

hy guys im confused...siddhi was highly comfortable during their consumation...i mean a man will defo be knowing whether the women is comfortable or not but kunal dint understand it at all does it make sense...if kunal can remember the consumation then he must also remember how siddhi reacted to it she dint push him nor she shouted i mean...nothing opposing from siddhi side...how cum still kunal din understand...

even i am also so confused...???

hi

kunal feels just like he got carried away dat night , his emotions over ruled his reasoning power , nd sinal ended up consummating , in the same away even siddhi got carried away in her emotions ...he is of this opinion dat the consummation from siddhi's side was only coz of emotional outbreak nd not coz she loves him , unlike his which was a combination of both love as well as emotions ...hence he feels this way ...but little does he not know ...dat that night was most beautiful moment of siddhi's life ..coz she willgingly sumbitted herself to the man she loves the most , her life , her husband ...if only siddhi would care to express her feelings for kunal ..things wuldnt have been soo worse..

Originally posted by: tanyashrivastav

kunal feels just like he got carried away dat night , his emotions over ruled his reasoning power , nd sinal ended up consummating , in the same away even siddhi got carried away in her emotions ...he is of this opinion dat the consummation from siddhi's side was only coz of emotional outbreak nd not coz she loves him , unlike his which was a combination of both love as well as emotions ...hence he feels this way ...but little does he not know ...dat that night was most beautiful moment of siddhi's life ..coz she willgingly sumbitted herself to the man she loves the most , her life , her husband ...if only siddhi would care to express her feelings for kunal ..things wuldnt have been soo worse..

Originally posted by: roshani45

well i agree with you about kunals pov. but before the consummation she was telling him my husband was with another woman, she was insisting on that point ( that she couldn't tolerate her husband with another woman). now the question is if she doesn't love him why would she feel like that? did he ever think about this ?

I agree with Roshani. Logically common sense would have prevailed and Sinal would have started their romance by now. But this is soap and EK CV's are hell bent on pushing this as much as they can to prolong the serial
I am more or less convinced that CV's do not have a firm plan on what they would like to do to get Sinal confess. There were many other logical ways to achieve that. Based on viewer feedback, TRP's etc, they keep on adding new tracks in the name of getting Sinal closer and create all this unnecessary MU's which do not seem logical et all. I agree with some members that these unnecessary MU's has reached saturation point . I would also add that it has become repetitive and boring.

@red: From Kunal's POV , he could not find any other reason to stop her that night[ we all know how many attempts he made to stop her that night ]. Combined that with his love for her, his emotions took over at that point and consumation happened. But knowing his onesided thinking, he has blanked out the part where she kept on repeating she cannot see another woman with her husband. Barsi, seeing Siddhi hug anand's photo , Siddhi not objecting to div , Siddhi's behaviour yesterday after Vday dinner etc all have contributed and confirmed Kunal's one sided thinking. We all know once Kunal has made up his mind, very difficult to change.


From Siddhi's POV, she loves Kunal and thought Kunal loves her too and hence willingly did the consumation. But his behaviour changed next day , then div, then yesterday's mention of anand and div. No where did he mention that he loves Siddhi. He only has said he thinks she is anand's love and anand loved her and their was a compromise marraige. We all know Kunal is equally devastated on losing Siddhi [ and he was hoping that Siddhi would object to div].
Siddhi assumes [ everyone in Chopra family have gold medals in assumption], that Kunal does not love him [ only Seema has seen that and Siddhi only saw once in his eyes ]. But she does not think or know that Kunal loves her but is doing all this becoz he thinks she only loves Anand.

Both are seriously in love with each other and their characters as have been shown throughout are atleast consistent on this part so far. They look out for others happiness than their own.
Both by not clearing this MU[ they do not think there is any MU] are assuming they are doing right for happiness of other partner and thereby creating more MU's and hurting themselves big time.

But as i mentioned, all this MU and onesided selective thinking is courtesy our CV's who need be clear of themselves of where and how they want to take this serial further.

In the serial so far i.e from the beginning to now, we have never ever been shown Kunal thinking from others perspective whether Anand, Richa , thakral, his mom dad.. he has always been shown as thinking and assuming things according to what he feels right and acting accordingly whether it was asking Annad to break his engagement with Sidhi , or slapping Raveena for going in car with Rohit or mis understanding Sidhi, even for the girl he loved most , Richa, who ment so much to him, he broke up with her but for once did not try to think from her point of view, he thinks only in one direction,whatever his mind says, he gets fixed to it without thinking, understanding what other want, what they think, he has been shown as so stubborn and egoistic that he will always do what he think is right, only one incidence where he thought logically was when he supports Sidhi regarding Raveen and rohit's marriage when Gauarv is shouting on her if I remember correctly.

Comming to the point as always he is thinking from his POV, he thinks he has done wrong and divorce is the only solution , Sidhi will be happy after divorce so he is hell bent on getting divorce, because of his basic nature , thinking only in one direction he has made up his mind that Sidhi loves Anand and can never love him, he neither wants to see anything nor understand anything from Sidhi's POV, what Sidhi feels doesn't matter to him in the sense that he is not used to thinking from others POV

If he is shown thinking logically or practically from Sidhi's point of view, it will be so out of his character so only solution is Sidhi opening her mouth and telling him that she loves him, it is Sidhi who has to take the first step otherwise no hope
how will it happen only EK knows.