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@Mages

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Posted: 13 years ago

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sorry yaar for the very late reply...me n mom both are suffering from fever...

i read the whole analysis...wow its just beautiful...i have no words to even pen down...so amazingly written...so meaningful

i agree with you love before marriage is different n love after marriage is different...marriage comes with adjustment with you better half...whether its good or bad...adjust with it n slowly change it...adjustment is not easy...especially when you live life with your own terms n condition...your better half might have his/her own terms n conditions of living life...adjusting with each other lifetstyle is difficult...studying each other attitute...mannerism...this all comes with marriage...and also marriage is not only of union of hearts but also 2 families...where one needs to adjust with their terms n conditions...marriage is adjustment...but then in this adjustment...husband-wife if too make a successful marriage they have bring certain elements to make a marriage a beautiful journey...for example trust...understanding...friendship...bonding...protection...support...all this elements join together n thats what make a beautiful marriage...it comes with adjustments then knowing...understanding...studying each other...then friendship...a trust is bonded...than love...

SiNal marriage have been wonderfully portray this elements...another couple i would like to mention is sooraj-sandhya of DBAH...SurYa-SiNal both couples their love story of love after marriage is so real...thats what happen in real life...n the way its being shown is just amazing journey...thats what happen in arrange marriage...lets term SiNal marriage as arrange marriage...we all know its compromise...but then the journey of their bond is beautiful n since day 1 there was no issue of compromise...so i will term it as arrange marriage...minus veena factor...even if anand was alive...SiNal were destined...somehow fate might play a trick...to unite SiNal...as anand was a cupid to unite them

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 13 years ago

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u no, that sounds like something my mom once told me. she was talking about real life and real love and real marriage. I used to talk about how my prince in shining armor will come on a white horse and sweep me off of my feet (cinderella was my favorite). Anyways, I remember her telling me how maybe living separately we'll "love" each other but thats only because we'll only be putting up with each other for a couple of hours. The real deal is when you know him inside and out (like u said:sleeping habits, sharing stuff, etc) and not like Walt Disney Movies where he supposedly risks his life to save yours because you're different and intrigue him!

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: brainychild92
u no, that sounds like something my mom once told me. she was talking about real life and real love and real marriage. I used to talk about how my prince in shining armor will come on a white horse and sweep me off of my feet (cinderella was my favorite). Anyways, I remember her telling me how maybe living separately we'll "love" each other but thats only because we'll only be putting up with each other for a couple of hours. The real deal is when you know him inside and out (like u said:sleeping habits, sharing stuff, etc) and not like Walt Disney Movies where he supposedly risks his life to save yours because you're different and intrigue him!

i dont mean to sound like a very old lady 😉 but I think with age your views change. In no way i am discouting the love before marriage. just meaning to say that if one doesnt marry the one we love and fall in love with the hus/wife later after marriage..the previous love cannot take the place of hte hus/wife..

i feel, its easy to fall in love..but to keep fallin in love all over again with the same person throughout the life..to keep the rel alive for life is something else..

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: poshah

i dont mean to sound like a very old lady 😉 but I think with age your views change. In no way i am discouting the love before marriage. just meaning to say that if one doesnt marry the one we love and fall in love with the hus/wife later after marriage..the previous love cannot take the place of hte hus/wife..

i feel, its easy to fall in love..but to keep fallin in love all over again with the same person throughout the life..to keep the rel alive for life is something else..

of course not, he would always have a different place (if a place.. i mean sometimes its not even true love) but ya thats what i'm tryin to say.. ajj kal, nobody tries to keep it alive.. i mean he/she disagrees with me so we can't be together anymore.. not trying to look past it and see what really matters. i mean personally i've seen mom-dad disagree the time but its the little things that have kept them together..

if u think abuot it, none of the princess's (except jasmine) tried to understand their "real" prince... it was a quick you-saved-my-life and lets-get-married; how about getting to know who he really is first...

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