Thendral Tuesday-Feb 14, 2012 - Page 6

Originally posted by: shubba

@chechi - i said the same thing too...wont it be easy for GW/Lav further to convince TA to marry C, if they could easily make a bad impression on T by using C as a reason for the same. Like u said, what if he found what all C did later after getting divorce.
Actually when Lavanya said she does not want to go to her MIL house and beg for her life,Why didn't Puvi/TA/Sudha did not ask her if they have to look for someone else for her to marry. According to them if H/W are separated they have to marry a new one. That would have been enough for them rather than just talking/adivising pages and pages. But still then those shameless would even argue they were right.
Acc to GW, if she did so much thyagam to raise their kids, her kids can be sold for money? Her kids never told they will not take care of her until they found about her dirty intentions.
Okie, acc to GW TA/PA cheated her, left her all alone inspite of her struggles she faced to raise them, but what has she done to lav life?
She spoilt her dter's life just for the sake of money. So she ultimately is cheating herself too and best is both the losers(GW/Lav) are not realising at all. I agree that GW might have got enough grudge on TA/T for marrying without her consent, but what about Lav's life. She is/was ready to risk lav life and bring a good life for TA. What is her censored logic here? She ultimately played with so many ppl lives(Lav,TA, T, C and many). Best is Lav accepts her mom is bad, but still want to support her as she cannot adjust with anyone...Nice example,...like dter, like mom. we will do anything for our own, but none shd question us. I want someone to go behind Lavanya and irritate them rather than someone going behind Nitish, this would be best treatment for them.

Shubba, i think on this count we cannot blame TA..

Originally posted by: vjayam

Shubba, i think on this count we cannot blame TA..

Agreed TA listened to a whole lot and got angry with T, but the main reason was his thinking that her attitude or her possessiveness of him is coming in the way of charu's and lav's life...and he has repeatedly told abt his intentions reg psycho and T herself never has doubt on that count. Her only prob is with TA's impatience and anger and believing others over her.. so TA's comment reg T for 7 births is 100% genuine and at any time there was no doubt on that...

I agree that he was genuine to his talks, but if we just go back, his promises to T looked even more genuine, like he alw said dont u trust me, dont u trust me, none can come inbtwn us etc etc...I agree that C role played an important factor here, but at one point of time, he shd have looked upon his life too, what he is doing to T and that they are separated too. He failed to notice until C openly admitted it to him, atleast a little suspicion from his side would ahve been a consolation.
His timing for his 7 births was totally bad.😕...These words if it had come after T/T talks would have been more effective though. Hope he again puts up such strong words to them again. Now that i wonder what values will TA's words have after going to the level of divorce after he spoke/promised so much to T, he knew TA was her life, but still gg to this level..😕..This is what i could never accept that dialogue though i knew it was genuine when he said to GW/Lav. He is too hasty at his decisions...eduthom kavuthom nu...not even thinking what went wrong, where things went wrong. I hope T/T discuss all these things and mutually understand each other's feel and come up well against all the odds...

Thanks a ton for the nice update. Bhujjima bhujjipa was kodumai. Mr k, you have tortured us for the month, so no more of Anand unless you want to expose him. I wonder what is SQ's plan to support her mother? Nit will definitely close th account. Is sh thinking of extorting from GP cash threatening to go to court? I wish some fraud Like KP pretending to be rich courts her and Sq arrogantly hands the divorce papers to Nit and he signs it. This way Nit is free from her without partin with compensation.

[quote=Shubba]With respect to Lavanya's character, i think many of us were totally not convinced as why Lav who seemed to be genuinely affectionate to her brother just took a sudden U turn...I tihnk yday's epiode/earlier last week(when TA was leaving to Blore) was an answer to it.

She always wants to have an upper hand and be dominating in the place whereever she is. She not able to adjust with her In-laws is a good example for this.
And I wonder if she chose T for this reason for TA. If T becomes TA's wife then T being all soft and vulnerable, she can always be superior in her house as she was not having that freedome wrt Sudha.
She said at any cost she would not go and fall at her MIL feet just bcos her mom was wrong. So it means she knows her mom's intentions are wrong and supported her mom for her own selfish intentions. Getting TA married to C and putting C under control she can control both the familes...This was her attitude all along probably.
She need to learn her lessons hard deftly.[/quote]
Spot on shubba! Good analysis on Lav's characterization. 🤢

@red But she doesn't seem to realize the problems that will arise in ponnu koduthu ponnu eduthal. If GW/TA try to control pei or something goes wrong with her life it will definitely reflect badly on Lav's life. Duh. If they ill-treat pei she is going to get ill-treated at Nit's house.

She has no solid reason to develop this much animosity towards T. If I remember right when Nitheesh tried to propose her during the days she thought he was pei's driver. She told him to come and talk to her mother. Everyone would have thought what a nalla ponnu ! Who knows she might have told him because she very well know she won't approve it as she knew her mother's greed for money and status. If she rejected him outright he would have tortured her by following her everywhere to impress her and make her accept his love. She probably told him to talk to her mother just to put an end to his nuisance, but jumped at the opportunity when Nitheesh's parents came forward and asked her hand for marriage to GW. It seems like she married him just for money. How could she be happy after getting separated if she truly loved him?! 😕

The inconsistency in characters irks us. Like u said director probably does all these things to make the serial intresting and unpredictable. 😕 But he should also consider our views and satisfy our expectations. 100 episode torture 1 episode kalakkal to the core. It doesn't work that way. Kumaran should realize it.

At this point who is responsible for maintaining LA? Since she is pregnant Nit has a duty to feed her. He could do that by closing the bank account but dropping groceries and vegetables and fruits at Gw's place on a weekly basis. For doctor's visits just pay the doctor instead of giving her the money.this way he will be doing his duty as well as keeping her under control. He should also think of moving out of Gp's bungalow and rent a small place. Get paid for his office work by GP instead of having access to GP's cash. This way SQ will know that when she comes back she is not coming back to GP's richness but Nit's hardship. Will Nit be ready for this hardship? Families are exposed to gold diggers because of Lazy sons like Nit.Sq should be made to realize that she has rights only over what Nit earns and not what GP earns. The way Sq acts is like she has more rights in that house than even Periamma.

Originally posted by: jinju

Even today he did not feel bad for all the physical and mental abuse T underwent with GW. He was just yelling his mother for deceiving him. 😕 How pathetic ! He should have told I'm ashamed to be son of such a arakki like you.

Also like someone mentioned in TS. He should have sutti katified Lav's nelamai is more or less same at her MIL's house indeed. As they are nowhere close to the status of Nitheesh's family. So she should have been more understanding and compassionate towards T. She behaves like she was born with a silver spoon. 😡🤢

I love Tamil's expression when he scold his mom and lavanya..really superb..its look natural..🤗👍🏼

Originally posted by: sulaayini

I love Tamil's expression when he scold his mom and lavanya..really superb..its look natural..🤗👍🏼

Thanks for the super updates!!

Thanks Jeya akka for the wonderful and great Update!👏🤗