What's next for Thuls? - Page 2

@MahaUS - Good question about forgiving MM & TA - I would like to add two cents worth

Serials, You have said good points. In what I said, I really missed one point. I can look from TA's point of view whatever he said harshly and I could accept his harsh words could be forgiven. But what could not be forgiven is TA gave her the divorce notice. For that matter, T can ask for explanation. T did nothing which could justify his divorce notice and so T has every right to be angry with him. In fact, when he came from Bangalore all the way to Madras just to serve divorce notice, I wonder where was his brain? TA serving divorce paper make us believe that T is just a disposable object and not a human being and T can question him on that.

Originally posted by: maha2us

Serials, You have said good points. In what I said, I really missed one point. I can look from TA's point of view whatever he said harshly and I could accept his harsh words could be forgiven. But what could not be forgiven is TA gave her the divorce notice. For that matter, T can ask for explanation. T did nothing which could justify his divorce notice and so T has every right to be angry with him. In fact, when he came from Bangalore all the way to Madras just to serve divorce notice, I wonder where was his brain? TA serving divorce paper make us believe that T is just a disposable object and not a human being and T can question him on that.

When you say Charu has not won and she has helped to show the weak points in TA is very very true. In fact, one way anyone can grow in life is to learn the lessons inflicted on him because of every encounter he is having another person in life.

But from another angle one can say Charu has won also. Charu has done enough so that she could create so much misunderstanding about his wife in his mind that he went on to serve divorce paper to his wife. It shows TA in a very poor color also. What this all proved is, Charu could not touch T's mind. T kept her cool and struck in the proper way and thus T is shown in a much brighter color.

Shubba, Interestingly based on your post, I could see TA's point of view on why he rushed into serving divorce paper. Again TA is shown as impulsive, rash and a person who acrs without realizing the consequences like on the day he took decision to go to the loan sharks. He was upset because T went to GP told certain points about Charu and that caused all problems for Laav. Of course he believed everything told by Laav which was all lie. He thought of doing something so that T won't do anything more like disrupting Charu's marriage or disrupting Laav's life. But he in the end mamaged to show himself as a big idiot. Thulasi kept her cool even as he served the divorce paper and because of her calmness and confidence, she ensured she could show him what is the truth. As some of you had said, TA accepted to do what T said in the closed room to prove that T was wrong as he over-believed C and so called everyone there. And had to see that he was wrong in presence of everyone.

I choose option 1. In my opinion both were not really ready for married life. T was barely 18 and just out of school even though Mm tried to pimp her to Vel. She was forced into marriage by Gw's gutter words to scandalize her. TA had not really grown up and still immature. Look at the way he handled the office situation. Added to all this his family will not let them live as couples.

TA when he decided to give divorce papers, probably expected T to fall at his feet and beg and ready to apologize to Chaaru and La. He probably thought he has done a big favor to her by marrying her knowing how badly her own family treated her. With out realizing it, he probably had no respect for her.that is why he was saying things like " you are more interested in proving you are right than preventing me from divorcing you", even though he was the one giving divorce. T really gave it to him.he might have changed now but his family is still there. Where is the guaranty that Gw won't pull something again. She will not have worry about a bad Mil if the husband was strong and stable. But Ta is far from steady or responsible.how dare Ta slap Chaaru?after all she is not his family. If he wanted to defend t, he will just restrain her.

Originally posted by: Jan50

I choose option 1. In my opinion both were not really ready for married life. T was barely 18 and just out of school even though Mm tried to pimp her to Vel. She was forced into marriage by Gw's gutter words to scandalize her. TA had not really grown up and still immature. Look at the way he handled the office situation. Added to all this his family will not let them live as couples.

T should complete studies and grow up to be a mature woman. TA has to make major changes in his thinking and he needs to understand reality. He needs to learn more responsibility. Though Gw was right in saying he needed to get married to be stable and responsible, T was not that person yet. He would have been Ok with a little more mature woman with some backing unlike T.

This separation is good. Let it allow them to grow up and if they are still in love with each other, they should re marry. Unfortunately too many people interfered with their marriage. It is really hard for such a marriage to survive. At this point Puvi/ Sudha, Ta, Gw all should live separately. Married couple really need some space. If Puvi and Sudha lived separately from gw and Ta, there would not have been so much misunderstanding bet Ta and S.

Now a days understanding parents let their children go separate after marriage. They do not interfere in their lives.

A correction here...she was made to skip school earlier and she is well elder to Deepa/Mohan by 2 years...she is 21 yrs...that was well shown by the CTs initially...

I agree TA need to learn how to be responsible in his life.

I will not agree that T is not a stable person. If she decides to go for something, she is quiet stable right from the begining...
Her stability and belief that MM would change, her patience and stable mind towards MM proved it all.She proved that she is not a girl of type MM was thinking all along. T should teach him a lesson, being with him and correct his mistakes. This one lesson which he learnt now from C is more than enough for TA to listen to T's words. I expect both of them to equally share their views when it comes to something and decide on things. Both their views should be equally shared and shd not try to dominate one another.
Righty said that lots of interference put them to this level. T listened to Sudha, deepa. TA on the other hand to GW/C/Lav...Both did not share things properly. With too much troubles from all sides for both of them, they failed at things. Now again C has taught them a good lesson in life.

I want this to happen for Lav and Nitish, GP already decided so. Now I want Nitish and Lav to live a separate life, here also i do not want them to be separated. Nitish shd give back the money he got from his dad, and go for work, atleast as a car driver...and teach and learn lessons of life...(both Nit and Lav). GP shd make them live a sep life, atleast in their outdoors, right in front of them and make them come up in their life. Lav shd learn the value of money and life and it was Nitish who decided to support his wife blindly and as a husbd and gg to be dad of a child, it is his responsibilty to correct Lav too.. Atleast a last attempt this way. 😕

@shubba, I agree with most of what you said. Specially regarding Nit and Lav. GP should not readily hand things to nit so that La could take advantage of it. La should be made to realize that she can not be a queen by virtue of marrying into richness. That is possible only if Nit is made to live separately with his own income. If Nit is pampered by his father that gives a chance for people like La to be gold diggers and ruin their family.

they can to be separated for some time and T must concentrate on her studies