Koki's-Chaos and Pathos - Page 10

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

sorry vibz... i beg to differ

i have a different view here Ahemji said "Wish gopi was here..she would have take care of everything"

in the second picture those are not tears... they are the reflection of the lights in her eyes... when u see the 3rd pic where she raises her eye balls a little bit.. there is a little light...

and koki is not crying for her son giving her place to her DIL...

she is in a thought that he is thinking about gopi... because gopi would have managed all these things for him ...and nothing more...

koki will ensure this separation track lasts till Ahemji misses her as a person herself and not as a person who takes casre of his needs

yeah he specifically said that things would be under control and he would have worked with out any of these mess or tension in the room

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I was just trying to post a reply on the same.. 🤗.. Good going girl.. We love our Kokiji..
And wanted to 👏 your reasoning..
There were so many times before that Koki could have become a spanner in the works for GoHem.. But she just made them come closer.. I can see no reason why she would jeopardize all that work of more than a year for something as petty as jealousy, now... If she is in anyway insecure about her son, she would have asked Gopi to stop taking care of Ahem as a whole after the Rashi cupid fiasco.. But she did not. She knows her limits and she knows Gopi's place in Ahem's life..
She just wants her son and DIL to know that themself..

I think that she is quite happy with Gohem relationship, she does not want anything more than this😛😉 no more chooche cooing😳 enuff is the WORD 😛 According to Koki...Gopi shd take care of her son & son shd be happy with her care & concern PERIOD. She herself told Ahem that you have to work hard. So it is MM's business that is what Koki is aming at, like Arjuna's arrow she wants Ahem only to look at the rotating fish & hit bulls eye, the MM chair which he'll anyway get as Chirag & Hetal love & respect Ahem, as the eldest son of Modi empire. But since Koki has faced quite a few blows in her life, she does not want her son to get distracted & wants him at the helm of ME. Insecurity is not from gopi it is from Ahem, as he has Parag's genes too😉

Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely...just my5cents

Originally posted by: 5cents

I think that she is quite happy with Gohem relationship, she does not want anything more than this😛😉 no more chooche cooing😳 enuff is the WORD 😛 According to Koki...Gopi shd take care of her son & son shd be happy with her care & concern PERIOD. She herself told Ahem that you have to work hard. So it is MM's business that is what Koki is aming at, like Arjuna's arrow she wants Ahem only to look at the rotating fish & hit bulls eye, the MM chair which he'll anyway get as Chirag & Hetal love & respect Ahem, as the eldest son of Modi empire. But since Koki has faced quite a few blows in her life, she does not want her son to get distracted & wants him at the helm of ME. Insecurity is not from gopi it is from Ahem, as he has Parag's genes too😉

Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely...just my5cents

Tina.. Copy paste from my other post for Koki aspiring to get Ahem on the Modi business empire chair
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Yes. Absolutely and I do not think she is wrong to aspire that position for her son. He has invested his life towards that. Every mother wants their son to excel. And Koki just wants that. I think Ahem deserves it too.. If what Chirag said is true, then it seems the office depends a lot on Ahem. So why should she not want her son to be in that chair. He has worked for it day and night.😃
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@ 1st Bold for insecurity.. What you see as insecurity, I see it as her most horrible nightmare.. It has been years since she became Parag's wife. And until Ahem himself started earning, Kokila has been living with her husband's brother's family, dependent on his brother to provide for her and her kids.. She just does not want history to repeat itself. Parents go with their own experience when they see their kids grow. Kokila would not want the same thing for her Gopi vahu, the same experience she had to go through..

@ 2nd Bold - Absolute power is what Kokila has had in the household for a long time. If she had to be corrupted, she would have been corrupted by now. Koki has her principles and values. She also knows her limits. We all blame her for taunting Rashi, but have you ever seen Koki punishing her like she punished Gopi? No.. That is because this woman knows her limits. She knows that Rashi at the end of the day is Hetal's DIL. She scolds her when the mistake affects her family but lets Hetal to give her the appropriate punishment. Hetal invariably lets it go... It is only in the matters concerning Ahem that she takes her power to the next level. And that too is because she considers her son as her reflection. Until she is sure that Gopi is strong enough to deal with the scheming sister of hers, Koki will be loath to leave them unguided in their relationship...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Tina.. Copy paste from my other post for Koki aspiring to get Ahem on the Modi business empire chair
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Yes. Absolutely and I do not think she is wrong to aspire that position for her son. He has invested his life towards that. Every mother wants their son to excel. And Koki just wants that. I think Ahem deserves it too.. If what Chirag said is true, then it seems the office depends a lot on Ahem. So why should she not want her son to be in that chair. He has worked for it day and night.😃
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@ 1st Bold for insecurity.. What you see as insecurity, I see it as her most horrible nightmare.. It has been years since she became Parag's wife. And until Ahem himself started earning, Kokila has been living with her husband's brother's family, dependent on his brother to provide for her and her kids.. She just does not want history to repeat itself. Parents go with their own experience when they see their kids grow. Kokila would not want the same thing for her Gopi vahu, the same experience she had to go through..

@ 2nd Bold - Absolute power is what Kokila has had in the household for a long time. If she had to be corrupted, she would have been corrupted by now. Koki has her principles and values. She also knows her limits. We all blame her for taunting Rashi, but have you ever seen Koki punishing her like she punished Gopi? No.. That is because this woman knows her limits. She knows that Rashi at the end of the day is Hetal's DIL. She scolds her when the mistake affects her family but lets Hetal to give her the appropriate punishment. Hetal invariably lets it go... It is only in the matters concerning Ahem that she takes her power to the next level. And that too is because she considers her son as her reflection. Until she is sure that Gopi is strong enough to deal with the scheming sister of hers, Koki will be loath to leave them unguided in their relationship...

Ahem wants to fill life in Gopi's love that's when all the hell will break loose just wait & watch.

Harini, lets just leave the evil. scum- sucking, scheming power sis away for a while...I'll start from the bottom of yr post ...She does not want a strong DIL like her. She knows very well that one scabbard cannot hold two swords😉😆 She has raised a very strong & successful son, so she wanted a cute mute wife for her son period. That's why she selected Gopi from thousands of girls she saw. Unguided lol😆 She is full blown manual... what are you talking abt guidance & support😕. There is a difference b/w guidance & hand holding Koki has to be taught that & that has to be done BY AHEM only. Don't make decisions for them all the time; they must learn how to live with the consequences from the choices they make. After all, they will have to learn to think for themselves sometime. They need to learn that their own actions have consequences (good and bad). By doing so, it helps them to become good decision makers and problem solvers so that they are prepared for independence and adulthood just like Koki herself.
I always say don't hurt your parents ego but please don't lose your identity. Cvs are hell bent on doing that
Now coming to your absolute power point...Power & money go hand in hand, so Koki never had that. 😛 it was Chirag who has the absolute power & he till now has been a just man. Gives Ahem love & respect but Koki wants absolute power through Ahem...which is wrong.

Now 1st point ...she is not wrong in aspiring for the MM chair for her son...I'm not saying it is wrong but you shd not make it a passion. Remember that your child is not an extension of yourself. Your child is an individual under your care, not a chance for you to relive your life through them. This for real life lesson dear not reel 😉
My best ex is ...The sun never says to earth that , "You own me", Gopi's unconditional love will light Ahem & Koki's world & I want to see that only ...no more conditional love story for me pleaseee


Controversy creates cash ...just my 5cents😉

PS: Harini, 🤗it was indeed fun debating with you. My debating skills were getting rusted 😆Phew...too much energy is being spent on drama which I guess is only for entertainment😃

@Tina..

It is fun debating too that too for a favorite character of mine..🤗 to you for the views you put forth.. Yeah.. So much for a fictional character..😆

I do not disagree on any of your views.. Parents need to let children have their own individuality, should let them make mistakes and learn from them, should not live through them.. Yes. Absolutely.
But these are again parents we are talking about and it is not always possible to see the above logic with your children. Koki may not be right in her attitude for some but she is not wrong either. Her intentions are not bad and even though we may argue that she is trying to live the life she missed through Ahem, she still wants the best for him and no less..
As for unconditional love, why do you think that just because she wants Gopi to listen to her that her love is conditional? I do not think that Koki will ever stop loving Gopi. She took her time to love her Bahu but she does love Gopi with all her heart. You get a strict parent who punishes when you ake mistakes does not mean that the parent loves you conditionally on your success. Yes. Koki does get angry when Gopi loses to someone. But that is not because she loves Gopi only when she wins.. It is because she wants her DIL to be the best like any mom would want her daughter to be... Koki may get angry with Gopi after the loss but that is only because of her love. You fight and scold people you love the most because you know you can tell them what you feel..and also because you think they consider you as a part of them. It hurts when a part of you loses..
Even if Gopi makes the worst of mistakes, Koki will go ballistic but she will not lose her love for Gopi.. That is unconditional love to me...
As for Chirag, please, that man goes and blames Koki many times before hearing her out. Yes. Koki can be dominating at times and Chirag did do justice to Ahem as a Kaka. Koki respects him for that and is grateful. But again, Koki handles the household account. She was not exactly scheming to get money. She could have if she wanted to. As I said, Koki has some principals.. She will not abuse the power she has. Money, she values because she did not have independence over it before her son started working. Position, she values because she got the respect she deserved only after her son started working. There is a difference between valuing these and abusing them.. Koki values her position and power and she takes the responsibilities seriously... That is all

Harini, to sum it all up I'll say...none of us are perfect in real life ...we all have our quirks & cynicisms, that's what makes us all so attractive & real. So in reel life also neither Koki nor Gopi or Ahem are near perfect they are all unique & special in their own way & make SNS what it is today.
Rashi & Urmi make the SNS world go around in circles lol kalakaries followed by more kalakaries...uff till death does then apart😈

Man my make the mistakes but most importantly it is the mistakes that makes the man😎 Koki please let Gohem be lol
A hero has to be heroic. It is abt time we see some heroism from Ahemji. He's shown us ...he is strong, protective, courageous, But time for some intelligence & of course loyalty for Gopi ji.❤️

Originally posted by: 5cents

Harini, to sum it all up I'll say...none of us are perfect in real life ...we all have our quirks & cynicisms, that's what makes us all so attractive & real. So in reel life also neither Koki nor Gopi or Ahem are near perfect they are all unique & special in their own way & make SNS what it is today.
Rashi & Urmi make the SNS world go around in circles lol kalakaries followed by more kalakaries...uff till death does then apart😈

Man my make the mistakes but most importantly it is the mistakes that makes the man😎 Koki please let Gohem be lol
A hero has to be heroic. It is abt time we see some heroism from Ahemji. He's shown us ...he is strong, protective, courageous, But time for some intelligence & of course loyalty for Gopi ji.❤️

Amen to that...😆 And hopefully the CVs make Koki let go of her son gracefully... I really hope they do.. But one day it will surely happen. We will see Koki tell Ahem and Gopi that she believes and trusts them to make their own decisions..
As I wait for Ahem to confess his love, I also look forward to the day that Koki lets go off the two most precious of her relations...😃