When art doesn't imitate life - Page 4

Biba I agree to what you are saying, but in real life , not everybody can multi task or super perfect, we all try our best but for some even that would not be enough but you keep trying. Suhana has not tried , she has changed a lot but still there are other areas she lacks big time. Ishaan says to change and then again says he likes the way she is, again go back to old episodes. In join families everybody has different strength , some have great cooking skills, some management , families try to adjust and it's the repsonsibility of the head of the family to give people responsibility according g to there strength, I lived in joined family and married to joined family as well, and that's what I saw. My chachi was good in management, my Dadi use to cook and supervise kitchen, my mother was great in managing the day to day chores,my badi maa did not participated in daily chores but she was very social and managed the family affairs, no body seems to mind that as that's also part of family life. Suhana should be given some responsibility in the house of her interest, like looking after decor of the house, spending time and helping Ishika and Meethi, looking after general chores around the house, she has good fashion sense , so help the family members in that, I mean one does not have to be in the kitchen to be seen as doing something. The journey of a brat to women has stopped long time ago, the journey is turned into something else. The CV ,s have really messed up Suhana's character.

ohhh Wow... kya mast discussion chal raha hai... 👏 Biba, Mtanwy, Sheema Di... Some very good points... Had a treat... reading it... 👍🏼

ab itna aschha discussion chal raha hai... then how can I be behind... 😉😆 I will be back soon then... 😆

ok then Here I am... Happy Reading... and sar Khujlaoing... 😉😆😆


on a serious note... I want to say... I don't hate Suhana... there is no hatred for Suhana in my mind... and I even don't want her to be perfect... I personally don't like the Perfect personality.. I am not perfect then why would I want to watch someone with all the capabilities... I also don't want Suhana to be Rajni or Disha on Panna... they r different ppl' and to each their own they have their positives n negatives' 😃
want to share something... why I liked Suhana...

1. When I was a child... I used to be like Suhana... throwing tantrums n even I threw Dishes n bowls sometimes... I was very pampared as only girl after 2 generation... Mom for the first time scolded me and then came to me n made me understand... I after a while understood... that throwing tantrums is not good... FOR SUHANA... She is still is like a child as she didn't had her Mom in her childhood to make her understand of what my Mom did for me... So, her tamtrums were acceptable to me... and then I really liked it when Badi Maa made her understand about throwing Dishes... and she did, She was a best Student as we all used to say... That situation was relatble to me... I accepted Suhana coz I believe Certain things what your Mom can teach you... a Father can never... Suhana got her Mom after Marriage... and That was the SGP for me... after Every incident... we have seen Suhana growing...

2. When I was in school, college' I used to help my Mom doing small chores of the house' there was this thing my Mom always used to tell me' Sachi You help me but only when I give you some work' you by yourself never think of helping me though you see me running here n there n you are sitting doing nothing' "Tume Apne aap se kuch nahi sujta' tume batana padta hai'" which won't help you when you will be on your own' aur yeh baat samaj me aai thi mujhe' 😃

Suhana ka bhi yahi hai' She doesn't understand by her own' and I agree my Mom made me realize & understand' Suhana's Mom was not there to tell her' but why can't be BM her Mom who makes her see the real life' make her independent' if Someone tells her' Suhana do this' I know she will do it' but BM, Radha Bua, Rano' never tells her anything' I won't mind if she is working' and not helping' but if she is playing Ludo with Meethi' what's wrong in helping little' My Issue is with Partiality from Elders which is not Helping Suhana in any way' BM let her go off with anything' If Suhana place BM as her Mom' and I know BM showers her the same motherly Love' which I like in so many ways coz Suhana deserves this love' she never got that' but by Turning face from her mistakes' BM is not helping her according to me'

Lately what bugs me more is Suhana all mahaan scenario... earlier also Kashyaps used to praise Suhana but also used to point her mistakes... Lately every other track they conclude to praise Suhana... [I don't have prob with her praising but the reasons are lame... and she get away with everything.. now no one is saying or making her realize of where she is wrong... ]

If we talk about R & D clash track... they concluded Suhana as kamjor kadi... no issues but she didn't get the point of whole hullobo... and then Khushi track came... At the end they justified Suhana's actions and let her go with it... there's no conclusion or no one was bothered for Disha... all they concluded was how Suhana felt.. ok then comes Mumbai track... after whole MU [in which I think both Ishaan n Suhana were at fault...] Badi Maa scolded Ishaan for lying and praised Suhana as she didn't went to KK's house n came to them... again a very lame excuse of Praising n justifying Suhana's actions... I can't buy these excuses... What I ask is Praise her but also tell her Suhana beta it was wrong of you to avoid household chores' as you are also a member and you don't work outside... so, at least try to learn n help... simple it is... 😊

now to Question -- is it compulsory for every woman to learn Household chores??

Well, no for me... it's not a compulsion nor necessity to learn kitchen chores' Not everyone can multitask' I never wanted or want Suhana to grow as such to be all mature n Kaamvali... She can be how she is... with getting n understanding things bit more with each passing day... we all learn as we grew old... till I was 7-8 years' My Mom used to work.. She was working as an Librarian' after working 3-4 years My Mom left her job [she felt her children need her more'] but the point is' I have seen my Mom as Working Woman as well as Housewife' I am a working woman... I personally believe in individuality n independency more than anything... I don't think knowing how to cook is the only purpose of Woman's life' but I believe in doing at least something' if not working then help in house' if working then be independent n learn something with each passing day.. if they are showing Suhana working n gradually being independent for her own things' that wud be awesome' [too much to expect🥱]

Sheema Di "You said' everyone want to Lead to be perfect" I don't want Lead to be all perfect' I don't like any SP maate type Bahus' they are too much ideal' which I can't relate to' If I watch any other TV serial' I always try to find a pinch of Reality' if not more but a pinch of reality' and so far I have been really connected to SGP' coz it was real' somewhere today also' SGP does show some reality in between' Suhana was a very close to real character for me' but now she is not' and I have given all above reasons why Suhana was close to realily' and why she is not.. 😕

Sorry for a big Essay'😕 free bethe bethe kab itna likh diya' pata hi nai chala' ok then everyone' happy reading my essay'😉 and Enjoy Weekend' 😃