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I think a lot of us must have heard of this now famous dialogue from Jerry Macguire, you had me at hello, I think I realised the actual meaning of this after watching the epi on 30/31st Jan,.
The entire Kunal/Siddhi sequence on the 30/31st was more like watching men are from mars in action.. If we just talk about all the dialogues and not the song sequence
Kunal sees Siddhi packing, he calls out to her couple of times, she doesnt respond. Typical of a lady, its more like damned if you do, damned if you dont. If he wouldnt ask she would feel more bad, but if he asks she doesnt respond. All the while she kept saying, that even if you ask me to, I wont stop, it was more like, please ask me to stop !
She keeps saying, mera yahan par kaun hai, kaun hai..and actually she is not looking for an answer, but is more of taunting him, that I thought you are there for me, but looks like you are not.
She keeps saying you dont understand anything I feel..again womanly trait..want men to understand what one is feeling without telling.
And the first 5 10 min she doesnt clearly spell out what the actual problem was, she keeps beating about the bush, i will not say, i will not stay back..Where she actually wants him to ask her to stay. I think this very much lady like, will not say what is the actual problem, will keep beating about the bush for ages and only say it out loud when the push comes to shove. Probably this happens because if you spell out what hurt you, it is like you show the others your vulnerability or show that you want them to care for you.
Both of them didnt realise that they were fighting like a husband wife, they keep telling that their marriage is a compromise, but they have been knowingly/unknowingly been a husband/wife in true sense.
Whenever, she asks rhetorically, who is there for me in this house, he always says your husband. Why did neither of them realise, that if they were just in for compromise, why was he being faithful to her and why was she feeling bad thinking what he may have done. And he kept assuring her that nothing happened, nothing happened, why was that required not sure if they were in a compromise marriage.
And the whole suno, ruko bit..the main purpose of my postđ
every time he says suno, she just stops, wanting to hear him stop her but he feigns ignorance and makes a 100 excuses.
every time he stops her, he kinda understood that if he asks her straight away, she won't respond, so he keeps making excuses..
the final suno/ruko was the best, where he says i dont know what i want to talk to you about, but i dont feel like letting you go.
Kunal's dialogues were also very much like a man's behav,,, they at times dont like the fact that the wife wants to leave the house and view it as, it was your decision to leave, so why should I stop you. Whereas a woman is always looking for someone to reinforce the fact to her that she is important, she wants the man to stop her when she is leaving and the Man always thinks, its her house, so why should I stop her, if she wants to leave let her. A woman would always say leave me alone, dont talk to me. And dare if someone actually does that đ. All hell would break loose, so a woman talks and means completely opposite things.. All this was truly reflected in these two episodes ...
The whole sequence was written and acted amazingly well, I know its a very late post..a week later. Must confess, that was the first epsidoe I watched of this serial and since then am hooked. Both Kunal and Siddhi, their characters are so nice and played brilliantly as well.
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