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Um----I think people are confusing "loyalty" with "BLIND loyalty", that's what. 😛

Originally posted by: sayali_babes

Um----I think people are confusing "loyalty" with "BLIND loyalty", that's what. 😛

Originally posted by: tinoo

Hi sayali -- but isnt loyalty always blind or unconditional?

If we have to pick and choose when we are going to be loyal to a person, then that isnt really loyalty is it?

Like if I say to my boss "I will be loyal to you only if you make decisions I agree with...but if you make decisions I dont agree with then I wont be loyal".

Well, then its Loyalty Vs. Righteousness. 😳

🤓... Sayali, you are very intellectual! 😆😆 Indeed you are right - it is loyalty vs righteousness.

Originally posted by: tinoo

🤓... Sayali, you are very intellectual! 😆😆 Indeed you are right - it is loyalty vs righteousness.

So what is blind loyalty ? (as compared to ordinary loyalty) \?

what is the difference between the two?

Thaaank ya! *bows*, aww, BUT everybody here is one, includin' your good self 😆 😆

Well, ordinary loyalty should be defined as the allegiance born out of love, trust or duty towards:

A) A person to whom one is emotionally attached, i.e., family member or friend.

B) A person to whom allegiance is professional or ideological, e.g., Army CoC.

Now, both of these are subject to one's inbuilt sense of righteousness. I.e., where the person being loyal towards is doing something that transcends the neutral definition of "Right" .

dude.. Sayali.. but we discussed loyality on the bottom of page 2.. which leads to another defination to another.. it goes around and around the garden.by the way ... what is blind loyality? did u just make that up! u cant blindly be loyal to anything in my opinion!

Originally posted by: Dr3viL

dude.. Sayali.. but we discussed loyality on the bottom of page 2.. which leads to another defination to another.. it goes around and around the garden.by the way ... what is blind loyality? did u just make that up! u cant blindly be loyal to anything in my opinion!

u can only be sincerely loyal to something u love. and if u dont know the thing .. even if its god. then how can u love it? u cant love me unless u know me! its simple logic. but ur a smart girl that true!

Uhh---you can. Like I said about Army Officers. That example fits to the point. You can be loyal outta duty.

Btw, we can be loyal AND NOT agree/support everything that a LO does, for example I can be loyal to my friend and still not support her if she tries to murder somebody. A very basic example this, but you get the drift. So, "Loyalty" does NOT equate "Blind Loyalty". That would make the definition of loyalty transcend all implications of righteousness.