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Yes for the lack of better analogies I had to turn to science- physics and chemistry...
Entropy defined as a measure of disturbance in a closed system...no prizes for guessing what the closed system is and where the disturbance measures.. or has heightened to..
In utter pandemonium and entropy where most of the energy is actually not being converted to work.. i hail the METHOD.. OF REASONING.. shown by one man standing.. aka Viren Wadera..
lets take it from the beginning.. he comes home to see tension.. entropy... immense fluctuation of moods.. angst (Chachu), anger (dadaji), frustration (Swamini).. Science shapes my thinking I just couldnt help the analogy of the fluctuating pH between the acid and bases in the system.. and this is where Viren Wadera STANDS TALL.. I once said he is the BUFFERING FORCE of the family.. a BUFFER is an non-reactive component that stabilizes pH.. providing a perpetual BALANCE..
so what does he do.. He LISTENS.. coz everyone apparently has something to SAY.. As a LAWYER he cannot disregard the contextual evidence of Swamini and Dadaji who genuinely believe that Manvi's bringing up the topic and Inder's retraction can't be just coincidental.. do I blame them.. NO.. heck NO.. the timing was too close for anyone to take her word for it.. While Virat gave her the benefit after Chachu told him.. Swamini and Dadaji remained stuck to their voice of reason.. PERIOD.. they dont really derive pleasure from harassing Manvi.. although I just cant condone their harsh behavior towards her.. coz at the end of the day Manvi is an OUTSIDER and the limits of social boundaries do prevail..
So coming back.. Viren cant totally disregard Manvi's potential involvement and see where Swamini and Dadaji come from.. but at the same time he acts as a balance to Chachu's nosediving confidence.. again LISTENS to him.. and only provides pertinent support at the end.. LESS WORDS.. yet IMPACTFUL ones.. coz they are backed by EVIDENCE and EXAMPLES..
Amidst the conflicting convictions and interest of his own family members.. he just cant turn blind to his love.. the only place where he is a tad more impulsive.. shirking from his perpetual burden.. when it comes to his wife's mention.. runs to find out if she has succumbed to pressure.. only to find out that its an overblown nonsensical promise that she has made to herself -a root cause for her own discomfiture.. the ANNOYED.. IRRITATED look was totally directed towards her lack of thinking straight.. but he still had the compassion to heed by her tantrums in spite of her not willing to listen to him.. Insecurity had no place there..
its amazing in all this while one man is trying to hold things together consciously.. trying to DIFFUSE situations.. elders just act impulsively.. without thinking out repercussions.. taking stands.. etc.. While I do understand Beeji's frustration and anger.. the dramatic convo between Beeji and Swamini was extremely tacky for the lack of a better word.. Beeji crossed the line saying you cant respect daughters in your family.. at the same time Swamini did not help matters by flinging back insults to injury.. You would think ONE of these GROWN UP would sit down take a deep breath and THINK about GLOBAL PEACE.. while Swamini blows off the fuse.. both the V bros. handle her in their own ways.. Virat by trying to show her reason.. and Viren by simply HEARING HER OUT once again.. and trying to TAKE THE BLAME as the son in law to diffuse the situation..
In real MATURE terms.. TAKING A STAND and SPEAKING OUT isn't always the BEST SOLUTION.. esp in mass entropy.. every thing in life doesnt have to be made into presidential election debate.. and one who doesnt scream out from the mike .. trying to dig a flag pole isnt always spineless.. coz objectivity doesnt SCREAM and buffers dont change colors.. they JUST SILENTLY and SUBTLY PROVIDE THE BALANCE.. and bring out the neutral desired pH..
And as with all things.. I have no doubt that while emotions run high and create extreme MADNESS ; only the METHOD will ease it out..
An ODE to Viren Wadera..
I rest my CASE...
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