Ishu is here 2day due to lack of love from elders

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simran728

@simran728

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Posted: 14 years ago

friends..

to understand Ishu right now is hard. because we are all thinking from logical mind. but wives murder their abusive husbands etc etc. in life many things happen that is beyond our mind. but the person in that shoes knows what is going on..

same is with Ishu. She knows Dadi loves Mahi a lot and not her. She thinks that Mahi wanted to get married to Sahil and hence she has convinced both Dadi to be on her side. she said that in the temple that this is all Mahi's Saadish.

So, Ishu now thinks she has 3 enemies. and believe me no one thinks of hurt being caused to their enemies..1. Her dadi who does not love her (See Ishu's words when she came to engagement .. she told her dadi that NOT even once u ask me ...How I am doing??).. and She knows Mahi is her competition.. and always she wants to defect mahi.. and Sahil's dadi does not her Ishu and sahil to together. so it is very fair that she is not thinking about them in this process of revenge..

but she is thinking about the people she loved. she wants Sahil to keep his relationships and his business and money at the same time marry her... in the end Mahi will get hurt. but so did Ishu also when she found out that Dadi came for Mahi rishta and not hers. Imagine what must have happened to her. She is in relationship for many yrs lets say. Mahi only for few hours...

In life we have happiness and pain .. cannot have only 1 thing. so, i am going to wish Ishu best of luck and hope she comes out of this process without hurting anyone but more importantly she comes out of it smarter and with her love by her side.

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deepti_9

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Posted: 14 years ago

nice post Simran..really me too hope no one is hurted in this process n all become fine but does not seem so ..sorry like button not working will do it later

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sammy_2010

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Posted: 14 years ago

nice post simran, 😊

ishu also needs to open up., except SD and DM , no one knows that she loves Sahil. mahi is totally innocent here. she did ask so many times abt Sunny.

hope ishu clears the air soon, before any one gets more hurt.

I still do not get this haar jeet between sisters, why did it begin ?

I need to watch the childhood episodes to understand ishu better.

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simran728

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sammy_dolly
nice post simran, 😊
ishu also needs to open up., except SD and DM , no one knows that she loves Sahil. mahi is totally innocent here. she did ask so many times abt Sunny.

hope ishu clears the air soon, before any one gets more hurt.

I still do not get this haar jeet between sisters, why did it begin ?
I need to watch the childhood episodes to understand ishu better.

i have seen only few episodes and read summary but what i know is that Mahi has always been liked by all because she is less of a trouble and gets everything. like love and attention. which is ishu is thinking of winning. she has told mahi in the last episodes she wants her parents love back. so i am thinking is all haar jeet is all about being the best and getting attention and love from family.

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vids08

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Posted: 14 years ago

Agree with you Sims. Also want to add that So far what they have shown of Ishu is that she does quick fix thinking. She does what is right at that moment without thinking of long term implication on herself or others. Like she lied to SD and her little lies at home. Even yesterday, she has that urge she wants that ring so she is doing stupid things to get it. Ishu is not thinking like Mah that her act or words will have long time implications on so many lifes.

When she realises the truth, she will be the one who will fall in her own eyes and it will be interesting how she will try to fix things at that time.

Yes you are right, its the lack of love from Dadi and conditional love that she has been getting from her mom, that makes her act like this and not recognise the true love of what Sahil and Mahi feel for her.

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sammy_2010

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: simran728

i have seen only few episodes and read summary but what i know is that Mahi has always been liked by all because she is less of a trouble and gets everything. like love and attention. which is ishu is thinking of winning. she has told mahi in the last episodes she wants her parents love back. so i am thinking is all haar jeet is all about being the best and getting attention and love from family.

Thanks simran, what i can undertand is this..

In a family ,if one sibling is extremely good and obedient person, getting all the love n attention, the other sibling will revolt.. will try to do something very different for the same love n attention

so ishu has become the trouble maker because she feels that is the only way to get more love n attention. and mahi always makes sure ishu wins,cause she don't want to hurt ishu's ego.

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simran728

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vids08
Agree with you Sims. Also want to add that So far what they have shown of Ishu is that she does quick fix thinking. She does what is right at that moment without thinking of long term implication on herself or others. Like she lied to SD and her little lies at home. Even yesterday, she has that urge she wants that ring so she is doing stupid things to get it. Ishu is not thinking like Mah that her act or words will have long time implications on so many lifes.
When she realises the truth, she will be the one who will fall in her own eyes and it will be interesting how she will try to fix things at that time.

Yes you are right, its the lack of love from Dadi and conditional love that she has been getting from her mom, that makes her act like this and not recognise the true love of what Sahil and Mahi feel for her.

@ bold and underline. I totally agree with u. and this is also a side effect of instant reaction to fix things. hope she learns to differentiate.

and plus u see whenever she has got in trouble at home, people have taken it lightly. But Sahil's dadi who is paraya is being very strict and took rishta to someone else.

like sahil forgave her many times, dadi is not going to. so here Ishu is learning different kind of punishment which is not use to.

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simran728

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Posted: 14 years ago

Thanks simran, what i can undertand is this..

so ishu has become the trouble maker because she feels that is the only way to get more love n attention. and mahi always makes sure ishu wins,cause she don't want to hurt ishu's ego.

@ bold and underline. exactly my point. all kids want same thing. Love and attention. and they learn to get it one way or the other. and also maturity helps. but it has to be a 2 way street. and I feel Ishu's dadi need to be more mature and not compare 2 daughters.

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sonia

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Posted: 14 years ago

hard to believe dat ishita f all ppl is justified here dis way...nonetheless dere r so many flaws here...

"but wives murder their abusive husbands etc etc"

yes and y dey do so ?? bcoz dey r pushed hard by der husbands...here nobody is pushin ishu xcept her own stupidity nd false judgement of ppl.

"same is with Ishu. She knows Dadi loves Mahi a lot and not her. She thinks that Mahi wanted to get married to Sahil and hence she has convinced both Dadi to be on her side. she said that in the temple that this is all Mahi's Saadish. "

nd y she thinks its all mahi's saajish ???????? she jumpd directly to conclusions dat mahi f all ppl is tryin to snatch sahil frm her widout even givin it a thought.so who's fault is it ?????

"So, Ishu now thinks she has 3 enemies."

again its all due to ridiculous assessment of ppl by her...nd her judgement of ppl near her is simply filled wid jealousy,stupidity nd greediness...so y shud one feel sympathetic to her ?????????????

"but she is thinking about the people she loved. she wants Sahil to keep his relationships and his business and money at the same time marry her."

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hard to believe d gullibility written here, so she called off der marriage bcoz she wants sahil to keep his business nd money wid him ?????? or she wants all dat money nd property for herself ???????? nd she luvs sahils property nt sahil...

"In life we have happiness and pain .. cannot have only 1 thing. so, i am going to wish Ishu best of luck and hope she comes out of this process without hurting anyone but more importantly she comes out of it smarter and with her love by her side. "

i agree wid u on d last part tho,it is nicely written lets hope ishu can back to her senses😊

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simran728

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@ Angelina Joile !!

Whoever u r.. I dont give a damn. Let me tell u straight.

IF U DON'T LIKE MY THREADS STAY THE HELL OUT OF IT !

next time I see u on my threads then u watch out. If U like Mahi so be it. and U can go to Hell with her... U can make Threads with U and Her in Heaven. ..whatever u want to do u ...DO ON OWN ON THREADS..

Dont be a cheater and takeover other people's topic and make fun. Midn your GOD DAMN BUSINESS.

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