In Swayam's shoes :)

Ok, enough has been said against Swayam's current individual track, his occasional sarcasms to Sharon, etc...and its ok, everyone's opinion is welcome. Which means, I am entitled to mine, right? So here goes.

Look, I know a lot of people are saying that Swayam must concentrate on his relationship with Sharon and all? But for once, just think from Swayam's point of view.

I know Sharon is a great girl at heart, and Swayam does realize that. Pretty apparent from most Swayam and Reyam scenes. But tell me, how would you react in the exact same situation? Suppose, you really really love someone. Love him to the extent of overlooking his rudeness and his phony "status" quibs. Love him for the person he is, without really having seen much his softer side for yourself. And all this, in-spite of the fact that he takes pleasure in the superiority of insulting and hurting you time and again. Ok, you have had certain moments, beautiful moments, with this person. Which have given you wings, and have also drainingly confused you at times about your actual equations with this person. Nonetheless, your hopes have gone high, your expectations have begun becoming more opaque. You have started to pamper that person more, loving him more...

And then one day, when you were about to reveal the truth behind his source of ecstasy...which has been YOU all along, he screams at you that he HATES you...and for what? For some weird "status" divide, that has no meaning outside your college...or perhaps it has no meaning outside his own MIND? And you know for sure, that all the other reasons this person stutters out later are just lame, just to cover up the main issue...his own mental constrictions?

Guys, isn't this what Swayam had to deal with in the old stairs that day? And then a couple of weeks later, he had to see her getting kissed by another guy. A guy who in Swayam's knowledge, is far more desirable to Sharon than himself. We know how much Sharon had cried that as well, but does Swayam know this? And to top it all, look at the impression Sharon gives him of her feelings for him. How much can a person keep taking, really? Well wake up people [and Sharon], he is human too. And he does have the liberty to his share of self respect right? Why should he always have to be the one to go out of his way to make "a chunk of ice" feel special about herself, no matter how much she attacks him? [ [no offence... I repeat Sneha Kapoor is mind blowing!]

Why should he do that? Why should anyone do that? At the cost of your own sanity? Puh..leeze!!!

I wouldn't have. I would have done exactly what Swayam is doing right now, or maybe more. Healing a sore heart with an attitude as defense, that's what always comes in handy... and I am not just saying it, I have had to be in similar shoes [not same] as Swayam's like thrice in life... and yeah, that is what I have done. It bled...trust me it did. But you just have gotta do what you've gotta do!

And that is when hanging out with your friends, helping them, getting involved with other stuff and just having a good time being yourself helps so much. Which is exactly what Swayam is doing right now. He's just being a regular guy dealing with a massive heartbreak. Why be a doormat just for a "one-glance-maybe"? For how long?

But well, since this is a TV show, he will continue his "Sharon-campaigning" in some way, because they haveto be together by a certain episode, and a fairy-tale romance has to be scripted. And yeah, just like any other normal D3'er, I would want my share of SwaRon scenes as well.

But in real life, had I been Swayam's best friend, and had to see him in a situation where the girl he loved so much is so lost in her ego to realize anything else [apparently], I would have actually asked this guy to move on, period. I would have added that if she has to return, she will. But, you have already done enough.

So I guesss, consciously or unconsciously D3 is putting up a fair message to the lovestruck teens. That after a while, it IS time to move on, or at least get back to your feet in some way... find your voice back.

But chalo, D3 will be D3, and SwaRon has to BE! So lets wait for their sunshine days to come... And try to understand the SwaRon dynamics better, instead of just mono-dimensionally judging them by their screen time of look-look, hawa-hawa and sweet-nothing dialogues alone.

It's a teen show, which should focus on every character individually as well. And I think, both Swayam and Sharon's characters are going through an evident metamorphosis...so let them!

Kab tak wahi lovey-dovey-happy-to-please-toy-boy rahega Swayam?

DISCLAIMER: Did not mean to hurt anyone. Sorry if I did. But I just had to make this post.

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Cheers!