Why Khushi is acting the way she is...

Well I am as irritated as anyone else about her making ASR jealous and not showing her feelings towards him.

She has been kissed by ASR that too as a bet, but no words of love came out from him He protected her from NK but he hasn't said it is because of love.
• He danced with her and flirted with her but he hasn't told her he wants her in his life as his wife.

She is attracted to ASR.
• She cares for ASR.

• Is she just a plaything for him?
• Does he want to give a name to their bond?
• Will he hurt her again like during diwali?
• Dare she hope that thus mighty business tycoon will marry a poor orphan like her?
• Does he love her or only finds her attractive?

agree with ur questions... unless she gets a clear answer from ASR, she will be hesitant and confused!

it will not be easy for khushi to confess her love unless she gets a solid proof from ASR that his love for her is for real.. she knows he cares for her.. she knows there is a bond and understanding between them.. she knows he will be there for her.. but she does not dare hope for love unless there is some solid sign from him..

I too agree. There shouldn't be any acceptance from Khusi first... The many time ASR helped Khusi is nothing as compared to how he trobuled ,insulted, humillated her.

Hmm actually i feel that khushi has some fair idea that Arnav is being jealous of nk. So she is just using his weakness against him to know his true intentions. You know about asr. He says the truth when he is vulnerable. So khushi is on that mission! 😎 She is naughty i say! 😳

i think its difficult for both to confess as they both want the other to do it first. and plus they love each other but cant stand each other at the same time. arnav doesn't belive in marriage like khushi does so he is cautious... even today.. with anjali and nani he said he doesn't know first and then said me and khushi... so he loves her but still not sure they are ready for marriage...

Originally posted by: rima

But I am sure in her mind, like it would be in my mind too, she questions ASR's intentions.

• Is she just a plaything for him?
• Does he want to give a name to their bond?
• Will he hurt her again like during iwali?
• Dare she hope that thus mighty business tycoon will marry a poor orphan like her?
• Does he love her or only finds her attractive?

If I was Khushi I would ask the same questions and stay away from the guy I love. But I definitely would not give him wrong signals like flirting with another guy. That part alone bothers me.

I dont think she even KNOWS that he is getting jealous when she is close to NK.. She is'nt that sort of gal.. 😃 But she does get the 'desired' expression on Arnav's face which she enjoysthe most.. To see that he is getting affected by her.. Usko bhi faraq parta hai.. ;)

Mostly when she does get extra friendly with NK are the times when Arnav is questioning her FEELINGS for him.. This time, SHE is'nt ready to give him any kind of answers.. So she finds NK as a diversion.. And she does'nt mean to flirt with him.. Its more like she is running from HIM.. And his questions and the WAY he affects her and makes her vulnerable..

Since she has been once insulted for being a cheap gold digger, when ArHi were about to kiss in Diwali night.. That was the FIRST blow for her from a man.. She was fighting against her engagement with Shyam for HIM, but after this, she lost the WILL to refuse..

And then, she discovered that there is a thing called LUST too, when she found about Shyam's truth.. That was a SECOND blow to her with respect to dealing with men.. So she is just not ready to give Arnav the answers that he wants to have from her.. Just like HE was not not ready in Diwali night.. She needs a more VERBAL confirmation from Arnav.. A sort of commitment that he will not let her get hurt again.. She has started to understand his actions as well (read DORI scene), where she understood after a moment that he CARES for her respect too. 😳 That is a big development from Khushi's side, in my opinion.,. 😳 They both need to TALK , to sort their differences and this is why i am not liking Nani and Anji interfering.. :( I want Arnav and Khushi to DISCOVER their feelings and accept them by their OWNSELVES and not by any cupid etc..

Originally posted by: CandYlicious_MS

I dont think she even KNOWS that he is getting jealous when she is close to NK.. She is'nt that sort of gal.. 😃 But she does get the 'desired' expression on Arnav's face which she enjoysthe most.. To see that he is getting affected by her.. Usko bhi faraq parta hai.. ;)

Mostly when she does get extra friendly with NK are the times when Arnav is questioning her FEELINGS for him.. This time, SHE is'nt ready to give him any kind of answers.. So she finds NK as a diversion.. And she does'nt mean to flirt with him.. Its more like she is running from HIM.. And his questions and the WAY he affects her and makes her vulnerable..

Since she has been once insulted for being a cheap gold digger, when ArHi were about to kiss in Diwali night.. That was the FIRST blow for her from a man.. She was fighting against her engagement with Shyam for HIIM, but after this, she lost the WILL to refuse..

And then, she discovered that there is a thing called LUST too, when she found about Shyam's truth.. That was a SECOND blow to her with respect to dealing with men.. So she is just not ready to give Arnav the answers that he wants to have from her.. Just like HE was not not ready in Diwali night.. She needs a more VERBAL confirmation from Arnav.. A sort of commitment that he will not let her get hurt again.. She has started to understand his actions as well (read DORI scene), where she understood after a moment that he CARES for her respect too. 😳 That is a big development from Khushi's side, in my opinion.,. 😳 They both need to TALK , to sort their differences and this is why i am not liking Nani and Anji interfering.. :( I want Arnav and Khushi to DISCOVER their feelings and accept them by their OWNSELVES and not by any cupid etc..

Both are right in their own way. It's not in Arnav's nature to express his love directly. He has been making it obvious by each gesture, but even then, Khushi can't be blamed if she is confused about it, because they both have not shared a moment as such when she'd come to realize any such thing. Plus they've both had more rough moments and fights than any friendly conversation. So even if they feel for each other today, that feeling will be unknown to them and to the other until something happens to provoke those feelings out in the open.