Why Megha behaves differently with Mohan?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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One thing i don't get at all is why Megha behaves differently with Mohan.

Mohan behaves with Megha like he would have with anyone else(till now). I don't think he has gone out of his way and did anything for her. Helping to find Nanhi is a very human thing. To add that Nanhi is his friend. So he choosing to help Megha is no big deal.


He likes to irritate Renu with his "ill-mannered talks"(dont know what to call it). He would have behaved the same with Megha too, if the guilt of Ad-fiasco was not on him. Even now he forgets his guilt and that Megha won't appreciate or even react the way he would like, he does talk his usual style out of habit. One Incident is the Hanky scene, when mohan calls her to return the Hanky, irritated Megha says "kya hai" and he replies "Byaah hai". Megha is clearly not interested in such replies. Mohan bites his tongue and gets to the real business of returning Addu's Hanky.


When megha held his hand and dragged him, he was very casual about it and said "haath chodegi tho chalunga na". She was embarrassed but he took it very normally.


Megha is always shown very restrained with others. Even after Rastogi's proposal scene, she came and gave tablet to Sanjay. She calmed herself and tried to behave normal. But she always blows off on Mohan. Is it because she is thinking Mohan is bad based on her previous encounters? But how does that justify her behaviour with Mohan - unnecessarily shouting at him, not just taking away his credit but letting someone else take it too, finding new faults in him. The way she shouted him at after getting Nanhi back, seeing Megha's expression, I don't think she was expecting him to wait for her. She just used it against him to not say "Thank you" to him.


Next day morning after seeing Mohan, she is like – let me say a "Thank you" to him and end this Guilt. Then she couldn't do that. In the promo too in kite-flying competition, she is holding his participation in the contest against him! So many others will also participating against her family. It is a contest in which the whole mohalla is participating. Does she expect Mohan to back off to make Vyas family win? Why does she behave like this? What's going on in her mind?


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--Sanchu-- thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think Megha's behaviours are pretty justified!!
initially she had formed a little too harsh opinion about him...which is pretty natural under the circumstances where they meet and interact...

and later the instance where she is shouting at him instead of saying sorry/thanku is becuase some where she realised she was wrong and yet her ego wouldnt let her accept it!!...but i wish she hadlet go off her ego and saida thanku>...

and regarding the situation where Megha is shown to drag Mohan by his hand only to be informed by mohan to let go offf his hand and Megha being embarrased...isnt it a normal reaction girl/woman might give to a stranger...???
coz such acts as dragging by hand is pretty casual when with friends however not so easy for with any stranger..
and mind tht i am calling Mohan a stranger for Megha here becuse hardly have megha and mohan interacted apart form knowing the fact that they are neighbours but being neighbours doesnt make U good friends...moreover very little of Mohan does Megha know!!


-RadhaRani- thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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being Mohan Fan I Fill It's Very irritating when megha behave like this way with mohan.sometimes i fill megha behave overreacting.

but megha side i think she is right.mohan ki wajah se uski life me itna bada tuffan aaya he vo ad se.she can't forgive easily.mohan ke samne aate hi she can't behave normally.she needs some time to behave normally with mohan.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@subhas: Nice post. well I think her behaviour is justified. She considers mohan as the root cause of all her problems & it is not easy for her to forget & forgive it. Apart from this mohan irritated her with kidnapping talks. But even then she knows that he was right... It was not good to scold a child in this manner. Moreover, her prejudice comes in her way to say thank you.
@Sanchu: I won't say it's her ego... It's just her prejudice... the way their first meeting took place and she saw him with a girl who is drunk... she has made a different image of mohan in her mind who is a womanizer, abusive, etc... this is coming in her way to say thanx... however she knows that he helped her a lot & took care of her when she was with him but yet she doesn't trust him... and would you react to a person whom you don't trust & think that the person is a bad guy... another point is mr. rastogi was her BIL's boss so has to maintain calm for the sake of her BIL's job... other wise her reaction would have been same as we saw in the temple when first meghan encounter took place.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: misty85


@Sanchu: I won't say it's her ego... It's just her prejudice... the way their first meeting took place and she saw him with a girl who is drunk... she has made a different image of mohan in her mind who is a womanizer, abusive, etc... this is coming in her way to say thanx... however she knows that he helped her a lot & took care of her when she was with him but yet she doesn't trust him... and would you react to a person whom you don't trust & think that the person is a bad guy... another point is mr. rastogi was her BIL's boss so has to maintain calm for the sake of her BIL's job... other wise her reaction would have been same as we saw in the temple when first meghan encounter took place.

yeah misty i think i can agree with U...Megha dose have a prejudiced opinion about Mohan from their first meet but i think the fact that she doesnot say Thanku to him and instead blasts off is her Ego at being proven wrong!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sanchu: You know what... it's going like pride & prejudice... the most loved novel 😆... heroine always have a false opinion about the hero & held responsible for the bad situation of others... whereas hero is fida on her wit & beauty...😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: misty85

@Sanchu: You know what... it's going like pride & prejudice... the most loved novel 😆... heroine always have a false opinion about the hero & held responsible for the bad situation of others... whereas hero is fida on her wit & beauty...😉


thanks for pointing out...yeah i think u are right...😆
pride and prejudiced...one novel but so many scripts get inspired frtom it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: misty85

@Sanchu: You know what... it's going like pride & prejudice... the most loved novel 😆... heroine always have a false opinion about the hero & held responsible for the bad situation of others... whereas hero is fida on her wit & beauty...😉



agree

or ye koi Aaisi vaisi normal tipe ki heroine nahi Darindi tipe ki he time to lagega🤣
dono ek dusre ko sudhar lege😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laher26



agree

or ye koi Aaisi vaisi normal tipe ki heroine nahi Darindi tipe ki he time to lagega🤣
dono ek dusre ko sudhar lege😆


Darindi ...🤣 ek tarf darindi aur dusri tarf so called darinda...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: misty85


Darindi ...🤣 ek tarf darindi aur dusri tarf so called darinda...😆



Poor mohan was so frustrated. but Darindi - that was too much. Even megha never called him that. Only bad word she used for Mohan is baztameez admi, i guess. Did she use any other bad word against him?


@misty 85- I dont think she is justified. Because if Tannu or any other stranger had helped nanhi in publishing that AD, i'm sure she would have forgiven him soon, like she has forgiven Nanhi.

I think she is already doubting her calculations about him. She thought he is insensitive, womanizer(because of koyal), chance-maroing type(maybe because of 1st meeting where mohan was chasing koyal, called her item). Some of her thoughts have been proved wrong. He is not really insensitive or Chance maroing type. He didn't to try to impress her by coming to help immediately(and also the addu's hanky returning scene). He went straight to the police station to use his source that could help in finding Nanhi. Then seeing her state, he offered his help. She cannot say he is insensitive now. His actions have proved her wrong. I'm sure she could see that he was not the baddie she made him out to be.

Her calculations are going wrong. Thats why her Ego is hurt. So Mirchi Madam is finding replacement faults in him to keep up her Ego - He left us alone there, He is competing with our family etc.

One by one all the miscalculation about his character will be cleared and she will feel more and more guilty. If she mouthed a "thank you" once(even if she didn't feel like it), none of this will happen.

I'm waiting to see how she will know about Koyal.

Yes this is also a version of Pride & Prejudice, the eternal story which has countless versions/ copies. There too Lizzy was ready to believe anything wikham told about Darcy as it boosted her first impression about Darcy. She believed Darcy only when he presented enough facts.

Btw i like Mirchi Madam & her Ego as much as Mohan & his stubborn attitude. She can take her own time to say "sorry" or "thank you".

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