Kokila confuses me...

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Scarlet28

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Posted: 13 years ago

She wants her foot in everything...there is no such thing as privacy for her...

She chose Gopi as her bahu as she feels Gopi is right for Ahem and family...or did she choose Gopi in the hope that she will be able to control her and Ahem???

At one stage she worked towards having Gohem getting close...now that she has seen progress in their relationship she gets upset when they spend time with each other...eg Cinema incident.

She feels Ahem should be all work ...no wonder he is such a dull boy...

She never ever guessed that Ahem could get so distracted by a simpleton like Gopi...somehow she feels her control over her son is slipping and she does not like it...

At times her actions as such a contradiction...but I know she is also a fair person.

What I do hope is the that the CV's will show her realising that her son is a grown man and needs his own privacy. Hope she will also realise that Gohem actually needs a boost in their relationship. Just like they are playing cupid for Raji, Gohem needs cupid working for them too.

I hope that cupid will be Koki who plans towards bring them together...it will be nice to see???

Don't know if you agree...feel free to comment... Ialso like to take to say that I have enjoyed reading everyones contribution to this forum some of you are really funny and others give great analysis and observations. Thank you.

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maddy311

@maddy311

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hehehe I wanna be in the funny category only. I am not the serious type analyst so I think its koki's own life that she is not happy about and hence planning a revenge on gohem😆

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-Eris-

@-Eris-

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree she is really confusing. Hopefully she plays cupid.

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arampras

@arampras

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Posted: 13 years ago

She is a typical mom... She can't let go of her son.

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

these are my thoughts ,,,,,...

Koki wanted a naive bahu for herself... even though she knew ahem would hate illiterate people she still chose gopi to be her bahu... because gopi is a scared lamb, naive and illiterate (i think koki knows about gopi being uneducated before their marriage)

koki though in the early days scared and punished gopi later on she was very warm and motherly figure to her gopi vahu.. gopi looked upto koki for any thing... even to accept a gift (saree) from ahem she looked at koki for permission... she never went against koki... koki was proud for having gopi as her bahu when compared to hetal who has rashi as her bahu... koki felt a sense of pride that gopi listens to whatever she says and never does anything with out telling to koki... in a way she has her control over gopi ... kinjal and ahem once in a while argue and disagree with kooki..but gopi never does that... so she feels proud of gopi

- now in the present situation koki is obviously worried about ahem neglecting his work and concentrating more on his wife...
- but the main reason for her attitude is gopi has recently started looking forward to ahem instead of koki

- when ahem was massaging her feet .. she felt ahem is ignoring his work ... next reason is gopi is no more taking her help
- during the injection scene... when koki tries to explain, gopi won't listen to her but when ahem comes in and pacifies her she listens to him...

she is insecure about gopi bahu not looking upto her but she is looking upto ahem for comfort...
gopi bahu is not listening when koki tries to say something but she is listening to ahem...
so the insecurity is not that ahem is concentrating more on gopi ... but the insecurity i think is gopi is looking upto ahem more than her

it's not about loosing her son to dil... but her dil to her son...

but after the kiss scene koki is in a confusion and is worried for both Ahemji and gopi

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_Precious_

@_Precious_

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Posted: 13 years ago

After kokila realised that there is something not right between Gohem, she should have let Gopi to attend Ahem's wounds. kokila's one this act made the distance between Gohem further though it reduced the tension between mother and son. some times, kokila is too complicated to understand so as is Ahem. Like mother like son.

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Scarlet28

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thank you for your response...everything said by all of you about Kokila is so true... I think to some extend she is also worried of losing Ahem...Ahem now relies on Gopi to do things for him and no longer confides in her...

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gohem123

@gohem123

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think you are new here...So Welcome to our forum...

And i don't know which category will you include me?am funny and sometimes serious...sometimes..not to be seen...Anyways, yeah...this koki..i love her..but yesterday, i was hoping gopi will nurse aham but she interfered...😭 And yeah, this confuses me...whether to love her or not..but am rooting for her...i love koki..

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: maddy311
Hehehe I wanna be in the funny category only. I am not the serious type analyst so I think its koki's own life that she is not happy about and hence planning a revenge on gohem😆

Maddy you are too much🤣your poor parag...Koki has been taking revenge on him all her life!!!!!!😆

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
these are my thoughts ,,,,,...

Koki wanted a naive bahu for herself... even though she knew ahem would hate illiterate people she still chose gopi to be her bahu... because gopi is a scared lamb, naive and illiterate (i think koki knows about gopi being uneducated before their marriage)

koki though in the early days scared and punished gopi later on she was very warm and motherly figure to her gopi vahu.. gopi looked upto koki for any thing... even to accept a gift (saree) from ahem she looked at koki for permission... she never went against koki... koki was proud for having gopi as her bahu when compared to hetal who has rashi as her bahu... koki felt a sense of pride that gopi listens to whatever she says and never does anything with out telling to koki... in a way she has her control over gopi ... kinjal and ahem once in a while argue and disagree with kooki..but gopi never does that... so she feels proud of gopi

- now in the present situation koki is obviously worried about ahem neglecting his work and concentrating more on his wife...
- but the main reason for her attitude is gopi has recently started looking forward to ahem instead of koki

- when ahem was massaging her feet .. she felt ahem is ignoring his work ... next reason is gopi is no more taking her help
- during the injection scene... when koki tries to explain, gopi won't listen to her but when ahem comes in and pacifies her she listens to him...

she is insecure about gopi bahu not looking upto her but she is looking upto ahem for comfort...
gopi bahu is not listening when koki tries to say something but she is listening to ahem...
so the insecurity is not that ahem is concentrating more on gopi ... but the insecurity i think is gopi is looking upto ahem more than her

it's not about loosing her son to dil... but her dil to her son...

but after the kiss scene koki is in a confusion and is worried for both Ahemji and gopi

Wow what a great thought Munni!!!!! I liked it😆 i guess its a very mutual loss😆... losing Dil to her son and son to Dil😆 and she nowhere in the picture😆losing it all!!

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