was sinal first love was ever true love?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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guys...i have always this doubt on my head aft watching witcha-kunu love story...was that even love in the first place?...i mean watever kunu doing now with siddhi...like obeying her orders...listening to her...infact he changed his lifestyle for her which never happened in witcha's case...he was the same kunal 'chopra...who was arrogant...angry man...witcha coudn't change him...was it love in the first place?...how witcha wants to break kunu'ss principals...how kunu never sacrifice his pricipals...now for anand-siddhi...they were in love...but i feel more than love it was just friendship...siddhi loved him but there was no passion for him...now wat anand-siddhi felt was that love?...i am confused...not means i am telling i am a sinal fan...i feel that now is the moment that sinal truly in love...infact they were never in love with their respective partners before...even in the past they hateeach other...there was a unspoken connection...passion for each other which was never somewhere hidden within themselves...now they are together...the passion...the connection increases...kunu have no realisation yet...but we all know how deep his feelings for siiddhi...n for siddhi she is very passionate abt kunu that she can submit herself to him...so my qns...were sinal truly in love before with their respective partners?...or are they truly in love now with each other...now for answering this qns keep the kunu realisation out and answer yaar because we all lnow he loves siddhi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mage,

A person can fall in love only once in his or her life is a notion created by hindi romantic cinemas and some literally fiction tales. In reality, you can fall in love again and again and for different reasons too.

When you are younger, the reason you fall for someone are very different. It could be looks, appearance and eventually a habit. something that might have happened for Kunal and Witcha since they were together from their college days when ideas of love are a little immature..

like you said i always found Anand and Siddhi friendly. There was no spark or chemistry.

for Kunal and Siddhi, their compromise, Anand's death and all the problems that their family faced has made them both look at each other in a whole new different perceptive and hence their love is more stable, more deep and more passionate.

Like Seema said the other day, just sharing a room or bed is not a relationship. When you face problems together and be by each other's side thats love. In that context Witcha failed Kunal big time. She left him when he was unemployed. In that sense they never loved each other!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree completely with Kshiti_Kunal :)

A relationship is about sharing your life with someone and that includes not just the highs but also the lows. Anand and Siddhi never got the opportunity to share their life together, they had very limited exchanges before their wedding was brought into the picture. They were in the very initial stages of love and so their feelings for each other, although present, were not very strong.

Kunal and Richa on the other hand did love each other very much but it took only one blow for everything to fall apart. Richa walked away when Kunal was at the lowest point in his life. If she really loved him, she would have been willing to compromise and support him when he needed her the most, instead she just wanted him to say sorry to her father, regardless of the fact that her father was the one who was wrong in the scenario. And Richa cited the most superficial reasons for not wanting to go with Kunal, she didn't want to leave HER house, HER father, HER lifestyle - it was all about her, Kunal's needs and wants weren't even in the picture for her.

I think thats what differentiates Kunal and Siddhi's relationship - Siddhi made the biggest compromise of her life by marrying Kunal, she had her reasons to hate him but despite everything, she thought about Veena's recovery and made the selfless decision to be with Kunal knowing very well that it would be a namesake marriage. And even after everything, both Siddhi and Kunal have done things for each other that truly exemplifies what a relationship should be - Siddhi taking a loan to save the house, Kunal fixing the issues with Shilpa's wedding, Siddhi taking care of Raveena's wedding expenses, Kunal supporting Siddhi during the Raveena fiasco, even little things like Kunal protecting Siddhi in the bus, apologizing to her when he was wrong, Siddhi switching on the air con for Kunal and Kunal in turn switching it off for her sake - a relationship is about giving and never expecting anything in return and in that sense Kunal and Siddhi's love for each other truly has a lot more depth and is more stronger. The only thing left now is for Kunal to realize his feelings for Siddhi and hopefully that is something that will be underway soon :)

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