Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
After all, as you've said, middle aged couples (and older ones too), do have a life.
Not just a life , they r the peak of their married life . 😊 I had not liked it when Manav Archana presented themselves as a package deal to Savita and Damodar refused to present himself and Savita as a package . At that time Varsha had said that being a package is NOT just the prerogative of the youngsters . Same way , romance and lovemaking is NOT the prerogative of extreme youth only . In this I firmly believe . But yes , with maturity , the reactions do get modified . So much MORE can be shared , experienced , and children ARE the greatest bond ! If onlyArchana Manav work as a team and solve the problems of their children instead of wasting time asking each other silly questions .Personally Sharon , I want Archana as far away from Sulochana and her sisters as possible . They only stop her from meeting Manav .ALWAYS . Sulochana herself had a fulfilled life with Manohar ...she did have a marital life . But she always disrupted Archanas life and even NOW frowns upon her wish ...of getting back with Manav . Same with Vaishali . At any cost she wanted a marraige , although it was with a bigamist . But MARRAIGE she wanted . She cribbed and cribbed about her illegal status . But today when Archana wants a marraige with Manav she expresses displeasure instead of understanding her sister .Archana is hesitant to tell Sulo , she is SCARED of her . Even to Vaishali she stutters and gives explanation . In Manavs ccase its SAVITA who is scared of him . Its she who LIES . Whereas in archanas case Archana lies as she is afraid of Sulochana . Manavs lies r not as he is scared of Savita but because he wishes to spare her pain as he does not know the truth about her role in this .The day Archana grows up and LEAVES Sulochana , Vaishali and Varsha behind and simply realises that its Manav I want and Im going after him , I will applaud her . These people have only FETTERED her . Right now too they r doing same thing .I think Archana's hiding from Sulochana speaks volumes . Sulochana will start blasting Manav and pressurize her a lot . To neutralize Savita , Damodar is there but no one is there to neutralize Sulochna . All agree with her as if she is right all the time . She has ALWAYS been a thorn in ARMAN relationship and her dislike of Manav has always made Archna feel guilty .Whereas With Manav ...the moment he will understand Savitas role in this he will simply dump her and go to Archana . He has the capability of cutting ties with his parents for Archana .Archana does NOT have the capability . She becomes guilt ridden .
Oh Kool di 🤗,
What a post and observation on Archu...👏
Amen to your post ,Totally agreed and loved the way you had pointed out and put it.
@Underlined : 1000000% correct ,Well said and couldn't agree more...
@Violet ; could not say or express how much I agree and superliked it di...Exactly the sceneario archu were in and capable of and thats why I hate sulo the most and then the spoilt ungrateful sisters of hers...
I too wish her to be far away from them...
Thats the reason i wish her to realize her mistakes and make up with her real family,Husband and kids where she could live her life by being there for them and they being there for her...