Aggghh Suhana - Page 3

Originally posted by: helloaamir

I just think it is unfair and hypocritical of Ishan to get mad at Suhana for hiding BAde Papa truth, even though it was a mother's order that Suhana had to follow. Ishaan hid the truth on Sona's saying. So why wouldn't Suhana be furious? And she saw with her own eyes that they both were together all the time, and Ishaan lied to her sooo many times. I think she, as a wife, educated or not, had full right to be angry and go back to her home in Delhi.

Originally posted by: pearlali

Suhana u completely proved it like a uneducated desi that a girl and boy should never be friends only girl girl buddies boy boy buddies. I am disappointed really disapointed Suhana u r educated. I mean not ready to listen to Eshaan BMs son Suhana.

We should build our habits to listen to instead of being heard only and such a buhtaan one must have solid proof before inclimination it is an insult. Yeah jealousy is good for love but friendship got degraded.😕

Originally posted by: abuhurairah

by lying ishaan has given suhanna more than enought proof that something is wrong if the sitaution was reversed ishaan would have doubted suhanna if she did not tell him the truth and went behind his back and did all these things yeah he accepted suhaana but she was honest to him from day one she told him outright whatever she felt she did not lie to him anything about her life the way she was. he had someone spend the night in his house then denied it completely then started to lie to her bout where he is and where hes going like she said if it was a good deed he should have helped his friend but also old suhaana im helping sona the day she came back and suspected that someone had stayed over good deeds are not done in hiding

Originally posted by: helloaamir

I just think it is unfair and hypocritical of Ishan to get mad at Suhana for hiding BAde Papa truth, even though it was a mother's order that Suhana had to follow. Ishaan hid the truth on Sona's saying. So why wouldn't Suhana be furious? And she saw with her own eyes that they both were together all the time, and Ishaan lied to her sooo many times. I think she, as a wife, educated or not, had full right to be angry and go back to her home in Delhi.

The main point that is hurting Suhana is that Ishan lied to her. She was ok with their friendship when they first met in Mumbai. She was pro inviting Sona over and going to their house and all. But why did Ishan have to hide it?? I mean if he had just told Suhana in the first place that he was going to meet Sonali then it would have been ok. I think Suhana would have understood. Even when they met for lunch the first time, since then Ishan should have told the truth. Suhana would atleast have had the satisfaction of knowing that he is with her. But what was the need for him to always hide and meet Sonali? It just doesnt make any sense. Suhana is not narrow minded. She is just angry and frustrated and feels betrayed, which any woman would, after finding out that her husband has been meeting a woman secretly for so long. Even when Suhana asked him nicely to tell the truth, he kept lying to her face. Of course when you know your husband is lying you will get mad, esp when you gave him chances to tell the truth and he kept lying and you knew also that he is lying. It must hurt so much to know that even when you are trying to clear the air between you, your spouse keeps lying to you. Of course Suhana will be upset. Everytime she called Ishan and asked where are you or anything, he will say he is in a meeting with a client. Why couldnt he just say "Suhana, I am meeting Sona right now." Preferrably, he should have just told Suhana "Sona is having some problems right now which she is not comfortable with you knowing, and she has asked me, since I am her best friend, to help her. As soon as we figure something out, I will immediately tell you. Please dont doubt me, I promise I will tell you soon, as soon as she feels comfortable." But ok, maybe thats a little far fetched. But atleast he should have known how Suhana is, and if she finds out, she may be upset. Even when he found out she was following him, he should have told her right then. But no. He got more mad at her for following him. I agree that he would get mad, but he should have still told her. Any woman will be upset if she finds out that her husband has been spending so much time with his female friend, and then lying to her face about it. Suhana was right. There was no need to lie about something, unless you feel ashamed or guilty about it, especially with your wife, whom you are supposed to share everything with, esp with your wife whom you love soo much. I just think that Suhana is not at fault here, but rather is Ishan.

Originally posted by: pearlali

See mothers order fine friend specially when its a girl we are very narrow minded people as for Eshaan he lives in small lanes but is much more broad minded than those big lanes Suhana he accepted her lover he accepted the fact he is no match for Suhana he accepted the fact all the time what Suhana is feeling meaning Eshaan understands suhana he even understood the fact suhana lying about BP but Suhana as in not a good listner too doesnt know Eshaan that he is a decent boy he is not that kind of a boy who would run around with extra marital affairs thats an offence and wth a girl whom the family takes as a daughter like RB sorry friendship is hurt here like BM got hurt here friendhsip is hurt just because friends are opposite sex our minds are close