Aww munni that was so beautifully sed, I remember we all suspected the same when he didn't knoew how to play ludo and gopi taught him the rules and how boyish he looked with his smiles while he played ,now parag s words have just confirmed his lost childhood.I don't think ahem spend a lot of tym growing up in baa s presence cos he must have been closeted away to study .if u look at their grandchildrens relationship wud baa only ahem is very formal .gopi is child like while he is too stern and stiff buyt slowly he is melting and all due to gopi , both of them are teaching each other the different aspects of life, that is what makes them a magically pair ,opposites attract and they balance each other .they are half the person wudout the other ,they complete each other.
Why he never found this wud anita ,was cos he never loved her and neither did she (if I have to tell u my reasons for doubting her feelings urll will probably kill me cos its seems I am the only one who thinks she had ulterior motives in that relationship) she was too serious ,focused on the future and to me did look like a person who needed him to help with anything , and we know how he loves too feel needed. I don't think he was comfortable being himself wud anita and showing her his weak side.gopi and ahem work cos they need each other and they can be themselves around each other , ahem is not threatened by gopis strengths and is willing to learn lifes lesson cos he does nt feel her overbearing.if u can't be comfortable to learn from the person you gonna spend the rest of ur live with u who else can u be comfortable with?