is premarital friendship good?

do u think that premarital friendship with the opposite gender really healthy❓

cuz if that person falls in luv with u but u dont, he/she'll be heart-broken 💔 and u'll b responsible for it upto a certain extent

thats wht happening with prem in KK

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i agree..its can break some1'z heart but its lkinda impossible not 2 be friends or make friends with the opposite gender n dat doesnt mean they cant just be friends rite?it may not be healthy but frindhip is friendship..do u get wut im saying?..cause even i dont think i get wut im saying..lol..😉

i read what you are saying and i see your point of view, but in a way i do believe it is good to have a friendship before marraige.

i get da point! i agree with ya!

Good friends becoming life partners is good but life partners becoming good friends is better! 😊

You probably can't totally avoid pre-maritial friendship with opposite gender. If the other end falls in love with you, I don't think you are responsible for this.

You have to probably take the correct path of either friendship or love before your relation progresses beyond your control. I know this is not possible everytime. But this is how things go... 🤔

duuh wat r u tlkin abt???

if not frendly wit the opp sex..then u sud be frendly wit the same sex only???..then theres more chances of same sexes fallin in love 😛..which do u think is better??? opps sexes rite!!!!

I definitely believe that having friends of the opposite sex is good for many reasons namely --

Little better understanding of what makes them tick,

be a better social conversationalists without blushing (God!! I went thru that stage initially, and it is embarassing),

You get comfortable around them,

learn life lessons from them,

exchange view points,

conversation is not limited to the same gender specific interests,

have a different perspective to an issue,

don't have to have a girl/boyfriend just to go dancing or hanging out. or to prove something to your peers

They watch out for you and will never let you be hurt if they can help it

appreciate them without relying on standard jokes that define both genders

teaches you dynamics that will help you when in a relationship

Thats few that I can come up with

Falling in love is also a lesson in life and tho it may not seem so at that time ..life goes on....

So isolating your self on the probability that something may happen is not helpful.

**PD**