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Posted: 13 years ago
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If i was Sandhya i would ask if i am even suitable to be an IPS officer ?

... How will she fight for others when she cannot even shut up the highly irritating chhavi ?

I was so disgusted today with bhabho's dialogues and everyone else standing there like statues ... But mostly i am angry at Sandhya ... She just stood mute and took all the abuse ... Why not open her mouth and say assertively (and not with a pleading face) that she did nothing wrong and no need to make such a halla ...

Forget bhabho, if she cannot tell the extremely rude and stupid kids of the house to shut up, how will she manage the law and order of the city ?

Does being an IPS officer mean only KNOWING the law or fighting for it ??? ... When she doesn't have the courage to tell Bhabho that she is not going to lift 20 buckets of water only because she went to cast vote, how will she protect other women from being abused ?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its sad to read what you think of Bhabo. I felt she was totally justified. Yes she was loud and crass. But she is a tigeress who is hurting and her only thought is for her cub who has been cheated a second time. She is lashing out in her hurt. I would prefer a mother like this any day.
And it is not only her love for her son, but the fact that she came to love Sandhya too. She is flabbergasted as to how she could misjudge a person so much. How she could make a mistake in reading Sandhya's eyes. She is hell bent on defending her son's honour. To make him feel whole. As she has seen him go to pieces, and fears it will happen again... and no mother can bear that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: charity10

Its sad to read what you think of Bhabo. I felt she was totally justified. Yes she was loud and crass. But she is a tigeress who is hurting and her only thought is for her cub who has been cheated a second time. She is lashing out in her hurt. I would prefer a mother like this any day.

And it is not only her love for her son, but the fact that she came to love Sandhya too. She is flabbergasted as to how she could misjudge a person so much. How she could make a mistake in reading Sandhya's eyes. She is hell bent on defending her son's honour. To make him feel whole. As she has seen him go to pieces, and fears it will happen again... and no mother can bear that.

I agree with your points. I like Bhabho too...but not able to decipher her punishment to Sandhya. How is this going to defend her and her son's honor. They are going to be degraded more for throwing Sandhya out and the neighbors must also be knowing she has no one else in that town or even country. It is going to hurt Suraj even more and Bhabho is solely responsible for all these.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@b2011: It's definitely not right. But Bhabo at this moment is time is not thinking. All she can hear is the breaking of her heart and the ensuing pain. Her heart is crying even louder than the words coming out of her mouth. And also she fears that if she doesn't send Sandhya out now, she will not be able to. Not only because of her son, but, because Sandhya made a place for herself in Bhabo's heart too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If i were sandhiya... i would literally just run out of the house as soon as the women came into congratulate me on the first place... my one, and ultimate chance to get away from all the humiliation...


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If i were super sandhiya... i would make a time machine in 5mins... turn back time... and save my parents...:(
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok Ppl, this happens , a marriage based on LIES , dont stick for long in many ppls life ...

I would also say I will shut up every one give them back right on their faces and walk away with my head high as I was cheated and manipulated rather than being part of it ...

but the main question , did sandhya want to go ? was she looking for freedom for her dreams ??? NOPE, not that she has become a BAHU and all that , its easy to say I will pack everything and go and chase my life i want to , but hard to , who is going to support u ? for get IPS for a min , is sandhya in a situation to handle herself ?? or her independent life ? na , the gal wanted to be part of the family and may be she still might have tried talking to them which might have happen later on , initially the gal wanted a breakfree but not now ... things changes and so does thinking of how one are bond with relations ...

No denying i hate chavi , i disliked bhaboo

Wat is sooraj suppose to do ??? go against his mother ?? nope he was trying to digest the truth which came in front of him , he is trying to see the gals side , had she left without a word or trying to talk he might have felt she was not happy even now (when the gal is trying to) , its not easy to say stand up and support ur wife , agree she is badly humiliated now standing up is not right since its become a big mess, but but he was waiting for something , i guess i know wats coming but i would comment only afte seeing his side tomorrow
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hate Bhabho after today...cooking is a big issue and standing 3rd in the whole of rajasthan is definitely a small issue...aha

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i hope sandhya runs to freedom. she has studied till 14th, she can get a job and follow her dreams. she should run!!! whats teh point of living in ta house where there is no compatibilty. bhaboo is truly a weirdo she takes extreme measures. why cant she see the reality of her own children. i hope chanvi gets pregnant out of a wedllock and mohit turns out tot be gay!! those would be true slaps on her fat face!! fat ass !!

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