some women are like that. constantly in TRUTH DENIAL mode and hurling stones at the only persons who truly help them.. they hurl stones on the helping person for not helping enough and if that kind person is trying to show them truth and if that helping person trying to think something for themselves.
my grandmother was like this. extremely son-loving woman. She was like this to my mom who used to work so hard for her growing business. My mom is straight forward like Indira and extremely loving and protective of her family. When I was young I used to tell my mom to stop thinking about her mother, brothers and sisters as they do not deserve her love. Her righteous thinking only makes them more unhappy and they fight with her. She never used to understand me until I reached my 30's and together with our dad and sibs counselling explained our mom to let go of her family whom she loves so much but jahan se unko kabhi pyar nahi milega jiske ke liye woh itna try karti thee
Now she is okay... she still tries to help...but thank God! our nani is dead... so lot of that drama is gone. Now peace rules,
Ek Ghar ko bigaadne na ka ilzaam ma pe jaata hai in most cases...generally speaking. I am 1000% saying that it is NOT TRUE.
But specifically speaking in my Naani's case and Kutumn sharma's case, 100% correct hai woh kahawat.