Are you annoyed at ASR, Khushi,both or none

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PriyaxBassi

@PriyaxBassi

Voyager

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Posted: 14 years ago

This is my opinion , so please don't bash

I am more annoyed at Khushi.

Like i said on this other post

"Ok, Khushi is part of the family so she had every right to go. But the thing I am upset with is that she was trying to change Arnav's party. It's not funny anymore, it was just childish. Ok I get it, she doesn't like western stuff etc. But it always good to try something new. I don't get why in serials, they show desi is best than the west. I am proud to be desi, no doubt, but i hate how they bring other cultures down.

If Khushi didn't like Arnav's idea, she could have thrown her own party, desi style. She shouldn't have did that to Arnav's party. I am disappointed. I am not saying that serials should be all western. I think serials should mostly stick to the Desi Culture, but but but, it doesn't hurt to try something new and they shouldn't bring any other culture down. "

ASR released his anger on her because she was changing his party. I would have done the same(No Offence) I mean I would hate if someone was trying to change my party.

Also ASR doesn't know the whole truth about the engagement(hopefully he finds out soon) I think ASR surprised because that day when he found out Khushi's engagement broke, she said it really hurts when your engagement breaks and ran of crying, so I think thats why ASR was surprised today.

I am not trying to bash anyone. I just expressed what i felt cause most people are angry at ASR.

My point is Khushi shouldn't have tried changing his party .

I am annoyed with Khushi's behavior . I am just here to show you how i think about this situation

Another thing. I don't understand why Payal told Khushi she was bored. Payal knows she is going to be in a high class family so she has to get use to it. What does she expect? Khushi to crash every party Raizadas have. But even though Payal was bored, Khushi should not have interfered and tell her to get use to it

Everyone has dif opinions about this. What is your opinion ?

Edited by Priyalovex3 - 14 years ago

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anjs

@anjs

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

even i was feeling bad...but then if u think of it this way...she just feel that she has a right over him and everything related to him...thats why interfering in his personal life...and then requesting him to cater to both the type of people desi plus non-desi...

not sure bt the dance though, as will see the episode tomorrow and then decide...

but if she is going only to entertain payal, then she doesn't need to dance, she can just chat up with payal and keep entertaining her...

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Posted: 14 years ago

i am also annoyed at her! i mean what is the need to force him to change his party theme! akash and payal belongs to different social status but now payal has to accept akash's life style and his social status! isnt it great that arnav himself is giving them the acknowledgement !! khushi is just over interfering!..she should let payal accept her in laws! she can throw a party in her desi style later but its her in laws party..she has no right to interfere! .. they could have easily showed a good jealousy moment in that classy party only!

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sunena2293

@sunena2293

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

okay I agree that Khushi probably didn't take the more mature route with this situation but she did try...and you can't deny the fact the ASR was being unreasonable and just insulting her instead of dealing with it like a mature adult...so he was also acting childish
As for the western theme...hellooo...it's an INDIAN serial...of course it's gonna be filled with desiness..I understand what you mean of how western cultures are put down but I've seen shows where they do have the western parties...but of course desi parties are more dhamakedar...it's not that the western culture is being put down...they're trying to show that middle class simple people like Payal and Khushi and more familiar with the desi culture and that's what they're comfortable in...which is why Khushi was pushing for desi...I know you think they should have tried it but just look at poor Payal...she's completely bored at the party by trying it...I mean who wouldn't feel uncomfortable in a saree at a western party...and if you think Khushi and Payal should just wear western dresses then you are definitely dreaming...I don't think they should change for anything...accept them how they are...that's why we love them right?

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geetmaanluv

@geetmaanluv

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

I AGREE!!! i was just abt to make a topic on this... then i saw urs.

Y hate on the other cultures. DESI is great.. i love indian culture but y did cv's show khushi soo rigid at the idea of asr party.. its boring, i want lassi and jalebi and chat... i mean to make it indian is one this to turn his party into a dhabba is another. i usally always sympathize with khushi but this time asr did it with right intention. he wanted a quite place for akash and payal to talk how can they in khushi desi "jalsaa".

i mean khushi trying to make asr change his temper etc is GREAT thing but trying to change what he eats, what he likes ... y do indian serials always show people hating on western things. this is the first time i am glad asr yelled at her. she is going to be akash's sister in law they are from high society khushi should think before changing the party and putting on such a dance show. i would get it if asr was trying to hurt payal in some way and khushi getting back at him but asr is only trying to help payash in his own way. y show khushi hate everything he does. does he deserved to be embarrassed like that. i dont know y they show khushi not even attempt to understand him... prob bec he is mean but still. she is understanding of everyone... she tries to give shaym the benefit of the doubt but asr is where she draws the line... i hope cv's show a mature khushi who tries to understand his life. bec if she is to be his wife she cannot go around embarrassing the hell out of him like this.

ps. not bashing khushi but the writers who are showing her way too ott and meddlesome... i mean today it was not cute nor funny. they need to quit and show an mature khushi soon

Edited by geetmaanluv - 14 years ago

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sunena2293

@sunena2293

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vampire_girl
i am also annoyed at her! i mean what is the need to force him to change his party theme! akash and payal belongs to different social status but now payal has to accept akash's life style and his social status! isnt it great that arnav himself is giving them the acknowledgement !! khushi is just over interfering!..she should let payal accept her in laws! she can throw a party in her desi style later but its her in laws party..she has no right to interfere! .. they could have easily showed a good jealousy moment in that classy party only!

woah woah woah...hold up there...this is technically not really her in-laws party...I know Arnav is part of the family of course but this party is only meant for kids...which is why Khushi is pushing for desi...I'm sure that if it was a western party for everyone then Khushi wouldn't interfere as much because she doesn't respect the Raidaza's high class status and everything...and you can't blame her...she was forced to take this route...ASR was being completely unreasonable and childish too by just insulting her...and she does have a right to interfere because it deals with her Jiji...I mean I know it's Arnav's party but it's just making Payal uncomfortable and bored...if you're gonna throw a party for someone then at least make it entertaining for them...and just for the record...Khushi did try to leave the party alone...which is why she wasn't going...but she felt sorry for her sister which is why she went...I was glad she did...I was literally saying..."you better go Khushi...if I was in Payal's situation then I would want my little sister to save me too"..😆 So Khushi is doing all this just to make her sister happy...is she wrong for doing that? Because I love her for doing that...that's true sister love 😊

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PriyaxBassi

@PriyaxBassi

Voyager

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sunena2293
okay I agree that Khushi probably didn't take the more mature route with this situation but she did try...and you can't deny the fact the ASR was being unreasonable and just insulting her instead of dealing with it like a mature adult...so he was also acting childish
As for the western theme...hellooo...it's an INDIAN serial...of course it's gonna be filled with desiness..I understand what you mean of how western cultures are put down but I've seen shows where they do have the western parties...but of course desi parties are more dhamakedar...it's not that the western culture is being put down...they're trying to show that middle class simple people like Payal and Khushi and more familiar with the desi culture and that's what they're comfortable in...which is why Khushi was pushing for desi...I know you think they should have tried it but just look at poor Payal...she's completely bored at the party by trying it...I mean who wouldn't feel uncomfortable in a saree at a western party...and if you think Khushi and Payal should just wear western dresses then you are definitely dreaming...I don't think they should change for anything...accept them how they are...that's why we love them right?

Sometimes you have to change your lifestyle a bit at your in laws like my cousin did. She never cooked, woke up late etc. But now she changed her lifestyle. It is not about changing yourself, more like changing your life style. For Payal, it is about having western parties, so she has to get use to it. This was the perfect way to understand her new lifestyle. That's why Arnav did it

and about the childish thing. Sometimes you have to be childish to argue with a childish person. Like you can't fight with one peaceful team and one violent. Same thing for this. If Arnav talked in a mature matter Khushi wouldn't have understood cause she is childish and would have started an argument with him

Edited by Priyalovex3 - 14 years ago

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mahamluvsbs

@mahamluvsbs

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

khushi should not have gone to the party

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sunena2293

@sunena2293

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: geetmaanluv
I AGREE!!! i was just abt to make a topic on this... then i saw urs.

Y hate on the other cultures. DESI is great.. i love indian culture but y did cv's show khushi soo rigid at the idea of asr party.. its boring, i want lassi and jalebi and chat... i mean to make it indian is one this to turn his party into a dhabba is another. i usally always sympathize with khushi but this time asr did it with right intention. he wanted a quite place for akash and payal to talk how can they in khushi desi "jalsaa".
i mean khushi trying to make asr change his temper etc is GREAT thing but trying to change what he eats, what he likes ... y do indian serials always show people hating on western things. this is the first time i am glad asr yelled at her. she is going to be akash's sister in law they are from high society khushi should think before changing the party and putting on such a dance show. i would get it if asr was trying to hurt payal in some way and khushi getting back at him but asr is only trying to help payash in his own way. y show khushi hate everything he does. does he deserved to be embarrassed like that. i dont know y they show khushi not even attempt to understand him... prob bec he is mean but still. she is understanding of everyone... she tries to give shaym the benefit of the doubt but asr is where she draws the line... i hope cv's show a mature khushi who tries to understand his life. bec if she is to be his wife she cannot go around embarrassing the hell out of him like this.

ps. not bashing khushi but the writers who are showing her way too ott and meddlesome... i mean today it was not cute nor funny. they need to quit and show an mature khushi soon

Okay yes Payal will have to adjust to the high life style but give her some time...she's just barely engaged...you can't expect her to adjust that quickly...Khushi was trying to be mature about it which is why she didn't go at first...but she's just trying to save her sister...I know ASR is doing all this for Payal and Akaash but clearly he's failing since Payal is bored out of her mind...and I would never want to see a completely mature Khushi...Khushi is mature at times but being playful is her personality...you can't change that...I give her props for being so happy for everyone else...she's caring for her sister

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I am also more annoyed with Khushi. She has no right to interfere with ASR's party, it his party, his idea and should be his way.

What happened to La was Khushi's fault more then ASR's, as Khushi literally shoved her down ASR's throat.

Now his party, why can't the cv's for once show Khushi accept ASR the way he is, not try to change his way of thinking. A person should learn to adapt. They should show Payal trying to adapt to Aakash lifestyle.

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