Love Marriage or Arranged?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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So guys, which of the two would you prefer and why? If you want to share some examples or so, feel free to do so. Discuss away!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't think there is clear answer to this. A little bit of know how is good as otherwise arranged marriage becomes a lottery. You don't know what you are getting in the marriage package until you start living with the person. On the other hand it doesnt have to be love either. Not everyone is lovable teddy bear
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Originally posted by: JONAKIHATESYOU

Love Marriage=Suicide
Arranged Marriage=Murder

In other words
Love Marriage= jump from the cliff
Arranged Marriage= mother in law and son throwing cooking oil, burning the girl and then shedding crocodile tears and claiming oh my loveable bahu accidently burned herself while making pakoras in kitchen.
It would be interesting to observe "50 year old un married girls" and "50 year old un married boys". The later I can imagine as desi boys singing "english thumke mare jam jam ke". I just cant come up with a song for the former group.

Edit: Okay i came up with one song. "mein ho sheila, sheila ki jawani. i am too s.xy for you, mein tere haath na aani."
Other side will say thank God. lol
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Love all the way, I ain't spending my wedding night with a complete stranger, HELL NO.
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Originally posted by: K-A-L

In other words
Love Marriage= jump from the cliff
Arranged Marriage= mother in law and son throwing cooking oil, burning the girl and then shedding crocodile tears and claiming oh my loveable bahu accidently burned herself while making pakoras in kitchen.
It would be interesting to observe "50 year old un married girls" and "50 year old un married boys". The later I can imagine as desi boys singing "english thumke mare jam jam ke". I just cant come up with a song for the former group.

Edit: Okay i came up with one song. "mein ho sheila, sheila ki jawani. i am too s.xy for you, mein tere haath na aani."
Other side will say thank God. lol



It isn't really that sinister or bad as you make it out to be. Marriage is just not for everybody. Not everybody is ready to make that kind of commitment to another person in their life. So love marriage is end of life as you know it (suicide), arranged marriage is letting others end life as you know it (murder).


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades



It isn't really that sinister or bad as you make it out to be. Marriage is just not for everybody. Not everybody is ready to make that kind of commitment to another person in their life. So love marriage is end of life as you know it (suicide), arranged marriage is letting others end life as you know it (murder).


lol okay
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JONAKIHATESYOU

Love Marriage=Suicide
Arranged Marriage=Murder

No Marriag = Lonely prison Term 😆
But I guess generally marriage is a fulfillment of a social obligation.
Our factories and farms need labour.😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Those who can't mate in captivity...they never do marriage...and love or arrange marriage its the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would have preferred...and if we check whole history..Adam and Eve had an ideal marriage... He didn't have to hear about all the men she could have married, and she didn't have to hear about the way his mother cooked...other blah blah things...😉but It's sad to see how people seem to put more effort into their wedding than they do into their marriage...

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Originally posted by: Prometeus

Those who can't mate in captivity...they never do marriage...and love or arrange marriage its the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would have preferred...and if we check whole history..Adam and Eve had an ideal marriage... He didn't have to hear about all the men she could have married, and she didn't have to hear about the way his mother cooked...other blah blah things...😉but It's sad to see how people seem to put more effort into their wedding than they do into their marriage...

Adam and Eve never married as there was no priest or religion then.😆

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