Is being diplomatic really bad?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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In this and also in previous seasons of BB, I have noticed that the word "diplomatic" is used as some kind of big insult. My question is -
"Is being diplomatic really bad?"
Diplomacy serves useful purpose in international relations, in business deals and in almost all relations between humans.
I have noticed that if somebody is polite, tactful and thinks well before saying anything, then he is immediately branded as diplomtic. But when somebody says whatever comes in his mind, without any consideration to how others feel, then he praises himself by saying "I say whatever is in my mind. I am straightforward."
However, if somebody else tries to be straightforward to him in the same manner, then it is considered rude and lack of manners.
So, I repeat my question:-
Is being diplomatic really bad?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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no i dont think being diplomatic is bad
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Diplomacy is context oriented...It is good and bad...depends on the situation!! When the situation calls for telling the truth...if you use diplomacy as a weapon then its bad...In BB house most of them use diplomacy as a weapon rather than for good reasons...
They are diplomatic when asked a question in front of everyone...but at the same time have different thing to say about the same question with their own confidants!!
For example: In last week aapka farmaan Shraddha was asked who is the big gamer in the house...she said everyone is playing games...can't really take names... But once she was out when media asked her the same question in her interview then she said Amar... She was diplomatic inside the house but not outside the house.. Remember the question was asked before she knew about her eviction...
BB house is like playing a card game or a chess game..one wrong move you might lose money or an important pawn!! So some of them strategize their usage of diplomacy!! and some of them use different strategy but less diplomacy!!
P.S: Ooops sorry if it was too long a reply!! felt like I was writing a paper on diplomacy!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snehabr

Diplomacy is context oriented...It is good and bad...depends on the situation!! When the situation calls for telling the truth...if you use diplomacy as a weapon then its bad...In BB house most of them use diplomacy as a weapon rather than for good reasons...

They are diplomatic when asked a question in front of everyone...but at the same time have different thing to say about the same question with their own confidants!!
For example: In last week aapka farmaan Shraddha was asked who is the big gamer in the house...she said everyone is playing games...can't really take names... But once she was out when media asked her the same question in her interview then she said Amar... She was diplomatic inside the house but not outside the house.. Remember the question was asked before she knew about her eviction...
BB house is like playing a card game or a chess game..one wrong move you might lose money or an important pawn!! So some of them strategize their usage of diplomacy!! and some of them use different strategy but less diplomacy!!
P.S: Ooops sorry if it was too long a reply!! felt like I was writing a paper on diplomacy!!!


Well said snehabr! Completely agree with you- Glad that shraddha is out- was disgusted that she came this far

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