Maryaada (Gaurav Jhakhar)

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What shd Gaurav do next ?

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Pirated_Fun

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Posted: 14 years ago

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He should stick to Karan ..No matter what the situation is being with Vidya he will actually make both his and her life miserable ...Sex is a vital part of a healthy relationship between husband and wife ...He should divorce her .

Best solution will be he should leave the country with Karan ..If the love between Karan and him is gone .He should find another partner for him ..For a better life for everyone this should be the solution ,..

If they show Vidya and Gaurav together ,,It will give wrong information to the society ..

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Dakssh AJIT Singh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: --PiaSenGupta--
He should stick to Karan ..No matter what the situation is being with Vidya he will actually make both his and her life miserable ...Sex is a vital part of a healthy relationship between husband and wife ...He should divorce her .
Best solution will be he should leave the country with Karan ..If the love between Karan and him is gone .He should find another partner for him ..For a better life for everyone this should be the solution ,..

If they show Vidya and Gaurav together ,,It will give wrong information to the society ..

According to me 2nd option is the only survival for everyone... Coz he is a person of soul... If VIDYA is not happy with someone else, than Gaurav wl never make a relationship with anyone, he loves Karan, But if something greater than ljust physical intimacy in a relationship, than Gaurav can't live without VIDYA... He deserves to b ALONE, till the time VIDYA's decides to go further and find someone else as his husband or partner willingly...

Kuch ghaltiyan ki muaafi nahin hoti, Gaurav did the same mistake by marrying VIDYA...

(Purely my own point of view as Dakssh)

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maryadafan1

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I hope EVERYONE involved with "Maryada" realizes that from 10th June 2011 this serial has ceased to be just another serial and has earned itself a place in the history of this country. It has done so SIMPLY by showing homosexuality not as something to be laughed at but as JUST ANOTHER KIND of sexuality, NOT inferior to heterosexuality. I have no words of praise that would adequately express what I feel for the ENTIRE team of this FANTASTIC serial. But special commendation to DAKSSH AJIT SINGH AND KARAAN SINGH for not portraying gay men as only effeminate caricatures, but has TWO HUMAN BEINGS, TWO MEN WHO LOVE EACH OTHER. It is the REVOLUTIONARY nature of their portrayal which has already assured them a place in the history of Indian entertainment.

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Simiseengh15

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Posted: 14 years ago

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hey everyone...i am writing my first post and absolutely new to this forum..i am actually a silent reader of this forum since past few weeks...I JUST LOVE THIS SHOW...DAKSSH is an amazing actor and is doing his job really well..infact all the actors are equally good especially those who play vidya,aditya,priya,...i love the emotionally bound couple gaurav and vidya..the relationship they share is so pure and well potrayed...though they arent like usual married couple...but still the CHEMISTRY is amazing..i think even if the show doesnt unite karan-gaurav or they end up vidya gaurav together...it shouldnt upset anyone as its just a show and ppl shouldnt take it seriously...as far as HOMOSEXUALITY is concerend i do believe in it and totally respect it...but at least we sholud be happy that the show makers have introduced GAY concept in indian shows which is quite a big thing...HATS OFF TO THEM👏
last but not least m really sorry if i have hurt anyones feeling..i am just giving my opinion..no offence to anyone:):)

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Posted: 14 years ago

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His relationship with Vidya started from a coverup to friendship to emotional to understanding but there was never love in it.

If he is shown bisexual then it sends wrong message to the people.

He should either stay with Karan or find another man.

Vidya has a full right to enjoy her life without any compromise.

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BheegiBasanti

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Posted: 14 years ago

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It's my belief that people move on when they have no other option...that is if they are the type that need an external push to get them going...it's the survival instinct we all have! Vidya is clearly not being shown like she would move on with her life on her own merry self. Gaurav has apologized...she has forgiven him. He needs to move on now...whether that is with Karan or somebody else. Yes what Gaurav did is huge...unforgivable even...but...after a point, there is not anything he can do except live his life. That will also hopefully encourage Vidya to not sit around in a fake marriage. Vidya's character can claim to have been cheated by Devyani & Gaurav in the past but right now, she is cheating herself by staying in it without seeking a life on her own. This of course does have to be equated to finding a guy...surely a young woman of today, irrespective of her background or upbringing, can have ambitions that are outside the house. Any storyline that involves a bisexual Gaurav or a baby-making plot just takes away from a path breaking gay storyline! It's amazing how many people would like to stick their head in the sand and imagine the most stupid things about being gay or lesbian. If Maryaada can change the mindset of even a couple of them...it would totally be worth it's weight in gold!

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rosana1744

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Posted: 14 years ago

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[Quote=daksshajitsingh]According to me 2nd option is the only survival for everyone... Coz he is a person of soul... If VIDYA is not happy with someone else, than Gaurav wl never make a relationship with anyone, he loves Karan, But if something greater than ljust physical intimacy in a relationship, than Gaurav can't live without VIDYA... He deserves to b ALONE, till the time VIDYA's decides to go further and find someone else as his husband or partner willingly...

Kuch ghaltiyan ki muaafi nahin hoti, Gaurav did the same mistake by marrying VIDYA...

(Purely my own point of view as Dakssh)

Hello,

As you are asking the question, i m taking the opportunity to tell you what i think about it.

I don't agree with you on this subject :

Gaurav did a mistake by marrying Vidya but who wouldn't have, i think when you think you are a shame for your family, that you are a disappointement since "childhood", that your own father would kill you rather than having you as a son. I think in a case like this you do what you think will please your family... And people judging should try to walk a mile in his shoes...

Dispite of all this, this is not Vidya's fault, but what is done is done, it's useless to look for a culprit.

I think Gaurav should leave Vidya, because i really agree on chinu's and aditya's opinion in the show.

As long as he will stay with her, she will force herself to love him, and hope for a better futur as his wife. As divorcing is so shamefull and painfull in India, she will always be scared for herself and her family to do so. It would a huge pain to overcome.

If she stays with Gaurav, she will suffer a little bit everyday, but this kind of suffering, most of people can get used to it and live with it. She would be broken to not have kids and having people asking her why, but she would survive by keeping the hope that maybe one day...

I don't think she would be willing to leave one day, as everybody is so nice to her. Or maybe she would, around 45 years old, when she will be full of bitterness...

(as she never goes out of the house, she won't meet anybody to fall in love with)

As for the consequences for the rest of their family, the parents of Vidya were clear on agreeing to take her back. They see, as everybody else, how sad she truly is...

And for Gaurav's family, he has the support of his mum, and now that Aditya's anger is passing, he will have the support of his brother... I think that should be enough for him, as he was ready and his mother as well to have a divorce some episodes back.

This show really show how lies, even with good intentions, can kill a family. Most of the situations are created by some will to protect, to hide... In the end they should all discuss all the matters together, sure they would be arguments, but atfer some times reconciliations as well whereas keeping all this matter hidden make only the situations to worsen...

Anyway just as you said, it's just my humble opinion of european girl, very far from India... I can be wrong

Anyway thanks for this very good show and for the open-mind it's showing

Thank you for your courage to take up this role and doing your best with it

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Sabarnee

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Posted: 14 years ago

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to stay with Vidya is impossible and furious...she should move on and Gaurav should go to Karan and stay with him...

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Dakssh AJIT Singh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: rosana1744
[Quote=daksshajitsingh]According to me 2nd option is the only survival for everyone... Coz he is a person of soul... If VIDYA is not happy with someone else, than Gaurav wl never make a relationship with anyone, he loves Karan, But if something greater than ljust physical intimacy in a relationship, than Gaurav can't live without VIDYA... He deserves to b ALONE, till the time VIDYA's decides to go further and find someone else as his husband or partner willingly...

Kuch ghaltiyan ki muaafi nahin hoti, Gaurav did the same mistake by marrying VIDYA...
(Purely my own point of view as Dakssh)