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Sorry guys but this is going to be a longgg post because I really wish to put my point of view across very clearly (thanks for bearing with me😊)
We think all contestants this season are problematic but hey who isnt? Even I have anger issues. That doesnot make me a bad person because nobody is perfect in this world. Everyone has some flaws. The issue with the people in the house is that their imperfections are magnified because they live in such unnatural circumstances. They have nothing to do apart from household chores and interacting with each other. To give the contestants their due, all of us who are living in natural circumstances end up in ugly fights. Even siblings end up in physical fights. That does not mean they are psychos. No one in the show is a psycho! No one can be termed as a psycho based on how they behave in unnatural surroundings. The way these contestants behave on the show is certainly not how they will behave in normal circumstances.
The way the contestants deal with situations is based on various factors such as their childhood experiences, how they were treated, what they have been through. Because of all these factors they have different tolerance levels.
Now my take on the contestants:
Amar has a very high tolerance level and self control but when that line is crossed he gives the person what they are giving him. For example an eye for an eye. His weakness is his very high self control. Because of this people think he is a coward.
Mehek has very high standard of morality and tries very hard to keep up to them no matter what but then she expects the same from others as well and when she doesnt get it she gets frustrated and talks too much when frustrated. Her weakness is her intolerance to people not meeting her expectations.
Sid has had a troubled childhood and thus has issues with being treated badly. He gets really defensive at even the slightest hint of getting humiliated and tries to tackle it in whatever way her can think of. This kid just wants to be treated with respect. His weakness is his self esteem.
PM too had a troubled life and owing to her past experiences she gets suspicious of people's intentions and wants to attack them before they can cause her any harm. That is her defense mechanism. Her weakness is her over analyzing and suspicious nature. She suspects a lot that is the only reason her outbursts are so loud.
Shonali is just plain dumb. She wants to be a perfectly good human being which is actually not possible because no one is and no one can be perfect. She messes up just because she wants to be 100% pure and good.
Shraddha is basically a girl who thinks she is a misfit among the hi-fi girls on the show. This is the reason she stays so aloof. She feels she is inferior to the other mod girls who are fluent with English. She tries to fit in but when she fails she moves into her own shell. She basically has low self esteem and because of this she gets offensive when she is even slightly rubbed the wrong way.
Juhi is a complete dominator. She wants to be the judge of every situation. She wants to be very fair and good and wants to dictate everything others do. From fights to food. Everything. Her flaw is that she is a control freak.
Sky is basically someone who thinks he is a very giving and nice person but he does not want to see his flaws. He wants to live in a myth that he is the nicest human being in this world and thus has the right to judge what is right and what is wrong. He thinks he has the right to punish what is wrong from his perspective by belittling them. He is basically a control freak who lives in a mirage that he is flawless!
The problem with Sky is that he has a very strong desire to win. All the others also want to but with him this desire is the greatest because he thinks only he deserves it as he is the BEST human being. This combination makes a lethal combination which makes him very volatile and inconsiderate.
But leaving Sky out, all others are people we interact with in our daily life. 95% people in the world have one of these flaws. Its very normal. What makes it appear so abnormal is that these tendencies are magnified 100% because of the unnatural surroundings. This is how human psychology is. Put anyone else apart from these people with similar flaws and after a certain point in time they will behave in a similar way. I know many people who have these flaws. Even I have the same flaw which Amar has. Meet PM or Sid or Mehek or Shraddha in any other surrounding and they will seem to you as normal as those people in the normal world who have these same flaws but we donot notice them because the natural surrounding acts as a buffer. To me NONE of them (Shraddha, Mehek, PM, Sid, Amar, Juhi, Shonali) are bad people. They are all good hearted people. Sky is just mean. He will not be mean once he realizes that he becomes mean.
And now coming to someone whom I hate the most! PB!!!
I just cannot control myself so before saying anything I have to say that PB is the biggest b***h I have ever seen in my life 🤬🤬 I really hate abusing but here I just cannot control myself. She is the is absolutely the WORST person on BB! What a low-life she is!
She is the most headstrong contestant who has perfect control over her weaknesses. The only thing with her is that she is too clever and manipulative. Her over intelligence and high level of self control give her the leverage to plot and plan. She has been the source of most evil in the house.
She excluded PM
formed a group of people who she thought were "hi-fi and mod" enough to fit into her group.
Then she started dominating everyone. She made Shraddha feel unwelcomed in her group because of her personality.
She pretended to be all appreciating of Gulabo but we all know what was going on! How Gulabo was treated as if she is some dirt bag.
She was mean to Nihita by saying ooo her claim to fame is just her husband.
She is the one who bullied Shraddha and caused her outburst.
She is the one who treated Shakti so badly and totally assassinated his character eventhough he was gentleman enough not to say a word to her.
She is the one who made a HUGE fuss about that juhi vs amar silly fight
She is the one who was imposing her own opinions on her group without giving breathing space to anyone
She is the one who upon seeing that PM gets public support took a 180 degree flip and went against Vida to get public appreciation
She is against Mehak because Mehak is aadat se majboor and used to catch every hypocrisy of hers.
She was against Amar because he knew what sort of a game this lady was playing
She was all friendly and nice to Sid and was acting as if he has become her best friend but recently denied that she was close to him before sky entered
She knew Shakti and Amar were married, Sid was too young so when Sky entered she got all chummy with him and being himself, when Sky saw that someone thinks he is the best human being on the face of this earth he started giving bhao to her
She is all nice to Juhi because juhi is in awe of her because of the "fair" image she has in the outside world
She is blindly supporting Sky because she wants to have an affair with him for some time in the outside world
and now that she is gone out of the house she is maligning Amar, Mehak, Sid and even PM. She is openly maligning Mehak and Amar because she didnot get along with them, With Sid she is just taking revenge because he was no longer obedient and was giving his own opinions (and ofcourse went against her next bf Sky). With PM its a different ballgame altogether. She is doing the worst with PM and PM is so dumb that she is not realizing it. What PB is doing to PM is a classic case of backstabbing. She is being a meethi churi with PM. PM fans are busy in criticizing Sid but they are not realizing the fact that whatever happened between Sid and PM was a one on one issue. They will sort it out after the show ends and im 200% sure about it. People will also forget about it in a span on 2 months. But what PB is doing to PM is horrible. PB is going on and on about how PM is metally ill and needs help. She is unfit for the show blah blah. For god-sake woman shut up! You are no trained psychologist to pass such judgements that too while acting as PM ki wellwisher. If you are such a wellwisher then stop saying it in public and help her in anyway. What good will speaking like this about PM in public do to her? Even if PM is a psycho (which I dnt think she is) how will giving interviews to the press about it help? 😡 PM should sue PB! I hope PM stops being dumb and realizes that the harm PB is doing to her is by far the worst.
To end I will say that I dnt hate anybody on the show except for PB!!
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