I love Varsha...just such a sweet person - Page 3

Originally posted by: naina49

but is she best patni too?????????????

Originally posted by: vivacious

@ BOLD.. There you are.. Akshara is lead so you considered her as best bahu. But its not the truth. Well, a married gal's priority should be her husband not sasra. She entered the family because of the relation she is into with her husband. Every girl falls in love with the sasra just because she begins to love everything that is related to husband but not the other way around. A women who fails to keep her husband happy and spare enough time to him is never considered as best bahu. Forget about being an example.

@ '' I dont think Varsha has been ignored. Akshara is dughter of the house so everyone loves her but varsha is DIL. and she got everything actually more than everything that DIL deserves. Second thing that you said varsha never goes to mayaka. well yes she dont go to mayaka that much but they are too too nice that sometimes they call her mother into their house.''

There is a hell lot of difference in sending a girl to mayka and bringing her mother to sasural.

Any girl loves to go to mayka cos the freedom she feels in mayka and the happiness she gets going there is different than having mother in her sasural. As her mother always feels uncomfortable staying there and they can't even talk and move properly.

Varsha is very smart in handling a situation where as akshara is a crying baby or just gives pravachan nothing more than that.

As some of my friend said '' sacrificing your own happiness all the time is also not a good trait to be proud of '' . In reality too much sacrifices can harm relationships. Thats what is happening with akshara and naitik. Thats the reason why naitik always complain. If a couple like akshara and naitik exists in real life.. they loose the spark between them so soon cos of akshara's much sacrificing nature. Akshara is no way an example character. If one should be taken as example from the serial.. No doubt it is affable Varsha.

Originally posted by: vivacious

Sorry to say, i disagree with you. Varsha is the best DIL. Her sasural is not as perfect as you said. How often have you seen varsha going to her Mother's house ? Not even 1/4th time of akshara's visiting to mayka. Even if she goes for a day or so. Her MIL calls her back just for akshara's sake.

Rashmi's or nandini's jaap doesn't happen infront of akshara . Where as in Varsha's MIL. No matter what varsha do, they just say akshara akshara akshara... uff! . Varsha is really really sweet and nvr gets annoyed. She balances everything with an ease. Crying n sacrificing doesn't make someone good DIL. Being smart , understanding, balancing everything and not giving a chance to husband complain that he is getting ignored due to household chores and at the same time fulfilling her interests ( finishing her studies) are the signs of BEST DIL which is Varsha. Varsha is adorable :)

Originally posted by: nivin0

well said

totally agree