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Hi,
I joined this forum earlier but never wrote nething here. For one or two topics i have given my comment. 😊
I wanted to write some part of my life as it is to some extent similar to uttaran not wholly.
Like jogi my father is also an idealist and a man of principles⭐️. When i was about 10-11 years old, my father brought home two kids one girl named Pooja and one boy named Rahul along with their mother. They used to work in our house but dad preferred them to study . Both my mom and my dad used to take care of them just like in Uttaran. Which i never liked and always complain mom and dad regarding this 😡. However my anger vanished when i befriended them irrespective of their background .
But they were very good kids never hurt anyone, always ready to sacrifice for our family and slowly they won everybody's heart - my friends, family members and like. But honestly my anger continued only for few months because it was my father who showed me the true meaning of life. When i spent time with them i realised that they are just like us and there is nothing to be angry off. They use to call my mom and dad as mom and dad . At first it felt wried but then everything was normal because i considered them as my own. I never felt they snatch anything from me because I believe when we gave them something they also gave us back with lots of love, loyalty. By welcoming them i was getting more love from people because i never did anything bad or said bad about others. This was because of my upbringing that even at that age my mind was free from any negativity.
Now i am mature and sensible enough to decide what is right and wrong and can never think anything of abusing or hurting them even though they shared my dad and mom' love. Pooja is now married with my to be husband i.e he came to see me but preferred her . I was hurt and cried a lot😭 but the next moment when i analised the matter i calm down. She refused to marry him but we made her marry him because he loves her and not me and thats important 😳. Now they are happily married with an angel which gives me satisfaction. Rahul on the other hand takes care of me like his own sister always keeping me above, feels good .😛
He is a doctor, however sadly their mother whom i call chhoti ma expired last year (she was a maid)
I m also married with one daughter and a boy when i look back i feel sooo great because one good thinking of me earned me lots of love , respect and the feeling of I dont know what to say . I never felt that they snatched away my mom or dad, tried to snatch away my to be husband thank God no negativity. This is my practical experience so whenever somebody supports each and every act of Tapasya and bad mouth Itcha and Damini on the basis of background or service as she is maid I feel very bad.
But God grace I was never surrounded by negative people and was rational enough to keep aside my childish manner and take the right decision at the right time i.e love evryone and not to shower hatred as it will come back to you.
SORRY FOR SUCH A LONG POST. AND THANKS😊
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