firstly, noways would i run away with another man, whether i lopve him or not. Secondly, as for leaving him and not coming back, i dont think i can do that either. I'd love my husband too much to leave him. Yes, I would be shattered if i found out something like this, but after much soul searching and time spent alone, i believe i would go back to him. If we can come to an understanding, if we can both see the error of our ways and see it from each others perspective. i would discuss it with my husband rather than his AUNTY!!! I mean marriage is a big step and its silly to simply walk away without even trying to sort things out... I know i may make it soun easy and not being married yet, i probably look ignorant, but this is really how i would try to react rather than walking away completely. Maybe in hurt and anger, i will run away, but i thihk i'd go back and try 2 salvage the realationship.