'We'll have to let him go..'

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Posted: 14 years ago
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One of the most beautiful scenes on this show ever...
and also one of the most HEARTBREAKING...😭

Being a Stelena shipper, hearing Elena say that was one of the most painful things ever, yet the truth of it cannot be denied...
Stefan during the course of these 9 episodes has really lost himself...despite glimmers of hope where he does save his brother or elena, he really does seem to have given up...
and I don't blame him...
like he said in one of these epiosodes, even if he does come back, he will never be the same again...
Elena-Stefan cannot go back to being the same they were...all this killing and bloodlust has really changed stefan...
while of course I do believe we will ultimately get Stefan back, the reality right now is that Stefan really is far, FAR away...
However now that the compulsion is gone, i really hope Stefan finds himself and gets even with Klaus!!
And judging by his actions now, he is going in that direction (stealing the family coffins...BADASS!!)😃

Oh, and also, despite being a Stelena-er, I will have to admit I was itching to change sides when that absolutely heartwarming scene between Elena and damon happened.. 'We'll survive, we always do" Aww!!!!! You know I have to admit the chemistry between damon and elena is BREATHTAKING!!!
But then again, I guess Damon could have chemistry with anything..even a frikking pencil!!!!😆

Ok I really do think damon and elena are hot together, but there are two reasons why I think they shouldn't be together -

1. I really do think Stefan and elena are meant for each other...they are so adorable together!!😳

2. I dont think Damon deserves to be someones rebound, or second choice!! He is amazing and I definitely think that the person he ends up with should be someone who loves him absolutely and completely, NOT someone who is conflicted between two people!!
Damon doesnt need another Katherine-like experience again! Love him!!😳

O, and ...I absolutely cannot wait until Jan 5!! Arrggghhh!! Hate the holidays 😭

Comments = LOVEEE!!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I Agree with u completely.I was so upset when i saw elena and stefan give up on their love for one another but i am sure this is just a passing phase and soon stelena will be back with a vengeance.
stefan was so badass when he did what he did to klaus.
stealing the coffins was a masterstroke
the best dialogue for me that day was"for someone who has always been one step ahead for a thousand years did u see this coming"
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Elena said that they'll have to let Stefan go... that means she is willing to move on, so is not on the rebound. She is willingly wanting to move past him. She said it out of her free will, and no pressure.

I don't think that there is anything wrong if she goes for Damon now because she has made a clean break with Stefan. There is no two timing, no scathing feelings between Stelena, and people can fall in love again. That could happen, a human heart is vast and if a person truly wants to move on (letting go of the past which is extremely hard and lots of people can't do it) then they can move on and fall in love again.

Its who we are with that defines our relationship not who we previously were with!!... Cause if one keeps on looking at the past then they can't move forward!!

Damon was Rose's first choice but he still loved Elena, he didn't stop loving her with Rose showering her likeness and affection for him... so I guess what matters is: Whats in our heart and who's in our heart?
I love Damon, and he loves Elena so I'll be tremendously happy if she goes for him now... it all depends on what Elena wants, no pressure!!

Again no hard feelings for Stelena shippers!!
Edited by mahi0809 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: srivalli.d97

I Agree with u completely.I was so upset when i saw elena and stefan give up on their love for one another but i am sure this is just a passing phase and soon stelena will be back with a vengeance.

stefan was so badass when he did what he did to klaus.
stealing the coffins was a masterstroke
the best dialogue for me that day was"for someone who has always been one step ahead for a thousand years did u see this coming"


I sure do hope Stelena comes back with a bang!! Love them!! But meanwhile Im gona enjoy delena as long as it lasts...I like them too...😉
Stefan and revenge...go hand in hand!! AWEOSME!!
Cannot wait till Jan!!!😊
Edited by sonu.p - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi0809

Elena said that they'll have to let Stefan go... that means she is willing to move on, so is not on the rebound. She is willingly wanting to move past him. She said it out of her free will, and no pressure.

I don't think that there is anything wrong if she goes for Damon now because she has made a clean break with Stefan. There is no two timing, no scathing feelings between Stelena, and people can fall in love again. That could happen, a human heart is vast and if a person truly wants to move on (letting go of the past which is extremely hard and lots of people can't do it) then they can move on and fall in love again.

Its who we are with that defines our relationship not who we previously were with!!... Cause if one keeps on looking at the past then they can't move forward!!

Damon was Rose's first choice but he still loved Elena, he didn't stop loving her with Rose showering her likeness and affection for him... so I guess what matters is: Whats in our heart and who's in our heart?
I love Damon, and he loves Elena so I'll be tremendously happy if she goes for him now... it all depends on what Elena wants, no pressure!!

Again no hard feelings for Stelena shippers!!


O..no offence taken 😊
Ya I totally get what you're saying...Elena and Stefan have had a proper break-up and she has every right to fall in love again...and yes no ones forcing her to let go of stefan...but I feel that even if elena does fall for damon, she will never totally be free of her feelings for stefan...after all they didnt have a normal breakup...I mean it was a really sad end...where no one was at fault...
and I just feel that thats not something damon should have to go through...he should have someone whos not confused between him and someone else...
Plus keeping all of that aside, I genuinely LOVE STELENA😳 ..haha... :P
But the delena chemistry sure is mindblowing..I love there scenes together, its really sweet..
but given a choice, Id want stefan elena to finally end up together 😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I've seen and read quite a few interviews of Paul in which he's said that Stefan and Elena's relationship may never be the same. I think this whole ripper thing (which was always a part of him) is just to bring Stefan and Damon on par with each other. So that Elena knows that both the guys she feels for are equally capable of good and bad. 😊
Plus since everyone's enjoying 'ripper' Stefan more than normal Stefan who was on a bambi blood diet... this could go on for a while before Stefan comes back to his "humane" self. 😛

I don't wanna comment on the love triangle... for all u know they could surprise us in the end with Elena picking Matt 😆
Edited by _Team_Damon - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Any gal would gladly love Damon. But Damon needs to be with a woman that he loves. And I am a Stelena shipper.. and love Damonrine too.. so I would like him to be with Katherine.. once after she realises that Damon should have been her first and only choice!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I totally agree with everything you said👏 being a fellow Stelena shipper I was like "aww" during that whole Delena scene (in fact I've been awwing a lot this season for Delena😆)

Elena seriously cannot deny that she isnt in love with Damon, if she does she is just plain delusional. I agree that Stefan and Elena are officially over and Elena has a right to move on as she pleases.

Totally agree that one of the reason's why I'm Stelena is because Damon deserves someone better than Elena (not hating on her here) because he is too awe worthy to be a rebound choice for someone especially if that someone has been with his brother.

Even if Elena does end up with Damon, she will never stop loving Stefan, she will never forget the moments she had with Stefan and a lover like Damon does not deserve that...a lover like Damon deserves someone who will love him for him and everything he is.


@lol Team Damon- actually I wont be surprised if she picks Matt as well😆 hey or she could pick Tyler for all we know...Elena-Tyler are the only ones of the main cast that havent been made canon yet😉😆
Edited by Tani91 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

Any gal would gladly love Damon. But Damon needs to be with a woman that he loves. And I am a Stelena shipper.. and love Damonrine too.. so I would like him to be with Katherine.. once after she realises that Damon should have been her first and only choice!



While they were shooting miss mystic falls 1x19... Marcos Siega (the director) told Ian not to mess up the dance sequence because it's the first time Damon was in love 😲. Wait!? what?!!
Yes. Damon did love Katherine... but his love for her was obsessive. selfish. it changed him for the worse. turned him against his brother. turned him against humanity (remember he was willing to unleash a vengeful group of tomb vamps out just to get Katherine back). His love for her Katherine was unhealthy... he was subconsciously aware of the fact that Katherine was evil... he still did all those things because he loved her blindly. Damon is fully over Katherine now. 😃If Katherine is after Damon now it's because he's playing hard to get. She loves Stefan.
Die hard Damon fans would ship him with his soap dish over Katherine. They have a physical chemistry but otherwise it's hollow.

Damon is completely in love with Elena now. It changed him for the better. This is love in it's purest and truest form--- Damon's love for Elena is and has always been selfless although it is not reciprocated. He's put him self in danger just so that he can re-unite her with Stefan if it's what she wants. Maybe he's flirtatious and playful... but he still respects her boundaries. Love for him is not getting it back.. it's having her trust, having her friendship... being around her.
Elena has cheesed me off so many times... that i've said she doesn't deserve Damon. But there's a reason I keep coming around and supporting Delena... it's because of Damon's love for her. 😉
I'm guessing you're a Damon fan 😊 !!! I completely understand that you ship Stelena... and that Delena is unacceptable to u. Writing stuff just makes me feel good.
😆😛

read this and tell me is katherine really worthy of Damon?
Edited by _Team_Damon - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Team_Damon

I've seen and read quite a few interviews of Paul in which he's said that Stefan and Elena's relationship may never be the same. I think this whole ripper thing (which was always a part of him) is just to bring Stefan and Damon on par with each other. So that Elena knows that both the guys she feels for are equally capable of good and bad. 😊
Plus since everyone's enjoying 'ripper' Stefan more than normal Stefan who was on a bambi blood diet... this could go on for a while before Stefan comes back to his "humane" self. 😛

I don't wanna comment on the love triangle... for all u know they could surprise us in the end with Elena picking Matt 😆


The stuff in red - its quite an interesting observation...you're right now I guess damon and stefan aren't so very different any more in the good brother-bad brother way...so yes they're kind of making elena properly evaluate her feelings for both brothers and decide which one she truly loves, vampirism aside😆

Im pretty sure a whole season is enough ripper stefan for me!! Im sure this plot will obviously continue this whole season, but I dont think they should stretch this into season 4 as well...show him struggling maybe, but not full-blown ripper..

OK after aaalll of this, if she picks Matt in the end...LOL I hope the Salvatores eat her up!! Haha😉

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