I didn't like Koki's Attitude

First and foremost don't hit me...😆

Finally watched the episode, I couldn't wait. It was a great episode and everyone did a fabulous job including Koki and even Ahem. I loved the fact that Koki was stern and right to the point with Rashi. She didn't waste any time to get the truth on the table. However, I didn't like the attitude she showed Hetal. It was more like arrogance to me. And yes Koki's character is a bit egoistic and arrogant. But at a time like this, I would think she would at least be some what compassionate towards Hetal. But no, instead she fixed her pullu, had a few smirks and basically was telling Hetal over and over again verbally and by attitude that "see I told you so". That was the last think Hetal needed at that time. Koki came out a bit inconsiderate to me towards Hetal in the whole scene. Her attitude was more like "haha I win I win, I was right" towards Hetal. I felt really bad for Hetal. The behavior towards Rashi by Koki was fine as she deserved it. However, the behavior towards Hetal by Koki I think was not needed. There was no need to be so conceited in my opinion. Her bhashan about how I knew from day one that you aren't fit for our family and so forth. It was more like she was giving a earful to Hetal for all her "java deh ne Kokila" moments. Personally I felt that Koki didn't even really accomplish anything, she just repeated what Gopi had told her. It wasn't like she found out the truth on her own. There were many times in the past that Koki could have caught Rashi red handed in a lie, but how many times did she go free because of Koki's so called "parki nazaar". Sorry but I just didn't like her attitude in the whole scene. I know many of you thought she stole the show, but I think Hetal did and also Rashi to some extent.

P.S. Just a friendly reminder...please no rotten eggs or tomatoes...😆

I think Koki took that attitudae because on the day of Jigar/Rashi's wedding, she warned Chirag and Hetal "Pachthayenge" meaning you will regret your decision (for people who do not know hindi).

I think that is why her anger was so high and she was telling w/o telling "I told you so:.

maybe was high but still she respects her elder SIL and i am pretty sure maybe tomorrow or in the maha episode when hetal will be all broken , kokila will give her a shoulder n support.😊

Originally posted by: gmjudv

I think Koki took that attitudae because on the day of Jigar/Rashi's wedding, she warned Chirag and Hetal "Pachthayenge" meaning you will regret your decision (for people who do not know hindi).

I think that is why her anger was so high and she was telling w/o telling "I told you so:.

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

I agree.

In the past when Kokila tried to bring out the things Rashi had done either no one took any notice or believed her, or Hetal just told her to leave it as Rashi is a child and will change and learn in time.

As time went on it became harder for Kokila to day anything as it seemed she was unfairly picking on Rashi.

Kokila kept certain things to herself such as the kalakari she found out at Rakhi at Urmila's house as no one else had heard and again it would be her word against Urshi's.

This time however Koki had evidence as Jigar also knew the truth, as well as Sonal, so there would be people who could back up what she was saying.

This was a major kalakari that was deliberately planned against the family and affected the life of Jigar, so Koki wouldn't have kept quiet. She was finally able to tell Hetal the truth of her DIL knowing that Jigar would also back her up and there would be no way for Hetal to disbelieve her this time, and it would near to impossible for Rashi to manipulate her way out.

I think Hetal needed to hear that from Kokila. Koki did try to warn her at the beginning and carried on even after the wedding. Hetal chose to ignore the warnings and on many occasions chose to believe Rashi over Koki, excusing Koki's attitude as though she was just saying things for the hell of it.

Much of the situation occured because of Hetal's let it be attitude - it was due to this that Rasshi spent so much time in MM before the wedding and was able to plant doubts in Sonal's mind.

However even with all this when puch comes to shove it will be Kokila who will be supporting Hetal and bolstering her spirits. Just like she did when Jigar went missing.

I agree with all you said. And I also know that Koki will be that support system for Hetal. But I just felt that "I told you so" type attitude was not needed here or at this time. Koki could have made that same statement of "I said so" later when she had alone time with Hetal, in a much nicer way. This was like haha type of thing going on in my POV. I just didn't like the attitude. Yes, Hetal did ignore all Koki's warnings, but Koki also knows the type of person Hetal is. Just like her Gopi bahu, Hetal is also very sweet and kind at heart. She will never see wrong in anyone. At least Hetal finally saw the truth, unlike Gopi who is still acting like a blind fool.

I just Koki today ... She is really a great actress.

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

I agree.

In the past when Kokila tried to bring out the things Rashi had done either no one took any notice or believed her, or Hetal just told her to leave it as Rashi is a child and will change and learn in time.

As time went on it became harder for Kokila to day anything as it seemed she was unfairly picking on Rashi.

Kokila kept certain things to herself such as the kalakari she found out at Rakhi at Urmila's house as no one else had heard and again it would be her word against Urshi's.

This time however Koki had evidence as Jigar also knew the truth, as well as Sonal, so there would be people who could back up what she was saying.

This was a major kalakari that was deliberately planned against the family and affected the life of Jigar, so Koki wouldn't have kept quiet. She was finally able to tell Hetal the truth of her DIL knowing that Jigar would also back her up and there would be no way for Hetal to disbelieve her this time, and it would near to impossible for Rashi to manipulate her way out.

I think Hetal needed to hear that from Kokila. Koki did try to warn her at the beginning and carried on even after the wedding. Hetal chose to ignore the warnings and on many occasions chose to believe Rashi over Koki, excusing Koki's attitude as though she was just saying things for the hell of it.

Much of the situation occured because of Hetal's let it be attitude - it was due to this that Rasshi spent so much time in MM before the wedding and was able to plant doubts in Sonal's mind.

However even with all this when puch comes to shove it will be Kokila who will be supporting Hetal and bolstering her spirits. Just like she did when Jigar went missing.

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

I think it was the correct attitude for Kokila to use, so I agree with Nazma totally.

Hetal when Kokila was telling her all this time, over 1 year, wasn't really taking what Kokila was saying (Kokila was talking almost until she was blue in the face, but calm waters Hetal, would brush it aside with Jevadena), so going in one ear and out the next, or she would go defensive, that Kokila is competing her bahu against mine, but now she needed to be told in that manner for her to act as she did, but you all so right the closeness between Hetal and Jigar, even though Kokila proved what Rashi had done and Jigar nodded, she went back to Jigar to demand from him that this was truth, she still was shocked and wanted further assurance that Jigar provided.

Hetal is not noisy like Kokila, Kokila gets things done forcefully but Hetal is not like that, What I will agree with you Tara is the fact that 3 people stole the show yesterday, Kokila, Rashi and Hetal too, we saw a side of her we hadn't seen before, definitely a lioness protecting her cub, blood is thicker then water mate, take a hike Rashi...😛

I agree that Hetal didn't listen this whole time to Koki or she chose to just let it go because she thought the mistakes were not big enough to punish. If you remember, Hetal did take the keys away from Rashi. So, it wasn't like she totally just excused all of Rashi's mistakes or didn't see them at all. There were many times that Hetal wouldn't be able to say anything in Rashi's defense except stay quite and leave. Sometimes staying mum is actually a way of saying you agree with another person. Only because Hetal didn't take action on Rashi doesn' t mean she was unaware of Rashi's true demeanor. I agree Koki had the right to say "I told you so", but there are tones and physical behaviors that can totally turn the same statement into either a compassionate statement or a arrogant statement. One is to just show that I care and that I was trying to tell you this the whole time. While the other is just basically laughing in your face because you were proven wrong. I hope your understanding the point I am trying to point out. It wasn't the fact that Koki was making such a statement to Hetal, but it was her tone, her attitude and her behavior that made it wrong.

Tara , I also m of your point of view regarding kokis attitude.

kokil is so scared actress make me jump ever time she start shout luck she not lost her voice yet.all the shout she do