Ahem and love: wanting to be close to her

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Having this overwhelming feeling of wanting to be close to her to admire her, to help her, to care for her, to tell her how proud he is of her and most of all to love her were what Ahem had been feeling for his wife. Yes, his wife! She is HIS wife, without any shadow of a doubt.

On each and every turn from the time the guests praised the daughter-in-laws for their traditional values, to his talk on not wanting to light fireworks, to him joining her to do arti, to him hesitating to leave after arti to look at or tell her something, to him listening on to the chat his mum and his kaki had on reminiscing about the previous Diwali while keeping a watchful eye on her lighting the diyas only to come to her rescue to protect the flames from blowing out.
She was there for him earlier in the day to help him with his nada and now he was here for her and taking in her aura.
Unlike before, when it came to carrying out family rituals where both husband and wife had to conduct together he despised her mere presence, today his willingness and want to be next to her was forthcoming.
In all, he simply and utterly wanted to be with her no matter what. Will he get a chance to show or tell his feelings to her soon?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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yaeee i dont belive this i am the one commenting first!!

once again great analsis swasti,

i loved today ahem modis behaviour, the ahem modi who have created so many barriers

are breaking them down now slowly and steadily.

he is not even uttering a word but with simple gestures and confidence he is making her

silently fall for him and to make her comfortable around him.

the hesitency he used to have have disaaparead and he realized that he need no one permision for doing something for her.

he dint wait for his mom glances or her provoking but immeidaltely went to her aid leaving the thoughts for others.

his constant glances at her says how much he wants to know about her, her every tiny detail, every tiny reaction to what people say.

He became the proud husband for having a beatiful gem as wife.

Edited by shaina.sharma - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Swasthi fabulous analysis once again👍🏼

I love today's episode.
Yes he is breaking all the barriers, he was not only there for her with his touch, but look as well as words. He remembered her words from last year and also that she had gotten injured. I now understand why he looked the way he did last year after her injury, remember when he came back out, he refused to fire anymore fireworks, but this year he went step further to let her know that he hasn't forgotten.
When Koki asked them to do the aarti, she was bit hesitant, and he noticed, and he silently reassured her by touching her hand when he held the thali with her, and even was last to leave the mandir, giving her a lingering look. Was that to make sure that she was okay now?
The best part of the episode was him helping her with the Diya's, it symbolized his willingness to be there for, through good and bad.
What a difference from last year to this year.
Yes soon he will get a chance to tell her what is all in his heart.
Looking forward to it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Having this overwhelming feeling of wanting to be close to her to admire her, to help her, to care for her, to tell her how proud he is of her and most of all to love her were what Ahem had been feeling for his wife. Yes, his wife! She is HIS wife, without any shadow of a doubt.

On each and every turn from the time the guests praised the daughter-in-laws for their traditional values, to his talk on not wanting to light fireworks, to him joining her to do arti, to him hesitating to leave after arti to look at or tell her something, to him listening on to the chat his mum and his kaki had on reminiscing about the previous Diwali while keeping a watchful eye on her lighting the diyas only to come to her rescue to protect the flames from blowing out.
She was there for him earlier in the day to help him with his nada and now he was here for her and taking in her aura.
Unlike before, when it came to carrying out family rituals where both husband and wife had to conduct together he despised her mere presence, today his willingness and want to be next to her was forthcoming.
In all, he simply and utterly wanted to be with her no matter what. Will he get a chance to show or tell his feelings to her soon?

I definetly agree on what u Say...today I also liked how Gopi looked at him with questioning eyes during the pooja & during the diya incident & he had this look which said...pls do not doubt me now...Im here for U...He just could not let her go...he took the initiation & did not hesitate before the family...
He thinks & breathes her only now !!!!😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post Swasthi!!
I hope he tells her soon although he probably won't yet, hope we get to see a lot more like today though even with all of Rashi's mess going on!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thank you swasthi, was waiting for your post.

For ahem i would say his eyes and actions said it all - Acceptance and acknowledgement of gopi as his wife because he loves and values her now. :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaina.sharma

yaeee i dont belive this i am the one commenting first!!

once again great analsis swasti,

i loved today ahem modis behaviour, the ahem modi who have created so many barriers

are breaking them down now slowly and steadily.

he is not even uttering a word but with simple gestures and confidence he is making her

silently fall for him and to make her comfortable around him.

the hesitency he used to have have disaaparead and he realized that he need no one permision for doing something for her.

he dint wait for his mom glances or her provoking but immeidaltely went to her aid leaving the thoughts for others.

his constant glances at her says how much he wants to know about her, her every tiny detail, every tiny reaction to what people say.

He became the proud husband for having a beatiful gem as wife.



shaina i loved your usage " He is making her silently fall for him " that too without uttering a single word.
And very true yaar now ahem and gopi have stopped glaring at " HEADMISTRESS KOKI" for getting permission whenever they needed to do something together or something for each other :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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great post swasthi, true analysis
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gopijigar



shaina i loved your usage " He is making her silently fall for him " that too without uttering a single word.
And very true yaar now ahem and gopi have stopped glaring at " HEADMISTRESS KOKI" for getting permission whenever they needed to do something together or something for each other :)

tanks gopi jigar.

i really dont like gopi or ahem to look at koki before taking something or doing something. i mean they are wife and husband not some lovers to seek permision.

and i even want ahem to demand her something in a husband tone without any hesitancy or thoughts.and without looking at koki for sure.

just something like ironing shirt or preapring his fav dish something.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaina.sharma

tanks gopi jigar.

i really dont like gopi or ahem to look at koki before taking something or doing something. i mean they are wife and husband not some lovers to seek permision.

and i even want ahem to demand her something in a husband tone without any hesitancy or thoughts.and without looking at koki for sure.

just something like ironing shirt or preapring his fav dish something.



This is the first time they are behaving according to what their mind is saying rather than looking at koki. Thank god both gopi's and ahem's minds as well as hearts have started working properly. Last time gopi directly told ahem that jigar might be in temple without telling it to koki. I was so happy that day. And happy that ahem didn't call koki for hely to fix that nada in pyjama . Well in diwali one good thing has happened " koki headmistress' approval " program has disaapeared :)

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