Radhika/Kahna giving a lesson to Dev!

Originally posted by: ekta-avinafan

yaar ,u didn't get it?
actually he was not able to live without her and his RP decision was making him up saying no to accept radhs until.so he wanted radh to ask forgive soon very soon from barkha(to do so called dharam with her) .

u didn't see his instant smile when radh asked indirect forgiveness ,like he is free from the trap now he was in.Now he can accept his radhika with dharam with him.

Originally posted by: ashna26

I know it was because of RP duties and his guilt towards Barkha I know Dev loves her and want to be with her, that is clear especially when Radhika was gone for couple hours etc but should not be excuse!! I want him to realise that his wife should come first and that there is no choice or difference in RP or husband. Right know I think he is a really bad RP and a bad husband. For me he should trust Radhika 100% then he is worthy and not trust some other woman word. Trust is the most important! But what is the proof after this he won't do the same. He should realise the worth of Radhika love! 😉

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

I agree.

Dev had been real desperate since the past few days to accept Rads back. Being a RP, he announced that she would be kept away from wifely rights, but his heart yearned for her. And today, the moment Radhika apologized, Dev had a relieved smile, that easily tells his desperation ;) However, Padma's following line that until and unless, Barkha doesn't forgive Rads, Dev should also not forgive her; as a RP he must abide to the rules. Hearing this Dev's face fell down :(

However, Rads brought him out of that dilemma by clarifying his mind that just because he is performing his RP duties doesn't mean, he should keep away from his husband duties. There is no dharam that states that a Husband shouldn't break his wife's vrat, just because he is angry with her. (His previous episode's "Dharm" talk was nonsense and Kanha just stated him that!)

Now that Rads has apologized, he wants to get back her. ( that is just it I want Dev to want Radhika back because he loves her a lot not because she apologize and not it is oke also for RP) What made me confused is -- Dev's lines. He said that a husband has done injustice to his wife, how should he be punished (he was referring to himself) Now has Dev realized that he has done injustice to his wife? If yes, then what acc. to him was his injustice? Keeping her away after she came back? Or that he didn't trust her earlier?

I believe its the first one. Because he himself was yearning for her!

Though he needs to realize the second, and major fault of his as well. Until he doesn't realize that, he won't be forgiven!

Liked how Radhika didn't give him any solution but rather gave him a twisted answer that he has to unravel. He has to punish the husband as a RP. So how would he punish himself as a RP? Has he even realized the extent of injustice done by him towards Rads? No, he hasn't sadly. He would and only then he can punish himself properly...or rather he can redeem himself properly.

Liked Rads/Kanha's usage of the word "Dharam" repeatedly. These PF people are stuck with DDjee's dharam and need to know the real definition for sure!

Originally posted by: maia22

so basically all this is boiling down to what is dharam ---the way the old man dada thought--that it was ok for a married man to be made to mary again etc and again dada wanted dev to mary bharkha even though dev was already married to radhika or the way R/K is explaing to dev hoping dev realises that dada was not perfect he did lots of adharam---maybe because of his ego and or dada was afraid peaple will come to know how many bad decesions that dada took