Toasty's mom as bad as Mallti's mom

Toasty's mom as bad as Mallti's mom

Sorry I don't agree on this completely..

i don't think she is creating a rift...the rift was alreayd there that's why tej was trying to open his own store...and this could be a positive thing and seen as an expansion. as the money is still going into one pot and it's still treated as one business and being used for the betterment of the whole house i don't see anythign wrong in it. they are both very different ppl it makes it very hard to do business together as they both have a very different approach, and it's hard to take orders when you are grown up from anyone other than your parents...and even from your parents sometimes it gets frustrated becuase you want them to understand that you are fullgrown and capable on your own. i think this is actually a good thing, the business only got bigger so there is more revenue in the house. both brothers can use their own approach. and this way the fights at work are not carried into the home to ruin the atmosphere at home. and tej isn't doing this whole business to be spiteful towards pashup nor does he have any arrogance in his attitude or ill wishes towards his family. i think she is just the typically, loving protective mother in law. malati's mom was different altogether. she took it to an inhumane leve.

i don't see anything wrong in her supporting tej in this she's going to be cautious as any mother would when it coems to her daughter's life. it's hard to lose the years of love and protection you have had towards your daughter so soon especially when she is still very young.

Toasty's mother's problem is she wants to help in some day because she doesn't want to see her suffering for her daughter. What's suffering for her isn't the same as what suffering is for Toasty. And Toasty's mom is unable to understand this so she goes on her way about trying to help Toasty from what she thinks is the right decision. But since she doesn't live in the Chaturvedi House she doesn't know how the circumstances really are..she can only see and understand from what she either finds out (which is always half of the truth) or from what she sees from the outside. And this leaves her hurting in the process of helping. But, the major difference here is, her intentions are pure and clean. She only wants the best for her daughter, I can't say the same for Malti's mother.

i think she would be reassured and less meddlesome if the chaturvedi family showed her some respect too...i mean after the way they soemtimes talk to her and treat her...she's only going to assume they do the same to toasty and she only has to deal with it on an occasional basis her poor toasty has to do so on a daily basis in her eyes. i mean they threw her duaghter out of the home at one point, how is she not going to worry?? and be a bit meddlesome? the family should udnerstand that she is also the mother of their daughter in law, and like ti or not she has some association wtih their family. they are making the mistake of judging their one bad experience with a mother in law to mean all are horrible and bad...nad in the process ruining their relationship with a good one! if you look at ved...he had such a bad experience with malati babhi with all of the accusations...but he doens't displace those onto toasty. hopefully with time the chaturvedi's will realize and relax a little bit.