Is shaurya a better son in law? - Page 4

Originally posted by: moonlight08

hum abhi aa gaye.. apne vicharo ka potla le kar..😆

an absolutely awesome post di! was about to make one on similar lines..😊

im here to take munna's side.. how much i love maheshwaris.. this munna overpowers all!😳

so.. we'l be making comparisons too early if we say that shaurya is a better son-in-law.. it's just day one.. there are still many to come.. and moreover.. even if we believe that naitik was at mistake there (****i do not, would come back to this point later) the way he apologised for his mistakes, i don't think shaurya would be that much respectful to his MIL.. it's like yess ur good to ur MIL but if u make a mistake, would u apolojise to her in the way as naitik did? NO.. and as i would like to believe, naitik is more large-hearted! he atleast accepted that he made a mistake, while shaurya wouldn't have been able to that if he was in naitik's shoes..

pari di, ur right.. role of other members is also in a way highlighting shaurya's goodness towards his MIL.. varsha is unlike akshara, taking care that she balances her mother as well as her husband well.. even rajshri is not taking anything to her heart.. infact she's hrself asking her beta to take care of her saas.. which is why may be, shaurya is not disturbed by the fact that varsha is seeing her mother before him..

one more reason i beleive here is, that the situations where the two are placed in are very different.. shaurya's MIL has fractured her arm.. iss samay to unka khayal to rakhna hi padega.. while when cong. was there at singhania's she was perfectly fit and fine.. instead she went there to take care of akshara's sasural.. moreover, here in shaurya's case, cong. is there only.. so if by chance he felt ki varsha is neglecting him, he can go to his own mother, or play with his daughter.. but with naitik, well.. apart from akshara, nobody was there with him.. bauji was like kaam,kaam,kaam.. bma to.. the less said the better.. so, there in naitik's case, feeling of alienation, feeling of left-out-ness was more intense..

**** the way akshara was behaving when her mother came, leaving everything behind, not going out just because her maa didn't allow, all that frustation was justified.. i had said enough then.. would like to keep it short this time..😛

Originally posted by: gutky

awesome post pari.. 😛 n very nice discussion every1.. 👏

But acc to me we cannot compare 2 different individual as each one of us is unique in expressing our love, respect or hatred differently.. shaurya is calm minded n mature whereas naitik is a spoil brat whoz very stubborn n gets easily upset if things doesn't work out his way ... but both have their share of shanskar n individuality😊 M's r normal family who artifices n always wills to accept the modern thinking with changing time whereas S's r like demon who just cling in their age old traditions..😈 (humare jamane mein tho yeh sab nahi hota tha bma.. yeh aajkal ke bacche kuch samajthe hi nahi ) ohh ghosh I hate this line so much.. who the hell ask them to compare the 2 generations?? Earlier womens used to be healthy but they cannot accept same things from todays girl.. its impossible to live upto their exceptions..🤢

but overall if we see than shava is definitely a much more sensible n mature couple than naksh.. there timing, bounding n understanding is far better than naksh who keeps their relation at a mess by either one of them sulking .. that's not a way to a good healthy relation..😕 Couples needs to understand each other's status n condition n accordingly should adjust n behave n bring some changes ( here a theory of procrastination occurs where one should learn to avoid, adapt, alter or accept the situation in their life) 😃

Originally posted by: moonlight08

vini di, aaj to aap mujhe bta hi do.. meri timing kharab hai ya aapki? it's been ages humein baat kiye hue..😭

Iska jawab mai deti hoon.. 🤣 Timing Vini ki khraab ahi.. 😡 🤣 Time dekh iske post ka.. 😲 9.30 PM woh bhi on Thursday 😲 Tujhe update dene ko boli.. aur yahan aa gayi..

Originally posted by: JAYA_09

Now nk changed completely adorable now also nk cannot do anything as he wish, But shourya as now also freedom to do anything.

One more thing nk being MBA he is taking care of his business atleast shourya got one chance to do what he studied.

Nk never had a chance to prove himself becoz of his elders, Always pointing whatever he does correct they felt its wrong. See in mahant matter how dj shouted when nk told he is not good. See here shourya did wrong in school matter first vish got angry then he talked to shourya so politely.

But the main problems in nk family is elders never allow the children to enjoy or allow them what to do see nandu want to write kavita but till now no body know about it and they don't allow any girls or sp bahu kuch kare, in maheswari's see Rj and vish allow varsha to cont her studies its only people state of mind they themselves don't know what they do how to do it .

In my opinion Maheswari's so open minded compare with Singhnaia's.

If nk would get chance liek shourya to prove himself he vl be def doing good In shourya cse he is miserably failed to prove himself. But nk is not like that he do everything correct and perfect.

Originally posted by: divi4u

Iska jawab mai deti hoon.. 🤣 Timing Vini ki khraab ahi.. 😡 🤣 Time dekh iske post ka.. 😲 9.30 PM woh bhi on Thursday 😲 Tujhe update dene ko boli.. aur yahan aa gayi..