Is shaurya a better son in law?

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hello friends,
I m making a topic after ages i guess.. 😆 So if theres any mistake please bear with me.. 😊
So as we all scene yesterday,how much Shaurya was caring towards his mother in law.. 👏
- he lets varsha sleep with her mother as he knows she would not be uncomfortable with anyone else..
- he was pressing her feet keeping all other so called rituals behind.. 👍🏼
- when Varsha said she will go n get ready his clothes, he said u stay here only, ur mom requires u more thdn me.. 👏
As opposite when Rajashri was there, Naitik was not happy spending more time with Rajashri than him.. At times he had been rude to his mother in law..
so is than mean Shaurya is better son in law?
I know both the situations were different and its only first day of his mil's stay in maheshwari house.. but still i find Shaurya much more matured than Naitik..
Also Varsha unlike Akshara was everytime alert that if she spends more time with his mom, she may disappoing shaurya.. so if Varsha is better wife here than Akshara?
Also, i would definitely like to appreciate Rajashri here.. 👏 She was comfortable with the fact that his son is pampering his mil in front of him.. and she herself was feeding her samdhan.. If she wants she could have asked Varsha to feed her.. but she herself taken the initiative n feeds her.. 👏
Gayatri definitely needs to take some lessons from her.. i just cant think of her expressions if she was at rajashri's position..🤢
I know its dangerous to say 🤣but still i will say i loved rajashri n shaurya yesterday.. 😳 😆
so guys plz share ur views.. i m eager to know.. Sari di, i know u dnt watch epi nowadays..😔 bt still i m w8in for ur comments..

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ridzthebest

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Posted: 13 years ago

if naitik was rude to rajshree then he apologized too in very good way😃

i like ms more than singhanias.they are better in every matter👏

i agree that varsha definately is better wife than akshara.aksh is very lucky to have naitik but its not vice-versa.

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: pari1508
Hello friends,
I m making a topic after ages i guess.. 😆 So if theres any mistake please bear with me.. 😊
So as we all scene yesterday,how much Shaurya was caring towards his mother in law.. 👏
- he lets varsha sleep with her mother as he knows she would not be uncomfortable with anyone else..
- he was pressing her feet keeping all other so called rituals behind.. 👍🏼
- when Varsha said she will go n get ready his clothes, he said u stay here only, ur mom requires u more thdn me.. 👏
As opposite when Rajashri was there, Naitik was not happy spending more time with Rajashri than him.. At times he had been rude to his mother in law..
so is than mean Shaurya is better son in law?
I know both the situations were different and its only first day of his mil's stay in maheshwari house.. but still i find Shaurya much more matured than Naitik..
Also Varsha unlike Akshara was everytime alert that if she spends more time with his mom, she may disappoing shaurya.. so if Varsha is better wife here than Akshara?
Also, i would definitely like to appreciate Rajashri here.. 👏 She was comfortable with the fact that his son is pampering his mil in front of him.. and she herself was feeding her samdhan.. If she wants she could have asked Varsha to feed her.. but she herself taken the initiative n feeds her.. 👏
Gayatri definitely needs to take some lessons from her.. i just cant think of her expressions if she was at rajashri's position..🤢
I know its dangerous to say 🤣but still i will say i loved rajashri n shaurya yesterday.. 😳 😆
so guys plz share ur views.. i m eager to know.. Sari di, i know u dnt watch epi nowadays..😔 bt still i m w8in for ur comments..

Pari its very nIce post

.But much much difference between maheswari's And ss.

They never allowed their kids to do anything on their own.

In M's kids have liberty to do anything and Vish and family give full freedom ,and they understand what their children want to do till now what they want to do.

But SS they want to poke their nose in each everything and make them show what elders doing correct and what their kids do always wrong .

Pari u mentioend that shourya is more matured than nk.Here u have tos ee shorya got his parents support infact hew ant to do his own style and he even allwo stay in different house .But in nk case always dj,rb,specialy gay3 feel wht all nk do always wrong he want to gift his wife a house but what they did they enver allow nk to do anythign ,he want to work outside not to do family business but theysee that he does onlyf amily business.

Both M's and SS huge huge difference in everythign . nk has not given a chance to shwo that he si best but shourya got every chance .

Another thign varsha and akshi brought up is totally different ak is anotehr rj. she was never allowed to enjoy what she want to before marraige and after marraige gay3.

Shava had a nice support of the family and they also enjoyed their life But Naksh never given a chance to live their life.

Hope so in the coming days naksh after becomign parents shoudl think about themselves too and hope see somethign new

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: JAYA_09
Pari its very nIce post

.But much much difference between maheswari's And ss.

They never allowed their kids to do anything on their own.

In M's kids have liberty to do anything and Vish and family give full freedom ,and they understand what their children want to do till now what they want to do.

But SS they want to poke their nose in each everything and make them show what elders doing correct and what their kids do always wrong .

Pari u mentioend that shourya is more matured than nk.Here u have tos ee shorya got his parents support infact hew ant to do his own style and he even allwo stay in different house .But in nk case always dj,rb,specialy gay3 feel wht all nk do always wrong he want to gift his wife a house but what they did they enver allow nk to do anythign ,he want to work outside not to do family business but theysee that he does onlyf amily business.

Both M's and SS huge huge difference in everythign . nk has not given a chance to shwo that he si best but shourya got every chance .

Another thign varsha and akshi brought up is totally different ak is anotehr rj. she was never allowed to enjoy what she want to before marraige and after marraige gay3.

Shava had a nice support of the family and they also enjoyed their life But Naksh never given a chance to live their life.

Hope so in the coming days naksh after becomign parents shoudl think about themselves too and hope see somethign new

i agree with u jaya Anuty Akshara ko before marrige be freedom nahi tha after marriage be nahi hai aur varsha ko asiay nahii tha na before aur after marriage be freedom hai varsha ko gay3 jaisay MIL MILITI TAB woh akshara jaisay hojathi par akshara sab kushi he chathi hai

aur

shauary itna jaldi be angry nahi hotha par naitik angry jaldi hojatha tho akshara ko tho mil aur husband ko do no dekaha hai par varsha ko asay nahi na CONG bahut achi MIL HAI PAR GAY3 😡NAHI hai baba

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mahwishsolanki

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Posted: 13 years ago

i personally feel shaurya is better son in law n that shows his brought aswell that he is being brought up really well he is really care of his wife varsha understands her even b4 she says anything to shaurya..naitik is not like that...

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Posted: 13 years ago

Shourya is better in some ways… but varsha's n akshara's case is completely different… varsha can spend time for shourya too because her mother can also be taken care by maheswaries… maheswaries r so flexible n can treat her mother as their own n can look after well even though varsha's mother is not well… but it is not the akshara's case… rajshri went to singhania's… n she is healthy n she doesn't need to be taken care by anyone der… but then we have all seen how rajshri is treated in ss… singhania's never treat rajshri nicely… so akshara has the responsibility to make her mother comfortable der… in maheswaries, varsha doesn't need it… so she can spend time for shourya too… so I can't totally blame akshara for not managing between her mother n husband… she is not that fault regarding this…

N regarding naitik… he always need akshara's attention… he is like that from the beginning itself.. akshara used to be busy with family as singhania's r always complaining in each n every thing… it is not the new behavior for naitik when rajshri came… he want her attention then also… but I don't think he will behave the same if rajshri's health is unwell… he would have definitely supported akshara if rajshri is not well… though he blamed akshara at first regarding that he understood later after she explained… so I think situations n behaviors of the surrounded persons in the house r different… so obviously the outcome will be different…

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 13 years ago

Now nk changed completely adorable now also nk cannot do anything as he wish, But shourya as now also freedom to do anything.

One more thing nk being MBA he is taking care of his business atleast shourya got one chance to do what he studied.

Nk never had a chance to prove himself becoz of his elders, Always pointing whatever he does correct they felt its wrong. See in mahant matter how dj shouted when nk told he is not good. See here shourya did wrong in school matter first vish got angry then he talked to shourya so politely.

But the main problems in nk family is elders never allow the children to enjoy or allow them what to do see nandu want to write kavita but till now no body know about it and they don't allow any girls or sp bahu kuch kare, in maheswari's see Rj and vish allow varsha to cont her studies its only people state of mind they themselves don't know what they do how to do it .

In my opinion Maheswari's so open minded compare with Singhnaia's.

If nk would get chance liek shourya to prove himself he vl be def doing good In shourya cse he is miserably failed to prove himself. But nk is not like that he do everything correct and perfect.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: mahwishsolanki
i personally feel shaurya is better son in law n that shows his brought aswell that he is being brought up really well he is really care of his wife varsha understands her even b4 she says anything to shaurya..naitik is not like that...

i knwo u dont like nk nk brought up adn shourya brought up is totally different

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Posted: 13 years ago

Pari, Nice topic...👏 I knew lot of questions are going to be raised after yesterday's episode and wanted to open similar topic at night but was too lazy do so...😆

I believe each individual & their expectations are different, circumstances also differs so does their reactions...

Maheshwari's are much more balanced and grounded family then Singhania's. Who believe human relations are above traditions and Singhania's think exactly opposite... They are more flexible in their thinking whereas Singhania's are very rigid...🤢 Being the only son of Singhania's Naitik has always got everyone's undivided attention in his house specially from all the ladies and he expect the same from his wife no matter what the circumstances...😉 Whereas Shaurya had balanced life, no special privileges for being son. The upbringing differs and therefore we have different set of individuals in Naitik and Shaurya.That does not mean one is right and other is wrong...

Coming to the yesterday's scene and previous situations in Naksh life with regards to Rajshri...

Completely agree with you that Shaurya was caring towards his mother in law and full credit to him for being so. He also let Varsha be with her mother cause he knows she would not be as comfortable with anyone else. This shows his understanding as a husband towards Varsha. Also agree with you that Naitik was bit rude to Rajshri and expressed his displeasure towards her openly but can't compare this situation with Naitik's cause Rajshri was there to take care of Akshara. She was not injured/unwell as Varsha's mom. Shaurya's expectations from his relations are different to Naitik's. According to me comparing two individuals behavior on different circumstances will be wrong.

In Naitik's defense we can say that he has received severe criticism from his own family for supporting his in-laws in lot of situations but still he has never backed off when the need arises. Shaurya never had to face such circumstances in his life so we don't know how he would have reacted, therefore, it's futile to compare them.

Again agree with you that Shaurya is more mature than Naitik.The reason being his family allowed him to.Shaurya was allowed to make mistakes and learn lessons from them. Whereas Naitik has always been treated as a child by his family who has to listen to his elders and has to agree to their decisions. Mistakes were unpardonable. In such environment how can we expect an individual to mature??? Naitik's relation with Akshara and his love towards her has made him more understanding,caring and mature to some extent. But still he is childlike from inside who craves for attention that is in his nature,upbringing and you can never change that part of his personality.

Coming to Varsha's alertness...it only strike to her when Akshara pointed out otherwise she was also same. When Akshara called and told her to balance her life and not to make mistake of ignoring Shaurya made her alert to the situation. Also, Varsha's in-laws are very supportive and less demanding this helps a lot to balance one's life with husband, in-laws and parents without anyone feeling left out.Akshara is not so blessed with her in-laws. Varsha never had to face such circumstances in her life so we don't know how she would have reacted, therefore, it's futile to compare them.

No matter how annoying and irritating Rajshri is 😆 but has to agree she is much much better human being and I appreciate her for the same...👏 She never had any problem with Shaurya treating his M-I-L same as his mother. In-fact she herself went out of her way and took initiative to accommodate Varsha's mom...😃

Gayatri is very egoistic and self centered individual who cares a damn for anyone else feelings except her...😡 She takes pride in being mother of a son and has always showed her superiority over Maheshwari's and when her son tried to do something for his in-laws she made huge hue and cry about it... 😡She can never learn from her mistake cause she don't want to and apologizing is out of question...🤢

Yes Shaurya is Good Son-in-law but that does not make Naitik a bad one cause they are different individuals, brought up differently having to face different circumstances and hence different reactions.

These are just my views and no offence intended to anyone...😃

Edited by Asawari_naksh - 13 years ago

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_Ilma_

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Posted: 13 years ago

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A nice topic!! I was reading ur ideas with great interest. A very good observation as well. I am glad you came up with it.
I dont think many of the Naksh fans would agree to these statements, as it compares Naitik and Shaurya, two much loved characters (Naitik a bit more). We dont like to compare these two and most importantly we dont want to see any negative comments about our Munna.
But, agreeing with you, even though it is scary I have to admit the fact that I loved RJ yesterday. She has been annoying me for the past few episodes. But, yesterday's epi made me create a positive opinion about her.
Shaurya, I dont have to talk about him. I love him!! He is at good at everything, even getting scolded from his father 😆
I dont know what the CVs are trying to prove with this. Maybe they just want to show that each person is different, and the way they handle things will be much different.
But, this is just the beginning, who knows what the CVs can come up with.

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