Love marraige v Arranged

What are your views on this? Look at Pia and Pushakar...they hurt so many ppl in the name of love and now they are bickering so bad. In this case Puskars mother has been supportive but in real life if a couple who gets married against the wishes of their families that might not be the case. In arranged marriages which havent worked out there have been cases where ppl have supported the bahu and turned against the son, if he is at fault...

So what is ur opinion... arranged or love???

well, you can't really choose one...both have their pros and cons and different systems work for different people...perosnally i would go with the arranged but get to know the partner first...much easier and saves you a lot of hassle!

I had and arranged marriage. Got to know my hubby first before we tied the knot.It all depends on the respective family and the 2 individuals as well. 😊

my parents had a love marriage even though my mum's dad didn't agree. 18 years and still going strong!

it depend onthe individuals personality..not the circumstances they got married in...plus it's not entirely pushkar's bhabi's fault it takes too to tango and pia gives as good as she gets..theres pro's and con's for both.
you need time for love and understanding to grow wether it's love marriage or arranged....i mean take our bani and jai for example...look at what circumstances they got married yet both have begun to feel fo each other..

Your expectations are kind of low in arranged marriage which makes it easier initially to get thru formative years to make a solid foundation...

It depends on each indivdual how they are going to spend their lifes & how much comaptible they are with each other.....mine was an arranged marriage, I m happily married to my husband for 21 years & our love is growing each & every day or I can say it was only compromises in the begining but now the bond is so strong & we really cant live without each other....

sorry, still single....

but my best friend.... she tried to marry for love but never happend, after this it was arrenged marreige....she got to know him before.....after 5 years off marreige still happy and a girl....

So I think a arrange marreige isn't so bad.....

Originally posted by: kubare

I had and arranged marriage. Got to know my hubby first before we tied the knot.It all depends on the respective family and the 2 individuals as well. 😊

agree with you kubare.....😊