Dil ki Baat, Zubaan par Aayi - Q & A! - Page 2

MT, you always do come up with good Questions.

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

Jai is in the process of falling head over heels in love with Bani. It can be seen with his chnage in attitude towards her but is pig headed to realize that he is falling in love for real this time😃.


Do you feel that Bani has a strong inlking of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

No, I think Bani is pretty confused as she may be thinking hes being kind but she her self is hoping for more.😆


What is your personal opinon on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

Its pretty good the way the "budding romance" has been potrayed till now. They are such intense people that they donot need words or touching each other to convey their emotions. Superb scenes btween Jai and Bani, I personally wish for more such scenes.😉 Fantastic acting by them and well directed.


A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

Oh, I think hes over Pia, but being the pig headed person he is he cant see that he was never in love with Pia, he only had a huge "Crush" on her. He was good at expressing his feelings to Pia but will be more hesitant in expressing his feeling to Bani because of the past.


Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

I think it will definitely be Bani who will confess her love to him first and this may all happen in when they have big fight. But first I think it will all be said to deeds, eyes, emotions and action😉. Then the final verbal confession.😊


Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

I think they will have a warm, secure, loving married life but with few bumps , other wise KEkta mai wont have anything to show us😉. Thus living happily ever after KEkat mai style with lots of unnecessary turbulence😆😆

Love

Kubare

Hi MT

back to answering your questions.

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

Oh yes Jai has definately fallen in love with his wife. But after what he has been through he will not accept it himself so soon. Arre yaar abhi abhi toh after such a long time he has started noticing his darling wife. 😉. As far as I think he believes that he is just taking care of his wife and wants her to be comfortable but he does not realise that you only care and worry about those people whom you truly love.

Do you feel that Bani has a strong inlking of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

Being a woman I think she definately has an idea about Jai's changing emotions. Women have a sixth sense stronger than men so she knows that Jai does not hate her anymore. It was evident when she smiled after Jai lied to her about the medicines being brought for himself.

What is your personal opinon on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

Personally I think the romance between them is done so beautifully. It makes me want to fall in love all over again. 😉 They both are people of few words though I would not call them introverts. So their love will take time to be expressed in words. For them their actions speaks volumes. Their romance is portrayed pretty close to reality which is wonderful.

A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

Oh he is so over Pia but being a guy he will not forgive her so easily nor forget. I would not call him a complete introvert but yes he is a man of few words. But when he does accept his feelings to himself he definately will be able to express it freely. I don' t think it will be difficult for him to express his love to Bani once he is comfortable with it himself.

Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

Right from the beginning when they got married I had a gut feeling that Bani will be the first one to express her feelings. And as far as we have seen she has always taken the first initiative in everything. So I won't be surprised if she expresses her love first. I would love to see that. I know lot of ppl will disagree with me as lot of them feel that it should be the guy who should propose/express his love first. I do not believe in it. But after seeing the past few episodes I think there might not be an actual confession at all. I won't be surprised by it either. This sounds more probable in Jai-Bani's case.

Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

Jai-Bani are a perfect ideal couple, true soulmates. They are very mature people with perfect understanding and trust between them and later love for each other will be there biggest strength. Which is all it takes to have a warm and secure marriage. So no matter what they have gone through the past, once the hurdle of confession is over, they will definately have a warm,secure marriage. Passionate and unstable relationship fits Pia-Pushkar where there is no taal-mel of thoughts and actions.

Hope I have answered your questions satisfactorily.

hi mt. how r u? hoping fine. here comes the ans. of lovely post.

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

ans. ya, for sure jai has fallen in love with bani. now its impossible for him to hide his feelings no matter how much he try to hide them. y'day very casually he confessed his feeling in front of adi otherwise jai is a kind of a man who never express his feelings like this. 😊 see love means not to speak verbally how much i care for u or love u. sometimes yr gesture says it all. just like in jai bani case. their silent love speaks their care for each other.

Do you feel that Bani has a strong inkling of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

ans. i think now she has a inkling abt jai's intension. though bani is simple but a smart girl. being a woman she understand the meaning of jai's care n concern for her very fast. so she has a stong feeling abt it. as i said their act says everything. this inkling become strong when jai said now he doesn't want to hurt her. tht enough is enough.

What is your personal opinion on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

ans. what they are showing is the best. it doesnt need anything more. sometimes this type of romance creat more reality and intensity then pushkar-pia type romance. they both are looking very artificial especially pia. 😡 as jai-bani are of a private kind of a person who speaks very less. so their silent type love is very good. it suits them. i just love it.

A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

ans. both the reason. what jai went through in his love life, it is obviously very difficult for jai looking to his nature to forget everything very easily. especially with over sensitive nature,it is hard for him to come out from it. so whenever he go one step ahead, that painful memory take him two steps back. second is his nature. he is very introvert type. he believe in action and not speaking. as we see now a days that his concern for bani reflect in his action not in his words. so for first due to heart break and second due to his shy nature, why he is not able to come out with his emotions.

Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

ans. on one will confess their feelings in words as both are shy people. both have same type of nature when love matter is there. they both understand each other's feeling by their action which they have already started to realise. u know JODI KAMAL KI.... 😉 so no actual confess but their action confess....

Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

ans. oh definetly they will have a warm and secure marriage. see both knows their partner's past. both knows each others pain and sorrow and circumstances from which they passed. thats the main reason they understand each other very well. u know their relationship is given a name like "DARD KA RISHTA". this dard ka rishta will become a "KHUSHIYON KA RISHTA" for them. they will have a very warm, passionate and mature relationship in futute. they will always give happiness to their beloved and try to eliminate pain from their life. so in future jai and bani will be the most happiest couple. what they bared in their life so far, god will give them sud sahit happiness in futute... 😊 😳

hope u like the ans.

bye for now,
love

kiah

I would love to see how mature Jai is, with the pregnancy issue. He knows very well that Bani is not a person who goes around with other men and also that there is no other man in her life.
If he loses his temper this time due to the 'J' factor, then he has to pay big big.. I mean really BIG for this... since he has not apologized to the earlier character assasination of Bani.
OK.. Mr Jai, its time now to support Bani through this and win her trust. Lets see if you will even ask Bani about it...

Hi MT.. You have got questions and we have the answers..😕 .. All said and done EKta Mayi will throw logic out of her mercedes window and hit us all with "Kasam se -you guys deserve this"

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Now the questions for the day;

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

-Getting there.. still long way to go. Mantra here is proceed with caution.. The fact that J&B are married gives him green light to harbour feelings for Bani but his ego is in the way....

Do you feel that Bani has a strong inlking of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

- Bani knows Jai is changing back to his normal self.. a caring person with Main hoon naa attitude... Bani being the practical person can never mistake his caring attitude for love.

What is your personal opinon on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

- Can we ever be satisfied with J & B romantic scenes... more is better in this case..

A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

- Jai is most vocal person .. Loved the way he confided with Bani after Dori scene that he is not gonna hurt her anymore... Re Pia he is still not able to over come humiliation and until his feelings are on neutral zone(no hate or love) it will be hard for him to accept Bani's love.

Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

-I think circumstances will bring them to that point and then bingo Jai will say it first...Jai seems to be the main driver of this relationship..

Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

- Yeh to Ekta mayi ke upper depend karta hai-- But yes I think J & B are soul mates and will always be there for each other baring Jigz,Roshni, Pia and future villians.

Will be awaiting your answers...

Cheers,

MT😃

Now I have to get back to work MT... It was fun.😃

Hi MT!

Sorry for being late…was out of town. Here are my answers… it was quite a significant week.. hope this week go as well as the last week.

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

Jai is so much in love with Bani… and with each passing day he will only fall more in love with her!!! At begin with Jai allowed that Love to surface only in fleeting moments… It was mostly only one intense, understanding look he gave Bani. But these days he has become more expressive and he seems to enjoy it aswell. The soften look and voice speaks volumes whenever he sees or talks to Bani. Jai was so cranky when Bani wasn't well. Jai must have been the happiest coz he had effectively destroyed Pushkar… but it didn't even seem he was bothered, he seemed more worried about Bani's medicines. Not to forget he threw a temper tantrum coz his wife had to wait for water for 2 complete minutes and had arranged for her medicines from delhi even before she came back from Pushkar's house. And how wild was he for someone(Roshini) was trying to fill Bani's shoes in HIS Home.
His anger disappeared the moment he heard Bani's voice at the other end. He got emotional when Bani thanked him… he so sweetly said "es mein Thanks ke kya bath hai?" He was behaving like a teenager trying to have a conversation with his Girlfriend under his father's nose. He was being so discreet when he spoke to Bani. And can u ever imagine THE Jai Walia comforting & cheering up his sad wife and giving her a cheerfull smile? His heart sank the moment he saw Bani in tears, he actually TOLD her 'Main tumhe rote huhe nahi dekhsakta' (forget the fact that he ended up making Bani all the more emotional!) The manner in which he reprimanded Jigyasa (Mind u he didn't know the seriousness of the issue… according to his knowledge, it was a disagreement on the menu. I am sure Jai knows Bani more than that to buy that reason… but still!) gave u the impression he meant that Bani's 'Izaat' is his 'Izaat' He doesn't see Bani separate from himself. If this isnt love then what is?
He told Aditya, "Main Bani se nafrath nahi karta eska yeh matlab nahi hai ke main use pasand karne laga hoon" Jai is right, Bani is not his 'Pasand' but his 'Pyar'! for all along he has believed the person he likes is the one he loves. I am sure he LIKED Roshini and Pia, but never 'LOVED' them. Jai hasn't experienced anything so powerful ever before when he assumed he was in Love. So he still hasn't realized or rather doesn't want to admit he is in Love. He is experiencing New heights and the real depths of True Love… trust me Jai cant deny this emotion for long… he will simply surrender to it, for he cant fight it.

Do you feel that Bani has a strong inlking of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

Bani these days has eyes only for Jai. She wont have missed a single emotion in his eyes… I can bet she notices the changes in Jai. She has become a far more secure under his protective glance. Like in the case of true soulmates I see the changes in Jai brushing off on Bani. She has become more confident about her role and importance in Jai's life. Be it from managing the Menu of the house, to telling Jai she wants to share his problems, to apologizing to a guest (please read Intruder/Pushkar. Lol!) for the unpleasant situation in THEIR HOME!!! I do feel it is Jai's change of ways that has lead to Bani appreciate herself a lot more… else she wont have done more than removing his night dress or serve his tea in the morning. These days the Bani we see is more of Mrs Bani Jai Walia… which is the reason of Jai's emotions for her.

What is your personal opinon on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

It is absolutely PERFECT! It is one of the finest and one of the most sensitively handled Love Stories ever (by the Balaji Team!) The best thing about this is that the two don't have to say anything… their silence and eyes speaks volumes and each understand it perfectly. There are no high funda, melodramatic, filmy lectures on how Love is and how it should be!!! What I love about this story is that Jai-Bani cant help but fall in Love and though they deny it… they don't fight it. More than the concept of Love, Husband-wife being dealt in Kasam se, what is more appealing and heart warming is the portrayal of Jai-Bani as Soul Mates despite difference in age, temperament and life styles! Jai-Bani have connected with eachother at different point at different levels as the story wound itself around them, unveiling that their Lives, Their Destinies, Their Souls were entwined with eachother.
I cant imagine anyone but Ram and Prachi as Jai-Bani. They are the BEST Jai-Bani could ever be.
If there is one problem I have about the portrayal of the story… then I would say it is the lopsided(has reduced to a large extend these days) portrayal of the protagonist. While Bani's expression and emotions are shown in detail… Jai is ignored at times. For eg… we all knew what Bani went through on her drive to the farm house… what happened to Jai? I know Jai is a man of few words.. but that doesn't mean he doesn't go through any emotions!!! They should take care of it.

A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

Pia doesn't exist for Jai anymore! She now is no more that Bani's sister. Now Jai is almost indifferent towards Pia-Pushkar, they only manage to irritate him not even anger him.
There are a lot of reasons that is holding back Jai… most importantly as he himself admitted he isnt able to commit to a relationship esp after he has lost trust on his emotions. It could be his guilt of hurting Bani all the way. It can be the fact that he wants to set Bani free from a relationship that was forced on both of them.. in such a case what is the use in expressing his feelings? Then there is his PAST which is biggest hurdle jai has to cross to be with Bani.

Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

It has to be Bani… I somehow feel it will be Bani breaking down. Whenever Jai is near a emotional break down, he distances himself from everyone… esp Bani! I used to feel it will be Bani's insecurity of losing Jai to Roshini that will trigger off the confession.. but with Roshini off to London… that doesn't seem a possibility. By the time Roshini is back, Jai-Bani will be Man & Wife in the truest sense of the word. So? May be this pregnancy drama will be a catalyst… cant really say, but it will be Bani who will confess her love for Jai much to the latter's relief!!! In case Jai confesses he will do so in a fit of anger…may be wreck her neck over the pregnancy crisis. But my bet is on Bani.

Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

Whatever the fate of their marriage is, one thing is for sure… they will love eachother all their lives… they will never fall out of Love. Having loved eachother they cant love any one else. Ideally Jai-Bani will over come any obstacle in their way… there wont be anything that can overpower what they feel for eachother. Having said that since Ekta is the karta-darta of the show… anything can happen

MT, how much did I miss? Another 2 questionnaires to go, I guess. Kal submit karoon tho chalega?
Luv
Anu.

God .. MT wish i had the time on My Hands to answer your questions ... .. i can only write very quick ones .. and these questionares need time .. since i type with 2 fingers . 😳 yeah .. dont know tyoing .... 😡
anyways ... in short ... ..
Firstly Jai 's fever of revenge is calmed .. Now he realises he has hurt Bani . And Bani has taken everything Calmly . above all she Helped him Out on acting as his wife in front of Maasi .
I think .. internally Jai's feeling .. miserable .. that he cated like that .. coz its not in his Nature to be a beast .
he is rite .. he dosent Hate Bani .. so it doesnt mean he is In LOve with her .
But Jai ... Liking .. can lead to the Path of Love too .
so . Jai does need more time .. Maybe his defination of Love or being in Love is something else .
But Yes .. i would say our Khadoos .. is half in Love ..and half guilty .. for treating Bani for Pia's Mistakes .
their Marriage will be for Keeps .. that is predictable .
Jai .. Knows Bani more than he Knew Pia . and Both .. of them Have shared a Lot , so they have kind of build a relationship .
Only communication is Missing .
The sooner Bani tells Jai .. - when he Keeps saying ... ( U will be free of this farce of a Marriage ) that she is Happy to stay as his wife ..and wnats to work out her marriage with him .. I think at that Point Jai might see Bani in a different Lite .. and at that time he Might actually realise .. his feelings for here and bring them out in the Open .
there have been many times where Bani could Have spoken to Jai .. about how she feels about their Marriage ... ( especially .. the friday episode ) infact .. she must Know ..Now Jai is More in the state where he can converse about his and Banis relationship . From the Past he knows .. Bani wanted a divorce . so even thought bani's expressions seem to look like she is getting closer to Jai .. he dosent wanna take another Chance .. by reading too Much .. into it .. Like before ( with Pia )..
I would Say .. he is being cautious ... by protecting himself from another heartbreak .
Once Bitten twice shy ..
Hope i answered to the context... MT

MT absolutely awesome as ever i have given response to three Q&A session which are gr8 and this is the most awesome questions especially last two questions keep it up MT 👍🏼

Do you think that Jai has fallen in love with Bani or is he still in the process of getting there?

Look the way Jai's character is shaping he is trying to respect Bani's gestures which she did when Maasi was here and he stated clearly to her last week that he has realised how painful process she went through all these days but when things are shaping up well this sudden prergnancy issue has ruined that, but for his love thing he had started to like her and now suddenly things have changed so can't really say that.....but he doesn't hate her now......

Do you feel that Bani has a strong inlking of Jai's changing emotions for her or is she clueless regarding the same and still feels that Jai hates her?

Jai has started to let go all what happened in the past but I think as for now he definately doesn't hate her as he did earlier but he doesn't love her too that's a clear thing he must be feeling sorry for what he has done to her but Jai will realise what Bani really means to her and how important is her exixtance in his life after she goes that's what I feel....

What is your personal opinon on the "budding romance" between Jai and Bani? Do you think that it could have been portrayed better or do you think that it is one of the most perfect renditions of a quiet love to be shown on screen?

Its one of the perfect type of chemistry as you can rate it on the top list... and also the way the flow of the story is I think it is a natural way of realisation process which Jai & Bani are going through that is best part of the show. Right now if they will make Jai and Bani fall for eachther for just sake of the story it won't have that magic, I dont think they need to improve on anything they are perfect, I think romance on screen should be quite love thing it gives a great chemistry when audience watch it.

A very opinion based question; Do you think that the reason why Jai is not able to come out with his emotions is because he is still aching with the heart-break that Pia gave him or is it because of the fact that Jai is basically an introvert person who would never be able to give words to his feelings?

That is not the case in Jai, he is not an introvert he is very open and he doesn't fake what he feels he tells to Bani like the day Maasi went first dori scene he said all those things that "I don't want to trouble you any more and want to let go this relationship and set you free" and also the last week when he saw Bani crying he said all those things so that shows if he feels something inside he expresses it to Bani. He will say it if there no hindrance such as pregnancy mistry....

Please make a fair guess with a valid reason as to whom do you think will be the first one to confess his / her "Dil ki baat". Jai or Bani? Or will circumstances lead them to say everything without the use of an actual confession?

I think this is the most difficult question of all times I guess it will be Jai it is just a wild guess because Bani i dont think she will OMG very difficult question ok i'll tell you why because Jai will soon be able to figure out his deep emotions for Bani or should say importance of her in his life.....GOd MT kaunsi sawaal poochne ki goli khati ho 😃 well keep it up!!!!!

Again an opinion based query; Do you think that given Jai and Bani's turbulent & volatile past, whenever they settle down in future, they will still have a warm and secure marriage (as the Panditji predicted for Bani) or will they have a passionate but unstable relationships between them?

This is also a difficult ques MT but i will ans i think it will the second one they will have passionate yet unstable realtionship with lots of hindrance like Roshni, Jigs and Ranveer.........

MT please dont eat anything which makes the mind work more i am jus sayin thin coz you ask the most difficult questions 😆
Bye