Main Chup Rahoongi - Bani's Silence Q & A

What a turn of events on Kasamh Se...honestly, after a long time, there is a serial on air which has all of hooked in with such interest! And what an episode, it was one of the most powerful one to be shown on Kasamh Se till date and Ram Kapoor's performance yesterday has to go down as being a benchmark for upcoming actors! He was in splendid form, breathing fire and love at the same time!

But Bani, what has gone wrong with our lady? Silence is surely golden and if this is the case, then Bani should have kept quiet and not confirmed to Jai that she is indeed Pregnant! It is pretty obvious to all of us that it is Anu who is the real culprit and then what is Bani trying to prove, how will she save Anu's neck by getting the blame on her!

The only justification I can think of is that Anu's boyfriend might not be able to marry her right now and hence she wants to get the baby aborted, but since Anu belongs to the Walia Family, her name will be tarnished along with Jai and the Other's and hence Bani, by virtue of being a married woman and more importantly, knowing that she only has few days left with Jai, must have decided to take the blame on herself till Anu can get some time to sort out her problem!

After all Bani is in love with Jai and his honor is more important to her than her own self-respect...If this is the reason, then I think what Bani did was justified, even though she ended up breaking Jai's trust and heart once again.

Coming to Cuddles, I kind of supported him yesterday, after all which man would be able to bear the fact that his wife is pregnant with someone else's child...all said and done, Jai has been faithful in the marriage to Bani and even though he has been extremely cruel and nasty to her, he has never demeaned their marriage in anyway, not even with Roshni...so that means, Jai respect their marriage a lot, even if he doesn't want to live with Bani! For such a man, a news like this is bound to shatter his faith in the institution of marriage and on human bonds as such. Jai had told Bani that even though they don't have any relation between them, they still have an understanding.....and for that understanding atleast, Bani should have confided in Jai!

But I still think that the turn of events is a good news, for one we got to know that it bothers Jai like hell that Bani is pregnant with someone else's child, which obviously means that he has come to care for her very deeply and is madly possessive about her and secondly, Jai still places a lot of trust on Bani, considering he waited for her confirmation to the news before reacting in any manner!

My thought process tells me that once the whole fiasco gets cleared up, Jai won't be able to contain his emotions any more and he will be the first one to blurt out to Bani that he is in love with her.....the overwhelming feeling of love for Bani coupled with the guilt of all that he had to make her go through won't let Jai remain passive anymore...

So the questions for today are;

Do you still think that it is indeed Bani who is pregnant (with Jai or someone else's child) or is the culprit Anu?

Jai's behaviour has indicated a great shift; he is extremely caring and considerate towards Bani. So does this shift indicate that he is truly falling in love with Bani or is he simply making up for all that she had to go through because of him in the past?

Do you think that Bani was justified in not just keeping her silence but actually lying to Jai about her Pregnancy?

What are your views on Jai's reaction to the news of Bani's Pregnancy? Do you feel he was justified in his anger and the choice of words or do you think that he flew off his handle as usual?

An interesting question; What do you think irked Jai the most? The news that his wife is pregnant with someone else's child or the fact that Bani broke his trust once again?

Judging Jai's instant reaction to Bani's confirmation of her Pregnancy (the banging of his fist on the book-shelf), do you feel that he was insanely jealous or was he just shattered and heart-broken that Bani made a fool out of him?

Please give a general prediction on what will be Jai's reaction when he comes to know the truth that it is Anu who is pregnant and Bani lied to save his family's honor?

An analytical question; Bani has ended up sacrificing everything for Jai, including her self-respect. Do you think that any love in the World is worth giving up so much for? And do you feel that Jai deserves Bani's unquestioning, selfless love for him?

Will be awaiting your answers guys...

Cheerios,

MT

wow!!! MT......wonderful Q&A 👏 👏 👏 .....rite now here in USA it is very late at nite....1:00 AM....n i m trully sleepy....n i have school tomorrow.......but honestly first thing tom' after cuming from school..........i will definetely ans ur Q's....... i m so sry......plzzz don't b mad 😭

loadz of luv,
later!!!
lisa 😳 😉 😛

Do you still think that it is indeed Bani who is pregnant (with Jai or someone else's child) or is the culprit Anu?

The culprit is Anu ...... Damn sure !!!!!!

Jai's behaviour has indicated a great shift; he is extremely caring and considerate towards Bani. So does this shift indicate that he is truly falling in love with Bani or is he simply making up for all that she had to go through because of him in the past?

Yeah! indeed this shift in behaviour indicateds that some or the other where in his heart he feels for Bani but he is unaware of this feeling called love which he feels strongly for Bani

Do you think that Bani was justified in not just keeping her silence but actually lying to Jai about her Pregnancy?

Yes n No !!!!!!!!! Yes for she was justified in keeping silence and lying to save the honour of the man she loves. To her his respect is most important. n No for she shouldnt have digested the insult Jai did to her parents.

What are your views on Jai's reaction to the news of Bani's Pregnancy? Do you feel he was justified in his anger and the choice of words or do you think that he flew off his handle as usual?

Jai was totally baffled on hearing this news as I said earlier he is feeling for Bani and slowly or steadily he realised the difference Bani is from others, So when he heard this news he was just shocked and he couldnt control his anger as the news reminded him of Pia's behaviour of breaking his trust

An interesting question; What do you think irked Jai the most? The news that his wife is pregnant with someone else's child or the fact that Bani broke his trust once again?

The news that Bani broke his trust as he assumed Bani being different than others!

Judging Jai's instant reaction to Bani's confirmation of her Pregnancy (the banging of his fist on the book-shelf), do you feel that he was insanely jealous or was he just shattered and heart-broken that Bani made a fool out of him?

He was heart broken !!!!!! The news made him feel like some one snatched away the thing that meant so much to him and he is helpless!!!!!!!!!

Please give a general prediction on what will be Jai's reaction when he comes to know the truth that it is Anu who is pregnant and Bani lied to save his family's honor?

He will be ashamed of his behaviour towards Bani and he will blame himself as how could he suspect Bani being that kind of person also he will ask for forgiveness from Bani(If she still stays at Walia House) and he will admire her more

An analytical question; Bani has ended up sacrificing everything for Jai, including her self-respect. Do you think that any love in the World is worth giving up so much for? And do you feel that Jai deserves Bani's unquestioning, selfless love for him?

I dont know whether Jai deserves Bani uncooditional love ....but I know one thing for sure that Love is everthing !!!!!!!!!! But Love is worth giving up everything except for my dignity !!!!!!!!!

lolzzzz😆😆😳 ok i felt guilty....so i will answer ur questions shortly......i m trully sry.......

oh!!! yea i forgot to mention......luv the way u analyzed the whole situation...simply wonderfull👏👏👏

So the questions for today are;

Do you still think that it is indeed Bani who is pregnant (with Jai or someone else's child) or is the culprit Anu?

i honestly think tht bani is innocent.....i think it is anu who is the culprit😆😉.....n bani being a sweet heart is actually trying to save anu n the walia house's honor......(awww.......how thoughtful is she..😳😊)

Jai's behaviour has indicated a great shift; he is extremely caring and considerate towards Bani. So does this shift indicate that he is truly falling in love with Bani or is he simply making up for all that she had to go through because of him in the past?

wow!!!! taugh question.....hmmm......actually before u asked this question.....i was pretty sure tht jai has definitely fallen for bani....n tht he is in luv w/ her........but now tht u asked....i wonder.....all i noe is tht he is definitely falling for her.........but whether it is luv yet........hmmm i don't noe....(although i hope so[xxKEEPING MI FINERS CROSSEDxx]😆😛)......n bout his behavior changr toward bani.......GOSH!!! i luv it...really itz so adorable.....he looks even more hot these dayzzzz😆😳(if only he wasn't already taken)😆

Do you think that Bani was justified in not just keeping her silence but actually lying to Jai about her Pregnancy?

honestly i hope she didn't lie to jai.....i mean i cud c y she did it(to save anu n jai's honor)....but i really hope she didn't.........if she really didn't want to tell she cud have just kept quite(n i cud c where tht wud have went wrong too..) but still i really didn't want her to lie to our cuddles.....atleast not after how sweet he was w/ bani.........i just luved him today.....from the beginning of the epi to pretty much the end....where he closes the door n asks bani calmly whether the pregnancy issue is tru....how kuteee cud he get....😳😳

What are your views on Jai's reaction to the news of Bani's Pregnancy? Do you feel he was justified in his anger and the choice of words or do you think that he flew off his handle as usual?

hmmm.....thtz a taughy.....well i cud understand how he must have felt....i mean when ur wife admits tht she is pregnant.....n u no itz not ur child......n u r thinking mi wife is pregnant w/ sum 1 else's child....POOR GUY!!!.......😭😭.........i feel so bad for him.......but at the same time i feel really bad for bani.......the way jai insults her......n calls her a bazaari awrat........😭😭.......n just just tht he also brings up her family....(her dad).......noeing tht she is a very family sort of gurl....

honestly i feel bad for both of them.......(where is tht anu....cum on gurl....plzzz tell them the truth.......i can't c them in this situation....both of their heart is broken in to pieces😭😭😭)

An interesting question; What do you think irked Jai the most? The news that his wife is pregnant with someone else's child or the fact that Bani broke his trust once again?

hmmm....i think both.....but mostly the fact tht bani broke his trust once again.........cuz more than ne 1......he has always trusted bani........n never really blamed her.....n even when he yelled at her...or threatened her....he always felt guilty rite after!!!!........n now when he really trusted her.........n developed tru feelings for her........(after all the betrayal).........he was truly hurt......nowing out of all the ppl........itz bani who hurt him the most.......THE PERSON WHO HE NEVER EXPECTED!!!😭

Judging Jai's instant reaction to Bani's confirmation of her Pregnancy (the banging of his fist on the book-shelf), do you feel that he was insanely jealous or was he just shattered and heart-broken that Bani made a fool out of him?

he was shattered........😭😭...........n also mayb jealous as well😉

Please give a general prediction on what will be Jai's reaction when he comes to know the truth that it is Anu who is pregnant and Bani lied to save his family's honor?

i think he will feel so ashmed as to how he reacted to her....n not just tht but he will feel guilty.......n noeing tht bani did all this for his n anu's sake........he wud b touched n his respect for her wud raise tremndously..........n this wud b the start his tru luv for her😳😳...(now i just can't wait for this to happen)😳😛😉

An analytical question; If Bani has indeed done all that she did for Anu based on her love & care for Jai, do you feel that she is justified, even if it ended up breaking Jai's heart? An alternate questions could be, "Is everything indeed fair in Love and War?"

yup........i do think tht all is fair in luv n war......😳

n since bani is doing this for jai....n cuz he luves him so much.......awwww😳😳..........i definitely think she is justified.......(but i still feel bad for jai😭)..........i just luv em both....n only want to c them happy........😊😉

lolzzzzz.......tht was long😆..........hehe😳.........hope i didn't bore u.......sry..........itz just i luved the way u wrote it......n just cudn't sleep w/ out answering ur luvly question........i really hope ur n't mad at me

loadz of luv......take care....later!!!😉

lisa😳😳😛

Hi, mistletoe I love your Q&A. Here is my 2cents worth.

No, Bani is not pregnant I think it is Anu.

I think he is making up to her I don't think he can say sorry i said all those bad things to you, he likes her but he doesn't feel the 'In Love' rush that he felt with pia. But I also think this love is slowly building up. He has not come to realize and accept that she occupies a place in his heart.Maybe he is afraid to love again.


No. she should realize that he is being nice and caring towards her and he mentioned that there should be some understanding between them. This is the walia family problem not her sister rano's problem . If she even hopes to stay on as his wife she should show that she confides in him.Try to build a friendship at least.


Justified to be angry. Bani is his wife. He has been faithful. He would expect the same from her. People would think the child to be his. Maybe he is thinking of his reputation. I think hearing it from the press is not good at all.As far as his choice of words ahem not good. But Mr Walia with all the torture ( constantly reminding her of the divorce)you made her go through maybe she is justified in finding emotional support in someone else who will be her future.


I think both. hidden feeling have a funny way of showing up. she is MY wife. like i said earlier it wuld have been better if bani had told him earlier personally (i trust you with this secret) rather than hearing it from the media.


Oh, he is jealous. The liking (pasand) for bani is slowly showing up. Bani's life should revolve around him and only him. If he isn't in love with Bani and will divorce her in a few days why should he be heart-broken.


He will be relieved ashamed perplexed at the same time. He is not sure she will forgive him for all the things he says.He will be proud of her for keeping her promise to Anu. He will start questioning himself as to his jealous feelings.


No. Don't break his heart it is just on the mend. Though he has broken yours a thousand times. She should have confided in him.

KHJL...A Big 🤗 from me... and for God sake don't mess up with your sleep for posting! Lolz..guys you are just too good!!! KHJL, never miss your school for anything, I used to bunk so much and had to pay hell during exam times!😆

Thanks to Poppins, Ovaltine (I used to love this drink when I was a kid!) and KHJL for answering...am awaiting more from the others!

Cheers and Love,

MT

Originally posted by: mistletoe

KHJL...A Big 🤗 from me... and for God sake don't mess up with your sleep for posting! Lolz..guys you are just too good!!!

Thanks to Poppins and KHJL for answering...am awaiting more from the others!

Cheers and Love,

MT

yipeee.... i m so relieved tht u rn't mad at me.......thank u so much!!!!......n ne thing for u MT........😳😳🤗

luv ya........take care!!!

lisa😊😛😉

Do you still think that it is indeed Bani who is pregnant (with Jai or someone else's child) or is the culprit Anu?

It is Anu - there have been too many hints along the way from previous episodes also.

Jai's behaviour has indicated a great shift; he is extremely caring and considerate towards Bani. So does this shift indicate that he is truly falling in love with Bani or is he simply making up for all that she had to go through because of him in the past?

He thinks he is keeping his word that he will not torture her any more and wants to see her happy but in reality he has fallen in love with her. Once this pregnancy drama is over he will fully realize his feelings.

Do you think that Bani was justified in not just keeping her silence but actually lying to Jai about her Pregnancy?

Yes and no. There are different factors. When she must have taken the decision to protect Anu she must not have dreamt that the situation would catapult into something like this - Jigs, the press and all involved. She was just buying time for Anu. But when Jigs threatened her, she should have briefed Jai before coming down to the party. When she was questioned by Jai she was in a corner as there was not any time for an explanation and the press was outside. So she must have lied even though she knew in her heart this is not what she wanted to do. I feel she should just have said that the report os correct and stopped without validating that she was pregnant. That would have been half a lie.

What are your views on Jai's reaction to the news of Bani's Pregnancy? Do you feel he was justified in his anger and the choice of words or do you think that he flew off his handle as usual?

Absolutely justified in his anger after the way in which he came to know of the pregnancy. I do not agree with his choice of words but then we know from the past that he has no control over himself once he loses his temper.

An interesting question; What do you think irked Jai the most? The news that his wife is pregnant with someone else's child or the fact that Bani broke his trust once again?

A combination of both. After what this man has been through he already suffers from major trust issues. This was just more fuel to the fire.

Judging Jai's instant reaction to Bani's confirmation of her Pregnancy (the banging of his fist on the book-shelf), do you feel that he was insanely jealous or was he just shattered and heart-broken that Bani made a fool out of him?

I think he was shattered and heartbroken that Bani of all people did something like this - Bani who had just started making a place in his heart.

Please give a general prediction on what will be Jai's reaction when he comes to know the truth that it is Anu who is pregnant and Bani lied to save his family's honor?

He will be ashamed of his behaviour and especially the words he used but this will make him fully accept his feelings and emotions for Bani and I am hoping with all my heart that he acknowledges his love for Bani to her face. Once this happens there will be nor turning back.

An analytical question; Bani has ended up sacrificing everything for Jai, including her self-respect. Do you think that any love in the World is worth giving up so much for? And do you feel that Jai deserves Bani's unquestioning, selfless love for him?

Yes, it is unconditional love and again I repeat I hope Jai realizes this and understands that Bani is a keeper for life. And yes the poor little rich boy not only deserves but needs the unquestioning, selfless love that Bani has for him.

Am leaving for 2 days to attend a conference and will miss the updates and have to wait till Thursday to find out what happened. I am feeling bad for me.😭😊

GREAT TOPIC OF TODAY AND I HAVE NO WORDS TO THNAKS U WELL BUT YAH THIS IS TRUE THAT NOW WEHAVE SOMETHING INTRESTING IN EKTA'S SERIAL AND THERE IS NO DOUGHT THAT IN EVERY STARTING SERIAL SHE HAS FANTASTIC TOPICS

I BELIEVE IN THE SILENT LOVE AND THE GREAT PROBLEM OF THE HUMAN IS THAT WE START TO LOVE TO THAT PERSON TO WHOM WE START OUR RELATION WITH HATE AND I THINK THIS HAPPEN NWITH JAI WALIA.THE WORD LOVE IS SO SIMPLE TO WRITE AND TO SAY BUT IT IS REALLY DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND AND EVEN THE FEELING INSIDE THE HUMAN WHERE THE JAI IS WALKING THROUGH. THE RELATION OF JAI AND BANI IS ALL DEPEND UPON THE UNDERSTANDING AND NOW BANI IS NOT UNDERSTANDING THE FEELING OF JAI AND JAI IS NOT UNDERSTANDING BANI 'S LOVE TO HIM AND HIS FAMILY . IT IS HARD FOR JAI TO ACCEPT THAT HE CNA BE EVEN FALL IN LOVE WITH BANI AND BANI DON'T WANT TO EXPRESS HER FEELING BECOZ SHE DON'T WANT DIS APPOINT WITH THAT RELATION WHICH IS STARTED FROM THE HATE

If indeed Anu is pregnant, There is no reason why Bani must take the blame. I mean its not her sister involved here. All she does is take insults heaped on her own family. She sacrifices her own familys name and dignity for the sake of Walia family where she has no real place up to now. What would she achieve by this. If she wanted to do that, especially knowing how Jai insults her father, she should have told him the truth before the party. What can she achieve by always sacrificing herself for someone else. She would now lose her husband. I dont blame Jai for leaving her again and treating her badly as there is no logic in what she is doing. Just as the ice was broken and he began showing his feelings, she had to cause havoc again playing the doormat. Arre Baba she could have confided in her husband at least. Seems like the lights are on but no one is at home.