Silent Protest against Kekta

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am totally shocked and angry with Kekta and her creative team the woman has gone to far this time in maligning Banis character by making the female protoganist a weak character and top of it maligning her character by the male leads. Its shocking has a woman she has no sentiments for the feelings of women I can understand the situation of serial demands use of harsh words but calling a young girl derogatory terms is unacceptable and hope in future episodes such things will not continue because its unberable has kids are also watching these serial and can effect their young minds. I would like to know your comments.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think there is nothing wrong with a scene where a husband totally flips out and yells at his wife, but yeah I totally agree with you that there is no need for bad words to be used. Just as I'm against nudity and such scenes in serials and movies I'm also against the use to extreme /bad words. So I hope they will be avoided in the future. There is no need for them to show that someone is going mad with anger and is deeply hurt by using foul words. There are tons of other ways to show it.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I completely agree with you all. They can show Jai being angry without using such language.Hope Ekta and team try to rectify this by avioding such foul language in the future.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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that is one thing that stands out...the language Ekta uses isn't always appropriate, and maybe she should tone it down a bit...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks for agreeing with me guys 😃 I cannot bear using harsh words against any woman and hurting self respect and pride of a women in general leave alone Bani because it will give a wrong impression to some men that they can behave and accusse their wives/women with such nasty language 🤢 hope Kekta looks into this matter soon has I am fed up of the harsh language she uses in most of her serials 😔Someone really needs to put some sense into kekta has she seems to lost her brains šŸ˜†
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayona

I am totally shocked and angry with Kekta and her creative team the woman has gone to far this time in maligning Banis character by making the female protoganist a weak character and top of it maligning her character by the male leads. Its shocking has a woman she has no sentiments for the feelings of women I can understand the situation of serial demands use of harsh words but calling a young girl derogatory terms is unacceptable and hope in future episodes such things will not continue because its unberable has kids are also watching these serial and can effect their young minds. I would like to know your comments.

disagree with you. what is the point of a serial if everything is edited and simply done the way to please others' perception of moral/immoral. I THINK IN ORDER FOR THE SHOW TO LOOK REALISTIC, IT NEEDS DIALOGUES AND ACTING VERY CLOSE TO REAL LIFE, AND YOU'RE KIDDING YOURSELF IF YOU DONT THINK THIS IS WHAT A HUSBAND WOULD SAY TO HIS WIFE IF HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD!!! you just need to chillax and not take it so personally! the show is perfect the way it is!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kadwiphool

disagree with you. what is the point of a serial if everything is edited and simply done the way to please others' perception of moral/immoral. I THINK IN ORDER FOR THE SHOW TO LOOK REALISTIC, IT NEEDS DIALOGUES AND ACTING VERY CLOSE TO REAL LIFE, AND YOU'RE KIDDING YOURSELF IF YOU DONT THINK THIS IS WHAT A HUSBAND WOULD SAY TO HIS WIFE IF HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD!!! you just need to chillax and not take it so personally! the show is perfect the way it is!

I am sorry to disappoint you but I was only expressing my opinion on this forum.😊 Has i felt offended because using such harsh language for a women is unacceptable according to me and I even know guys do use such terms but that doesnt mean kekta needs to glorify the use of such terms in her serial it kind of sends wrong message to guys that such terms are acceptable in society which I dont agree and I have seen her doing this continously in this serial Banis character is maligned by every single member of the Walia clan and I felt a need to raise my voice on this issue why does kekta make the female protagonist of 21st century so weak that she cant stand up for herself and raise her voice against injustice it will send a wrong message to many women to follow the same route and self sacrificing part of Bani must end its disappointing.🤢 Its not only the husband who accusses the wife but the nephew also accussing Uncles wife isnt it depressing hope in future they dont show other members in the family following suit. I just felt such words should be not be used frequently in serial has it spoils the whole mood of the viewers mostly females who watch it with their families. My protest is against kekta and her foolish thinking😔 because the women has totally forgotten to give proper justice to the female characters in most of her serials. I am offended and sad its happening in my favourite serial Kasamh Se.šŸ˜•

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i totaly agree with Kadwiphool
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Dear Mayona,

I completely agree with you...Bani till date was a very strong and principaled character, but by making her go through so much of ridicule and insult, Ekta has shown Bani to be very weak and helpless! What I find a little disappointing about Bani is her lack of spirit, I undestand that whatever she is going through is because she is so hopelessly in love with Jai, but at the same time, Bani shouldn't compromise with her self-respect in this manner and become a door-mat for her husband to walk over anytime he chooses to!

Jai's reaction was not unprecedented or unjustified, but the choice of words he used was extremely harsh and whatever the case maybe, he had no right to malign a woman's character in this way. Agreed that Jai was shattered to know that his wife was carrying someone's else's child, but then when has Jai considered Bani to be his wife? Why does he keep talking about splitting up and then go mad with jealousy when he hears about Bani's pregnancy? How can Jai close his eyes to all that Bani has done for him in the past and blow hot and cold as he pleases?

I agree that Jai's character is of a man who has a really short-fuse and is extremely ill-tempered, but at the same time, we shouldn't forget that he is the Male Protogonist of the show...and all said and done, he has a huge fan following...just to add dramatizaton to the show doesn't mean that you will end up using words and dialouges which make you squirm in your seat! It kind of takes the sheen of Jai's character when he uses such deregatory words....against a helpless and pushed into a corner young girl!


I think Ekta should show the showdown scenes between Jai and Bani in a more sensitive manner, and for God sake, show Bani opening her mouth in her defence atleast once!

And I also agree with you Mayona, that you were just expressing your opinion, to which all of us have a right....people should remember that!šŸ˜‰

Cheers,

MT

Edited by mistletoe - 19 years ago
mayona thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks Mt for your support šŸ˜› has a woman I was hurt to hear such term said for another woman leave alone Jai who atleast husband and said it in a fit of rage but what right has Ranveer to use such term who is only a nephew 😔 any ways kekta is senseless 🤢 hope she clears this misunderstanding between the couple or else she gonna meet wrath of a angry Jai and Bani fan 😔
Edited by mayona - 19 years ago

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