PLEASE PLEASE reply....its Interesting..

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I posted this in two other catorgories so i thought mite aswell post it here to 😛 I rember Sumaira saying that it was getting dry and she was geeting bored a couple of days bk ..... so here goes : 😊

Um..... this is something i thought about ..........so i dont know why but i thought i'd share it with fellow forumers....... 👏

Friendship is Always the Start to L o v e ....... Actually i was thinking that

A Girl and Gay Can NEVER be Just (best) freinds

Love❤️ or a feeling always comes in between

Ok some people mite say ' but i have a best freind and i have never loved him / her like that ' ....but think about a time when u have seen him or her ... havnt u ever thoguht ' Aww she/ he looks good?' OR if u see them with someone else u get jelous ..... 😕

Maybe not love but in the whole time of freindship there has always been moments or even JUST ONE moment when u even for a split second looked at the person differerently ❤️ 😵

Just though that this is Kind of a topic where people will have different thoughts............ it would be good to read wht other people have to say....... CAN A GIRL AN GUY BE BEST FRIENDS ?

Hope ALL of you Reply ............ 😛

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Yea, but it all depends on the relationship that they have, if they have been best friends for sometime they will stay that way, if a short time they might have feeling for each other and say that they are just best friends....so u never know when best friends turns into your love.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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i dont knw... i dont think " a girl and a guy" can be frnds. somthing always comes btw. if i have a best frnd who is a guy, then at one point i would want to marry him becaue who better to be a life partner then my best frnds. or it depends, how close the friendship is. i have alot of frnds who are guys but none of them are really close to me and i dont think they are my best frnds...
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: pikansi

Yea, but it all depends on the relationship that they have, if they have been best friends for sometime they will stay that way, if a short time they might have feeling for each other and say that they are just best friends....so u never know when best friends turns into your love.




i kinda agree with u...lolz.. guy i haf 2 best friend n they r guys....we kno each other 4 almost 8 yr n it not like that betwin us...but they im onli like 15 so...lolz
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Posted: 20 years ago
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ummmm...i think you all are right......a guy and a girl cannot be friends....i have many guy friends but they are not my best freinds......i had one guy friend...who was my very very best freind...and i used to share my pesoanl stuff with him....but then he started falling for me...i ddin't have any feelings for him becaue i was going out with somebody else.....he knew about it...but still he said he can't help with it....then we stopped seeing each other becaue i didn't want to hurt him.....so i guess no matter how hard you try...but atleast once you fall for him/her..😛
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Posted: 20 years ago
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😊hey yeah a girl and a guy could be best friends, it happens in reality, happened to me
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mž.I

😊hey yeah a girl and a guy could be best friends, it happens in reality, happened to me

DATZ GOOD!!!😃

TAKE CARE

ANOLI

xxx

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Posted: 20 years ago
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My best friend is a guy. Our dad's were and are best friends and our older sisters are best friends too. Me and my best friend grew up together (literally) and have been best bud's for 21 years now. He was born on July 8th and me on Aug 8th. Only 1 month difference. But I must say, speaking for myself.......I have never felt anything for him (in terms of love). He is my best friend and I cannot see him in that kind of way. I can't say anything on his behalf cause I don't know what he maybe thinking. But from my side, he is best friend and will always be my best bud. 😃 I think a girl and guy CAN be friends (even best friends) and not neccessarily have "feelings" for one another. Bringing that into the relationship changes everything and nothing remains the same anymore. That's why my advice is: have a best friend as a guy...........but remember.....stay strong and always keep in the back of your head that one wrong move (love) can change EVERYTHING.

It also depends on the person(s). If you know that there may be a slight chance that you may have feelings for this person, prepare yourself in advance for the worst case scenerio. Its better to be prepared than to have your heart broken by the one person you trust so much (your guy friend). 😃

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Yes they can be best friends .It happend to me

But it all depends on what kind of people they are I mean if they have similarities or differences,they could or couldnt get along

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Posted: 20 years ago
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uuummm...im not really sure i've got a best friend who's a guy but about a year ago he started to like me and now its kinda the same with me but i dnt wanat out friendship to change it 2 a relationship because i'm scared that if it doesnt work out it'll be hard for us to remain as best friends.....so i guess a guy and a girl can b best friends and dem sumtyms it jus gets complicated when LUV cums inbetween

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