What if it was J instead of G

I wonder how things would have been if it was Gauri waiting for Jagya at the theatre while he got a great opputunity to assist at a rare surgery. Would she have cribbed like Jagya did at not being accompanied for the movie or been happy that Jagya got a great chance, In a relationship its important for partners to make adjustments. But why is it always the woman who makes the adjustment for the sake of peace at home while the man cant take being treated secondary to someone or something else?

If j was on g's place then scenes would have completely different!!

1^st I really have a doubt whether he would take the opportunity to assist the case or not,coz I never find him very serious about his studies/career, he is doing MS just coz of gauri,the way gauri 1^st lil hesitant on thinking their movie plan but intelligently choose to assist the case, I am sure for jag, his reply to HOD might be like... that sorry sir I have an appointment! 😆

2ndly,if he would have agreed to it and not able to join g! and after knowing g's anger , he would have shouted at g badly by saying something like hey I didn't know u r behaving like typical housewife and village girl, "chhoti soch" as he referred this type of thing to lal singh, and would have reminded her that how much he sacrificed for her. 😡

What I am trying say is for jag, everyone except him have to obey certain rules, they have to fulfill his wishes, have to do their duties , "farz" towards him, have to take his responsibility and adjust with him. When things come to him then rules r not applied on him, he turns into a victim or a special person or out of world!...🤢