why hetal didnt opened her mouth

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nandu9

@nandu9

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Posted: 14 years ago

i know giving her kid to other lady is such a big thing and no indian woman will do it...First karan made a mistake by announcing infront of whole family without informing a single word to hetal..But what's wrong with hetal, why he didnt told anything ...atleast when mona asked her ,why she didnt opened her mouth..And moreover hetal is not mona,who will hide all her pains for others happiness..Also think no one in bedi's family might have forced or taunted hetal by refusing karan's deal..

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sherma

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Posted: 14 years ago

Cause she was shckd and suprised wid karan,and den vimmy strtd thanking her,she stil try to tel her,but vimy strtd i alwys misunderstd etc wen mona askd her karan did ishara to her but she was disappointed it cld read in her face,but bedis dint bthered.i tink hetal trust karan a lot,and he put her dwn.

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anjan9

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with sherma...she is in a position of shock and cant even spoke a single word..

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Chatani

@Chatani

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Posted: 14 years ago

i tink its caz she was guilty for wat she did to sweety

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gracious45

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Posted: 14 years ago

i think she was shocked and put in the spot. And she of course feels guilty for sweety's condition.

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agramathura

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Posted: 14 years ago

But then why did she say yes to Ambaji & Sweety - that this is her decision. If you cannot be truthful to your own mother, who will you be truthful to? She wants to show she is good, but is finding it hard to be really good.

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beetaurus

@beetaurus

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Posted: 14 years ago

Agreed Hetal was shocked initially but she should have opened her mouth later. She had enough chances of going back on that decision but she is choosing to accept it. Going FF to the future I could see Hetal having problems giving up the baby unless some kind of magic has happened to her.

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hetal was never really given chance to speak by Vimmy-Satnam and Parmeet started thanking her...Even Mona asked her opinion but that was not in private...Karan had put so much indirect pressure by making this ghor annoucement...She told him she could not give up her baby when they were aloine in their room...Karan convinced her into it...

Even Ambaji first spoke to her never asked her personal opinion but she started praising her for her selfless act than asked for honest opinion...By that time she was so much more under pressure from not only her IL but her mom too.

She felt the burden of making sweetie happy and making Sweetie a mother was on her and her only...If she said no it would not be perceived right..

Everyone expecting for her to be the good bahu, daughter, wife has made Hetal feel obliged that she could not say no..Also the guilt and feeling responsible in some way for sweetie losing her baby all played part in this..

Everyone was hating Hetal so much already with this baby dying and for Hetal to say NO this time would really put her on everyone's S*** list..She wanted to redeem herself genuinely and wants sweetie to be happy.. She is killing her own feelings to support Karan period..

This time Baa, Bijal ben are right in what they are saying too..

Bijalben gave perfect scenerio to Ambaji abt Hetal.. Ambaji could never let Bijal ben adopt Hetal although Ambaji had 2 other kids..So how can anyone expect Hetal to do so..

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Sweets09

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Posted: 14 years ago

why r they telling hetal ???

y expectations from her ! till now she was bad and what not, so y are all expecting her to be good now?

y not ask the Daya ki devi Mona & her dev Anukalp Gandhi to give their baby to sweetie !

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vcoolwater

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Posted: 14 years ago

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They are not telling Hetal to give up her first born. They assuming that "she" and Karan made their decision on their own. They don't know that Karan made decision without consulting Hetal.

Plus Mona and Ambaji don't totally agree with this decision. They only standing by it because they want to support them

I put the blame on Hetal. She had numerous chances to open her mouth and tell the truth. If she felt so strongly about she should have told her mother the truth. She shouldn't care about upseting others.

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