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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hell, I just read about this remarriage thing..! and honestly- only last week I had thought that when Maan really starts feeling for her, they should get married before living as husband and wife!😲

yeh.. I really really had thought that!!ā­ļø

Oh thank God cv's.. maah! muWaah! MWAH!šŸ¤—

As to the reason- its very simple.

Maan has no recollection of the marriage, or of having any feelings for this girl. that is why, even though one may show him the marriage video, picture, registration , any damn thing.. it will still be just a story to his mind.

Now when he really starts feeling for her, or even if he doesn't and just wants to give her the proper stature of a wife, he will need to perform those rituals again, for the marriage to have a meaning to him... hes a different person, but with the same principles.

Going on without marriage would make him feel like hes doing something wrong. For this Maan to give the proper respect to Geet as his wife, he will want to marry her, again.

It is the with the entire knowledge that you have performed the marriage rituals and accepted each one for what it represents , that one considers oneself married.
If there is not the faintest idea that one was beholden to such a promise around the scared fire, what marital bond are we talking about.šŸ˜• it would be just a set of meaningless rituals.And the rituals are performed and are essential because they discipline one towards the responsibility they are undertaking, in all its piety and gravity.

So he may love her or not, but if he indeed wants to acknowledge their relationship, he'll have to form it again, and for him to believe in that marriage, he'll have to marry again.

People whenever such things arise, try putting yourself in his shoes. It will all make so much sense..

Like if I was in the same situation , and was convinced that I should respect the bond, then I will definitely say "OK, I'll try. but for my peace of mind, can we marry again? " (so that it does not feel like I am being pressured into being intimate with a stranger😳.. the remarriage will definitely make me see him as some kind of husband which no amount of cajoling and pressure from family would have)..


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The CVs rock-- for making the wedding into a simple and intimate family affair!!😳 The marriage was just so that Maan could feel he was married and that Geet being his wife was something tangible for him...

oh so so glad that the simple affair, is just for that. The PROMO rocks!! I cannot wait for the second marriage.. Maan is just too too good man! too good! Love him!

AND LOVE THE CVsā­ļøšŸ¤—

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ChurriBurri thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am excited to see them getting married again and am hoping that it will trigger something in his mind about his love for Geet.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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cvs have no money for geet makeover,i wonder why will they spend money in remarrige😲
but if they plan something like dat,dis will be repetitive,its better that maan regains memory..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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i too would love this track of them getting married again but i have this scary feeling that they are trying to end the show real quick coz the story seems to be going real fast 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I totally agree with you as far as Maan's character is concerned. Another marriage ceremony would make the relationship real to him in a way that no amount of stories from daadi and dev and no amount of accidental viewings of the wedding album can. Then his heart can really be in the whole idea of giving their relationship a chance. So that way, it's a great idea. šŸ‘šŸ¼

BUT I am afraid that they are going to make it a huge theatrical affair, which I don't particularly look forward to. It just doesn't seem to fit right now.

If they are going to have another ceremony, I would prefer it to be something intimate, with just the two f them, where both of them state their feelings in plain words (symbolic of the pheras), MSK puts sindoor on her and that is that. Maybe they could even incorporate the taveez. That would be beautiful and appropriate for the situation, as MSK isn't exactly in a position to celebrate their love with a big, fat Punjabi wedding, but rather is just accepting Geet and promising to respect her and keep her happy.

Basically, I would prefer this:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8laTjeRqkls&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

To this:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lToje8aNTEk[/YOUTUBE]

Sorry I kind of veered off your original topic but I really hope CVs deal with this in a way that is sensitive to the situation that the two are in right now. The idea of them having another wedding for Maan to feel his rights in the relationship could either be very beautiful and poignant, or very tacky, depending on how it is handled.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i am doingg dinka chikaa
waana join with me
ninand thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ohmygod skg- I love love love that idea!! Yep.. that time it was grand cause He wanted the world to know and respect her.. to revive her sense of lost honor and respect from her past..
This time its only for themselves.. I want it to be intimate..

I had so wished this happened when he really started falling for her, but anyway, I wanted another marriage between them seeing its likely hes not going to recollect anything very soon.

OhmyGod! I'll die if they do something like that camp confession.. something just like the essence of their love, - pure, and overwhelming. and simple, with just them two.
Edited by ninand - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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OMG if they got married again i swear i would go mad. how great would that be if he re-married geet to build up his feelings and start a fresh how sweet!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ninand

ohmygod skg- I love love love that idea!! Yep.. that time it was grand cause He wanted the world to know and respect her.. to revive her sense of lost honor and respect from her past..

This time its only for themselves.. I want it to be intimate..

I had so wished this happened when he really started falling for her, but anyway, I wanted another marriage between them seeing its likely hes not going to recollect anything very soon.

OhmyGod! I'll die if they do something like that camp confession.. something just like the essence of their love, - pure, and overwhelming. and simple, with just them two.



I am so glad you understood what I was saying! I was afraid it would come off as undue negativity.

But yes, this time, if they get married it would only be for Maan's sake and so only he and Geet should be there. She is the only one who really understands his situation at the moment anyhow. The others are all busy orchestrating ways for him to "accidentally" see the old wedding pictures and looking on smugly when the two bump into each other. She is ironically the only one he could go to with his problems as even Daadi deserted him in a whirl of melodrama. Only Geet would know the exact significance of their remarriage, not read too much into it and not put undue pressure on him, causing a case of one step forward, two steps back, as the rest of the family would undoubtedly do. It would be like you said, pure and simple.

I just keep thinking of them having a big wedding with Jugnu and Lucky doing bhangra and it makes me kind of nauseous. šŸ¤¢šŸ˜†
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Posted: 14 years ago
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oh I'd die if the marriage is a private understated affair with just the familyšŸ˜(they definitely will go for the family being there yaar.. just the two would be too intimate for Maan)

for sure, I dont want over-the-top dhol, dance and all . jeez! Maamaji and lucky dancing... I swear that would gross me out too!! loud and brash!
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