Hell, I just read about this remarriage thing..! and honestly- only last week I had thought that when Maan really starts feeling for her, they should get married before living as husband and wife!š²
yeh.. I really really had thought that!!āļø
Oh thank God cv's.. maah! muWaah! MWAH!š¤
As to the reason- its very simple.
Maan has no recollection of the marriage, or of having any feelings for this girl. that is why, even though one may show him the marriage video, picture, registration , any damn thing.. it will still be just a story to his mind.
Now when he really starts feeling for her, or even if he doesn't and just wants to give her the proper stature of a wife, he will need to perform those rituals again, for the marriage to have a meaning to him... hes a different person, but with the same principles.
Going on without marriage would make him feel like hes doing something wrong. For this Maan to give the proper respect to Geet as his wife, he will want to marry her, again.
It is the with the entire knowledge that you have performed the marriage rituals and accepted each one for what it represents , that one considers oneself married.
If there is not the faintest idea that one was beholden to such a promise around the scared fire, what marital bond are we talking about.š it would be just a set of meaningless rituals.And the rituals are performed and are essential because they discipline one towards the responsibility they are undertaking, in all its piety and gravity.
So he may love her or not, but if he indeed wants to acknowledge their relationship, he'll have to form it again, and for him to believe in that marriage, he'll have to marry again.
People whenever such things arise, try putting yourself in his shoes. It will all make so much sense..
Like if I was in the same situation , and was convinced that I should respect the bond, then I will definitely say "OK, I'll try. but for my peace of mind, can we marry again? " (so that it does not feel like I am being pressured into being intimate with a strangerš³.. the remarriage will definitely make me see him as some kind of husband which no amount of cajoling and pressure from family would have)..
Edit:
The CVs rock-- for making the wedding into a simple and intimate family affair!!š³ The marriage was just so that Maan could feel he was married and that Geet being his wife was something tangible for him...
oh so so glad that the simple affair, is just for that. The PROMO rocks!! I cannot wait for the second marriage.. Maan is just too too good man! too good! Love him!
AND LOVE THE CVsāļøš¤
Edited by ninand - 14 years ago