are they all so naive or plain dumb?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont understand what the hell is wrong with everyone in this serial except for natik. He is the only voice of reason and very soon he will have a mental break down or his head will explode from all the nonsense. G3 is so worried and doesn't want akshara to go to the same doc coz appranely the doc failed to go into akshara's uterus and hold the fetus for nine months and protect it. But does she not know that stress can cause MC very easily. Does she not know that her yelling and telling Rajeshri off and interfering so much will cause stress and therefore put the pregnancy in danger again. And why is everyone crying and so worried. So many MCs happen but if everyone behaves like them no women will be able to give it another try. And what kind of woman is akshara she needs to be happy yah alittle concerned in the beginning but then just happy. It seems as if she is anticipating another miscarriage like how can she let something like that go into her mind. She is smart educated cant she do some research and find out that alot of stress is not good especially early in your pregnancy. And I still dont know how G3 had two kids since she has no basic knowledge or common sense. Like how is the doc responsible for the MC what is her logic?

Bottom line i feel bad for Natik and he soo needs to go see a shrink before he loses it totally.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am not able to take all this... first of all why RJ and Varsha came? It was very much expected of RJ but now Varsha too...instead she would have explained Her MIL about her presence at the hospital completely undesirable...at least Varsha had left her baby at home...if she really has some sense...Gaytri is another one out of control ..too much interfereing in her children's matter...
.just thinking of not watching it for the the time being...can't take all this nuisance...crying and cribbing...
Why blaming doctor? Completely insane!!!
wish doctor tells Naksh ...that in future ( as part of prescription)please don't collect crowd in the hospital and it would be better if all nani's and dadi's visit hospital after the birth of the baby...
Edited by piyualka - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree..
akshara's disrespecting naitik!! that guy is doing so much for her.. uske baad bhi agar vo sun nhi rhi hai to she's wrong..
why doesn't she understand that jo pehle hua, vo zaruri to nhi ki har baar ho.??
may be g3 and rj are very much responsible for all this..
i mean they're acting so paranoid ki akshara ko shayad unhe dekh ke tension ho rhi hai.. jo bhi hai.. can;t akshara tell them to stay away from all this.?? i mean.. she should draw the line now.. just because they are to-be grandparents, it doesn't mean sab unki marzi se ho.. kuch to-be parents ke liye chod do..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont understand what the hell is wrong with everyone in this serial except for natik. He is the only voice of reason and very soon he will have a mental break down or his head will explode from all the nonsense. G3 is so worried and doesn't want akshara to go to the same doc coz appranely the doc failed to go into akshara's uterus and hold the fetus for nine months and protect it. But does she not know that stress can cause MC very easily. Does she not know that her yelling and telling Rajeshri off and interfering so much will cause stress and therefore put the pregnancy in danger again. And why is everyone crying and so worried. So many MCs happen but if everyone behaves like them no women will be able to give it another try. And what kind of woman is akshara she needs to be happy yah alittle concerned in the beginning but then just happy. It seems as if she is anticipating another miscarriage like how can she let something like that go into her mind. She is smart educated cant she do some research and find out that alot of stress is not good especially early in your pregnancy. And I still dont know how G3 had two kids since she has no basic knowledge or common sense. Like how is the doc responsible for the MC what is her logic?

Bottom line i feel bad for Natik and he soo needs to go see a shrink before he loses it totally.


feeling excatly the same i don,t knw wat happened 2 director
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Posted: 14 years ago
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u are right is samey khali naitik maturity dikha raha hai bas and i am completely agree ki akshara ko ab move on karna chaiye aur MC is not such a big issue but woh bechari bhulna bhi chahe to uski saas hai na use yaad dilane ko...😡itni jaada nautanki karenge to akshara sahi rehene ki wajah aur depress ho jayegi bechara naitik khud bhi problem hai tab bhi apni wife ko cheer karta rehta hai jabki usko bhi dhuk hota hoga koi uske baare mai kyon nahi sochta he is such a sweet hubby...😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you guys. They are interfering so much. If I was pregnant the first time I would wanna go to appointment with my hubby and not the whole family. Like let them experience these first things. And also at least if RJ went she is akshara's mom maybe she will be more comfortable with her mom there but why did varsha, Bm and G3 go. It makes no sense. And why the hell do they take ananya everywhere with them. It is the damn hospital not play ground she can get sick.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Everyone is right that G8 is stretching it too too far that she will have a nervous breakdown herself. I have never found her to be an intelligent mother. She agrees to everyone.
Also, what is the thing about naitik's father running around Akshara along with the rest of the women of the house. What was he doing in the kitchen?
There was no need for the Akshara's in-laws and her family to be at the hospital. All these women are totally paranoid. This all is happening because Akshara is panicking...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Gayatri is right, sometimes one doctor fail to understand a problem , and rather then taking risk again and going through all the pain they can get another doctor, rest I dont understand what is the big deal that RJ and Varsha want the same doc? Two people can react differently due to their natural human anatomy, Akshara might have something wrong that previous doc din't check properly. All I know gayatri have given birth to two kids and she knows and wants good for Akashara.
Not to forget how paranoid was RJ when Varsha was pregnant...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet138

I think Gayatri is right, sometimes one doctor fail to understand a problem , and rather then taking risk again and going through all the pain they can get another doctor, rest I dont understand what is the big deal that RJ and Varsha want the same doc? Two people can react differently due to their natural human anatomy, Akshara might have something wrong that previous doc din't check properly. All I know gayatri have given birth to two kids and she knows and wants good for Akashara.

Not to forget how paranoid was RJ when Varsha was pregnant...


There wasn't a pre-existing problem that lead to it. Miscarriages spontaneous do happen in the first reason and humans can't control for it. In fact, as a man, I can tell you parental inferference from both sides during pregnancy and post-partum can sometimes be the worse thing for the mother and for your marriage. Yes, Gayatri has had two kids, but she is not a doctor. Even an uneducated person will tell you, don't create a stressful environment, otherwise, it will lead to a miscarriage. All i know is everyone is hypocritical on this show and Gayatri should worry about her little twit Rashmi. When Rashmi gets pregnant, her in-laws will probably tell Gayatri to go take a hike and Gayatri will probably faint when the "modern" family states that Rashmi will be attempted a water-birth or with the entire family present as birthing doulas/coaches, or when Rashmi breast-feeds in public the first time.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet138

I think Gayatri is right, sometimes one doctor fail to understand a problem , and rather then taking risk again and going through all the pain they can get another doctor, rest I dont understand what is the big deal that RJ and Varsha want the same doc? Two people can react differently due to their natural human anatomy, Akshara might have something wrong that previous doc din't check properly. All I know gayatri have given birth to two kids and she knows and wants good for Akashara.

Not to forget how paranoid was RJ when Varsha was pregnant...


That is the thing if akshara had previous health problems and the doc failed to mention would be totally different situation. If the doc prescribed a wrong medication or something. But there was no such thing it was just one of those things that happen and we dont know why. But G3 first tells akshara not to think and things like this happen and next she is blaming that the doc killed akshara's kid.. And yes she has two kids so shouldnt she know that she cant give akshara any stress also that MCs are very common in early pregnancy. She is just being ridiculous as always there is no logic to what she is saying. She is willing to go to a doc she does not know and has no perosnal experience with but not with one who knows akshra's history and has treated her whole family. You need to be comfortable and familiar with your OB/GYN.

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