Kabhi Neem Neem- Kabi Shahad Shahad - Q&A - Page 2

Hi guys,
I have read all your indepth Bani-Jai analysis and I must say I am impressed by such indepth discussion. Personally speaking, I don't think jai and bani are thinking at all. I think they both have started to have feelings for each other but these feelings aren't strong enough to be called love!! I think bani is a simple person with a simple life, no past haunting secrets there and so she is already starting to realise her feelings for jai. Jai on the other hand is already a cynical person plus he has this whole big secret he is trying to hide so his reactions are more complex. As for him being sweet/sour and confusing Bani, its all impulsive reactions to various situations. I am just hoping his impulses turn more romantic 😳 and less aggressive!!! 😡 or turn all that scary anger towards Jigs/Roshni please

MT, Firstly, I have to comment on the title of this post, Kabhi Neem Neem- Kabhi Shahad Shahad, Kabhi Naram-Naram Kabhi Sakth Sakth... Mora Piya, Mora Piya, Mora Piyaaaa! That is definetly Jai's attitude right now.

I won't answer the questions right now sense I'm bit in a hurry, but will just give out a little bit from my side!

Jai himself is very confused these days. He doesn't himself know what he feels, or how he reacts towards Bani. Sense Mausi has came, Bani's act towards Jai has changed, like she feels that she is her wife, and does have a right over him. For Jai, ever sense Roshni has come into his life, he has changed. And This Raaz that he wants to hide from Bani is only for her good, according to us until now.

See we can say that Bani for sure feels for Jai. She has even questioned herself 'Yeh mein kya soch rahi thi? Mujhe kya ho gaya hai?' This attraction towards Jai, the smile that spreads across her lips when seeing Jai, the worry for Jai all shows that she does care for him, and he is special to her.

Jai on the other side is also warming up a bit, melting down a bit. The change that we have noticed is only for the good! Yes, like others said Jai is trying his very best to NOT fall in love with Bani, par PYAAR to hona hi tha! Even though he yells at Bani all the time, he still shows his affection towards her. That yelling is only because he doesn't want her to know something (and that something is going to kill me if they don't reveal it soon! I mean, bauth intazaar ho gaya!).

Roshni entering their lives..urghhh! Someone please give me a def. of Roshni! I don't understand her grey character! At times I feel is is a postive character! Then, because of the way she acts in interferes in J_B life, she is Neg. After Roshni entered, thats when Jai has actually got the attitude makeover - so suddenly he talks to Bani so sweetly, and our Khadoos also smiles at her now! Hehehehe!

Ah, But i was dissapointed today, she didn't faint. Socha tha ki kuch toh dekhne ko milega! lolz.

Anyways, as for the questions, I really have to rush today, busy busy! Hmm the questions can be answered over the weekends..I can also think about them till then!

Cheerz

Mallika-

Hi MT. Question answer time again. And here I goes.

If Jai wants to divorce Bani and protect her from knowing the mysterious truth that Roshni wants to disclose, then why is he giving mixed signals to Bani? Why is Jai showing care and affection towards Bani when he already guess's very well what she feels for him and such gestures on his part will only deepen her emotions and cause her further pain later on?

-See when a person loves someone, nothing is more important than her happiness. Jai slowly but firmly feels for bani. He develop a feeling of love for bani in his heart. He knows this truth very well. That's why he tried his level best to hide the truth which will give pain to bani which he doesn't want. That's why he wants to divorce her to save her from more pain. but after all jai is not a god. He is a human being. Now it is not in his hand to hide his feelings from bani. Earlier he was succeeded to some extent but at that time he was not in love for bani. There was only hatred feelings. Love replace that feelings. It is always difficult to hide yr emotions when u r in love. So even if he doen;t want to show his care and affection towards bani, he will not be succeed. This is right now happening with him.

Do you feel that the change in Jai's attitude towards Bani is due to Roshni's arrival or has the guilt of making Bani an unneccesary punching bag been lingering in his heart for a long time since their marriage? Or is it simply because he has fallen in love with her much against his wishes and just cannot carry on hurting her anymore?

-Roshani is too far responsible for change in jai's attitude towards bani. It is his love which change his attitude. After their marriage, the kind of care and wifely duty bani has shows, that would be enough to change even a person with no sensitivity. But jai is different kind of a person who is over sensitive and very loving n mature. Which factor change his loving nature no need to say.He was noticing whatever bani has done for him. So it was not hard for a sensitive person like jai first to like bani and than fall in love with her. Ya one thing is sure. With the arrival of roshani, he is going more near to bani. He is kind of protective about her. He is taking care of her emotions and try not to hurt her. (he is not openly saying this but his action convey this. E.g. sleeping on the sofa instead of in roshani's room considering bani's feelings.)

Do you think that Jai is doing more harm to Bani than any good by being caring and kind towards her, incase he is planning to divorce her in a few days?

-Here more than jai, bani will be responsible for her heart breaking. Jai wanted to divorce her for her happiness. He was not happy while saying abt it to bani. It was hurting him but as he loves bani, he is ready to take this pain and let her go. now for bani, jai made his point clear when bani asked his permission to leave, jai said that u r not going right now as masi will be back after 10 days. Once she will leave, u can go. so after knowing jai's intesion, if she deeply fall for jai & care for him (which she is doing right now), I think she will harm herself more.

Do you think that whatever Jai is doing these days has more to do with his own conflicting emotions and feelings than anything planned towards Bani?

-So far after pia and pushkar episode, jai was always saying bani that he will destroy them or u r the one who has to suffer due to them. He has all the power to do so but no he never did it. So no planning involve but ya as u said whatever jai is doing these days has lot to do with his conflicting emotions. On one side he really loves bani. He wants to keep her happy all the life. But at the same time, his haunting past is not allow him to do so. To save bani from horrible truth, sometimes he is being rude to her or shout on her or unnecessarily threaten her. He is torn between love for bani and haunting past. Until past will come out, he will not fully committed to bani. And give pain to himself n bani.

Is it jealousy that is bringing out the Hidden Love for Jai in Bani or is it the already existing Love for Jai in her Heart that is making Bani Jealous?

-Definetly it is the already existing love for jai in bani's heart which is making bani jealous. From the beginning she always like jai and his qualities. After their marriage, she got a chance to understand jai very closely which makes a special place for jai in her heart. More she understand him, slowly love make its place in bani's heart. After masi's entry and her efforts to bring jai-bani close and forced them to do husband-wife duty, jai too start feel for her and that showed in his behaviour which bring bani more closer to him. This is the reason why she is burn like hell with jealousy on seeing jai-roshani together.

What do you make out of Jai's cold threat to Bani, "Agar tum nein mere ateet ke baare mein jaane ki koshish ki, toh mein tumhare bhavishya ko kahin ka nahin chodoonga?"

-This sentence has no importance. It was spontaneously came our from jai's mouth due to his scared feelings. Jai himself knew it has no meaning. If he want to ruin bani, he had done it earlier. He spoke this just to protect bani. In a way that by threatening her like this, she will forget about it and never try to ask anybody about his past. He wants to keep away bani from hurting any more. He wants to see her happy now. Raja ko rani se pyar ho gaya……..

Hope u like the answers.
Love
Surahi.

Okay, I'm back. Just answered questions for Badalti Bhavnaiye, so i'll make this one quick..hehe! 😆

If Jai wants to divorce Bani and protect her from knowing the mysterious truth that Roshni wants to disclose, then why is he giving mixed signals to Bani? Why is Jai showing care and affection towards Bani when he already guess's very well what she feels for him and such gestures on his part will only deepen her emotions and cause her further pain later on?

-See, now you cannot stop your feelings from exposing to your love. Pyaar bata ke nahie hota! He wants to divorce her not because he can't stand her, but because he wants her happy, and away from the bitter truth!

Do you feel that the change in Jai's attitude towards Bani is due to Roshni's arrival or has the guilt of making Bani an unneccesary punching bag been lingering in his heart for a long time since their marriage? Or is it simply because he has fallen in love with her much against his wishes and just cannot carry on hurting her anymore?

-Mixed feelings! He is guilty for all that he had Bani to through, and on top of that, the bitter truth named Roshni gets him worried. So much is going on in his life, and somewhere in there he is falling in love with Bani...it all matters!

Do you think that Jai is doing more harm to Bani than any good by being caring and kind towards her, incase he is planning to divorce her in a few days?

-Yes i suppose he is. If he acts like that towards Bani, it will be hard for her to leave him, divorce him. If he is soft towards her, her feelings for him are only going to increase!

Do you think that whatever Jai is doing these days has more to do with his own conflicting emotions and feelings than anything planned towards Bani?

-According to me, its all the fear and thoughts wandering his mind. Nothing more to say.

Is it jealousy that is bringing out the Hidden Love for Jai in Bani or is it the already existing Love for Jai in her Heart that is making Bani Jealous?

-Ahhh i cant answer this one, too hard! She felt something for him, okay! This jealously is bringing out WHAT she felt for him 😉

What do you make out of Jai's cold threat to Bani, "Agar tum nein mere ateet ke baare mein jaane ki koshish ki, toh mein tumhare bhavishya ko kahin ka nahin chodoonga?"

-He just said this in plain fear, and this anger had anything come out. I suppose he is just trying to drive Bani away from finding out the truth, its only good for her. Cuddles can't do anything to his love.

Vaise, Bani Jai ka bhavishya hai toh Jai aapne bhavishya ko kaise kuch kar sakta hai? sahi na? 😆😉

Nice questions MT! Enjoyed um, i hope my anwers were okay..didn't really answer them completely!

Mallika-

Will be awaiting your answers, my Old Faithfuls!😳

If Jai wants to divorce Bani and protect her from knowing the mysterious truth that Roshni wants to disclose, then why is he giving mixed signals to Bani? Why is Jai showing care and affection towards Bani when he already guess's very well what she feels for him and such gestures on his part will only deepen her emotions and cause her further pain later on? I think after staying with bani for so many days and seeing her selfless and caring behaviour, jai cant help but be polite and soft towards bani. Afterall hamari bani hai hi aisi....😳

Do you feel that the change in Jai's attitude towards Bani is due to Roshni's arrival or has the guilt of making Bani an unneccesary punching bag been lingering in his heart for a long time since their marriage? Or is it simply because he has fallen in love with her much against his wishes and just cannot carry on hurting her anymore? Naah, it does not seem that dis change in jai's behaviour is due to roshni's arrival since he is always rude to bani in front of roshni. We have always seen jai insulting bani in front of roshni, so dis possibility is ruled out. But yes, after observing that bani is doing soo much for him, like helping him hide the truth of their relationship only for the sake of masi, taking care of her .etc, jai is now having a guilt feeling of making bani an unnecessary punching bag n taking his vengence on her. Thus, the change of behaviour on jai's part can be explained.😛

Do you think that Jai is doing more harm to Bani than any good by being caring and kind towards her, incase he is planning to divorce her in a few days?Yup, jai is doing more harm to bani, but only indirectly. By being caring and kind towards bani, he is simply trying to ease of his guilty conscience for whatever wrong he had been doing with bani so far. Maybe in his heart, he feels that bani can never love an elderly man like him and that is why, he is being kind and carin towards her forgetting that she is a human and can fall in luv too. 😕 Hope my answer makes sum sense...😆😆

Do you think that whatever Jai is doing these days has more to do with his own conflicting emotions and feelings than anything planned towards Bani?Yes, it definately has to do with his own conflicting emotions and feelings. It does not seem as if it is all planned. Its quite obvious that jai gets all frantic at bani at one second and the other second he bcums soft and caring towards her. This would mean only one thing, he is falling for her inspite of not wanting too. Kya kare, dil hai ki manta nahi..😉😳

Is it jealousy that is bringing out the Hidden Love for Jai in Bani or is it the already existing Love for Jai in her Heart that is making Bani Jealous? Jealousy is definately bringing out the hidden luv for jai in bani. So far, she herself has not realised it fully that she is in luv with her khadoos..😆

What do you make out of Jai's cold threat to Bani, "Agar tum nein mere ateet ke baare mein jaane ki koshish ki, toh mein tumhare bhavishya ko kahin ka nahin chodoonga?" Dis is just an empty threat...😆😆 jai always blabbers..but does nothing 😆....he is just trying to stop bani from finding the secret...

P.S: MT, i just luv ur qs and anws....dunno how u manage to gather them...but dey are really gud and makes us all scratch our heads. Hats off to you 👏

Do xcuse me for da numerous colors dat i have used... 😆 😆 actually i m in a very colourful mood 2day 😉 😆 😆

👏 Thank you all for the Great Answers....Oh, don't ask me how I get these question's in my head, I guess beacuse I know that you guys will come up with fabulous answers...and that becomes an inspiration for coming up with such questions! 😃

Thank you once again for the fabulous response!

Lots of Love,

MT

and thanks for ur fablous questions MT 😳 😉